FabGuys.com forum: Sex in Marriage (or not)

By *oveKnickers OP Man
4 weeks ago

near Curracloe and Wexford town

Looking at the large number of mature married men on here looking for fun it appears that sex goes out of most marriages.

I wonder what causes this, how the women actually feel. Do they want no sex or different sex too?

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By *upertedMan
4 weeks ago

Nelson

I think there is often a libido mismatch. Our women folk also have the menopause to contend with.

I'm nearly 50 and feel I'm more hornier now than when I was 18!!

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By *977mkMan
4 weeks ago

Lancs

i'm getting hornier as i get older as well lol.

still got a good sex life with the mrs and turns me onto her even more when wanking with other guys who perv on her

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
4 weeks ago

penzance

I think menopause has kicked in, she has said herself sex doesn't t really do it for her anymore, with anyone..she used to be pretty wild, but now it's occasional and only when we go to bed at night..such is life..though she gets pretty narky if menopause is mentioned lol

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By *airythighs61Man
4 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Isn't it part of the course after a long partnership? ...sadly no sex at all at home !

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By *nlyme999Man
4 weeks ago

cumbria

We used to have a fantastic sex life. Sadly when the menopause hit sex just dried up. Still love her, just not physically

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
4 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

My wife and I still have a great sex life, our sex life together has nothing to do with me seeking cock on here, I just love being mounted by a guy and fucked senseless which is something I can't get with my wife, it isn't the same when the wife pegs me, it has to be a real cock rutting me senseless.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Sex stopped before menopause...was never wonderful anyway

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By *ornblower555Man
4 weeks ago

wexford

There are a lot of guys on here through frustration at home from their wives lack of interest.

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By *oger_07Man
4 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Yes. I have sex with my wife but I like to suck dick

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

2011 was last time she isn’t interested at all

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By *arriedbiMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

Ain't had sex with her in omg what year is it lol X my body n me now gay so men only

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By *jh59Man
4 weeks ago

Hinckley

Started when the menopause kicked in

She’s 51 I’m 66

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By *reigsyMan
3 weeks ago

Perth

Sex with the wife is extremely infrequent sadly. I love sex and it’s a big part of who I am. Luckily I also love cock and that’s why I’m here

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By *hycolinMan
3 weeks ago

north east.

Have sex every other week if I’m lucky but need to cum every day.

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By *seekfunMan
3 weeks ago

stevenage

My wife went though big M

Sex completely stopped over night.

The bit I don't understand is I realise she has no sex drive and doesn't want to give me a bj or let me wank over her tits but it's only 30 mins I'm asking for.

Yet I'm expected to for eg go shopping all day

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By *ickmylollipop69Man
3 weeks ago

warrington

Must be over 10years now ….

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By *igray999Man
3 weeks ago

Southampton

My bbw wife still loves her sex even after her hysterectomy. Still gets wet n horny. But I still love sunkind and taking cock.

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By *illyoneMan
3 weeks ago

Hailsham

It seems our ladies sex drive switches off at some point whereas ours continues for the rest of our lives . Still love my wife dearly and would love sex with her but due to medical problems we no longer have any. So frustrating.

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By *oannacd70TV/TS
3 weeks ago

worcester

Strange how the word that stops women having sex is called the menapose

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By *avewill1Man
3 weeks ago

wilts

"Looking at the large number of mature married men on here looking for fun it appears that sex goes out of most marriages.

I wonder what causes this, how the women actually feel. Do they want no sex or different sex too?"
. I don't think the few guys on here is a fair proportion of older married guys in the uk

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By *amsoonMan
3 weeks ago

stornoway

My wife at 79 still enjoys her lover

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By *ll foxMan
3 weeks ago

WORKSOP

I’m always horny and wanting to be playing naked!

However the wife, although still wanting sex occasionally does not have the drive!

The hormones and menopause causes the situation!

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By *ig3Man
3 weeks ago

Maldon

Haven't had sex with the wife for 3 yrs now she lost her sex drive

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By *ipaul71Man
3 weeks ago

Talke

We've been married for over 30 years. We have more sex than ever. We are very open

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By *reakawayMan
3 weeks ago

Black country

Sex is occasional for me and the wife. Once a month average. Only more frequent on holiday. Not enough for me. I have been very frustrated over the years but have learned to live with it. Hence Im on here. Would love to hear from and link up with any guys near me in the same situation.

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By *ummybear69Man
3 weeks ago

North Derbyshire

Sex is very infrequent for us, maybe limited to once a month. More with a change of scenery, often results in her letting me use her body for my fulfilment but I can tell she's not really into it, we used to swing together but again very rare that happens now.

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By *eghardMan
3 weeks ago

Maidenhead

The menopause often changes things. My wife's drive reduced hugely. We still have sex fairly regularly, either oral, hand or full, but I'm hornier now than 30 years ago, so hence I'm on here too.

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By *ull bi for funMan
3 weeks ago

hull

"Strange how the word that stops women having sex is called the menapose "

Should be called menonpause

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By *incsvillagerMan
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

My wife is mid 30’s. She has just come off the pill following my vasectomy. She can’t get enough all of a sudden, she wants sex constantly

She also seems to be opening up about being more adventurous, asking questions about what I have done with other guys and talking about how she’s not experienced enough

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By *eltonsubMan
3 weeks ago

Melton

My wife is very passive during sex and it is difficult to get worked up or intrested, where as with a active guy much easier

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By *ickinyouMan
3 weeks ago

reading

My wife loves sex with me and as meny men as she can so now I let her fuck as meny guys as she likes x

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By *unincornwall321Man
3 weeks ago

launceston

Sexless marriage wife going through menopause..a man has his needs

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By *urreyWant2SuckMan
3 weeks ago

Haslemere

Kids… menopause… work pressures and shifts all contribute to us not doing much any more.

Basically, life just getting in the way

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By *irty scubyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Same as most guys on here... my girlfriend lost her sex drive during menopause.. still happens occasionally and I still love her.... I have a high sex drive, always have so get my kicks on here, she doesn't mind.

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By *evonbear89Man
3 weeks ago

exeter

Still have sex with wife but i need cock also

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By *ike 57Man
3 weeks ago

clonmel

does she know that you enjoy cock?

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By *omoredenialMan
3 weeks ago

Swaffham

Lots of sex with my mrs

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By *acks1964Man
3 weeks ago

Central Scotland

Have not had sex with wife for a good mumber of years, health reasons & menopause means she has no interest in sex at all so I now enjoy cocks !!

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By *onstant.Man
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Same not had sex with my wife for a lot of years .menopause. and other health issues. Before then was lucky if it was every couple of months. I only want cock now.

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By *i56Man
3 weeks ago

yeading northolt

I must be the lucky one my wife went through menopause put on patches found new sexual needs but I was in poor health spinal problems difficult times she would give me bjs nice but found guys to fuck her meeting in hotels she took her tablet with her set up watsap video so i could watch and she was safe in first lockdown she stayed in hotel with other hospital staff medical students their were partys in guys rooms drinks music dancing she was very popular with guys rubbing against her she feeling their bulges she enjoyed different cocks and was often fucked by 2guys most nights sometimes more depending upon what she had d*unk enjoying orgasams she got being fucked

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By *k73Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Very lucky indeed

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By *k73Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Non ignistant with mine these days

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Over the last 4 years we’ve averaged 5 times a year , not good

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By *D_SuckerTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Sileby

My BBW girlfriend is going through menopause and is frequently frisky BUT I love cock, she knows that and I tell her if she wants sex to find it elsewhere....

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

Wife menopausal which appears to have paused the sex. Fingers crossed she gets back into it.

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By *inkster147TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Me and wife been together 23 years we love kink and started involving others last year

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By *arriedbiMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

I not fussed that wife don't like sex now as made secret bi to gay transition easy well easyish

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By *alker1965Man
3 weeks ago

Wimborne

"Must be over 10years now …. "

Same here, she mentions it now and again but nothing happens

Only ever did missionary when we did.

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By *artin1963Man
3 weeks ago

crouch end

My wife, who I love to bits, has gone off the whole thing. I am feeling energised to search for cock.

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By *irralGuy20Man
3 weeks ago

Wirral

My missus is the one with the strongest libido in our relationship. It's just a pity (for her) that I no longer have interest in sex with women.

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By *ldderMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Wife and I haven't had sex for longer than I can remember. But being a bottom guy I hope my deep warm hole can give those who aren't getting it at home some pleasure and relief

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By *hil96Man
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"My missus is the one with the strongest libido in our relationship. It's just a pity (for her) that I no longer have interest in sex with women."

This is me to.i only want cock these days, I love my wife bit just don't fancy sex with women. Been 2 years since we had sex.

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By *om1968Man
3 weeks ago

Southampton

"My missus is the one with the strongest libido in our relationship. It's just a pity (for her) that I no longer have interest in sex with women.

This is me to.i only want cock these days, I love my wife bit just don't fancy sex with women. Been 2 years since we had sex. "

Me too. I have been exclusively gay for several years now. The idea of sex with women seems so alien to me now

all the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Not.

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By *ano124Man
3 weeks ago

gosport

Defo not so have fun with cock instead

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By *ayhubbyMan
3 weeks ago

liverpool

No sex with wife for years . Couldn’t really satisfy her

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By *nmykneesagainMan
3 weeks ago

salford

Not had sex with my wife in 2 years. She gets it other places

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By *astersteve906Man
3 weeks ago

Near Lutterworth

My wife's had an operation which unfortunately means that she can't have sex, so it means I don't have sex

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By *appychap32Man
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

My wife is going through early menopause. Shes 45 and im 41 and at the minute we haven't had sex for at least 8-9 months. Its fucking brutal on my part. Shes only just admitted she thinks she's going through menopause and has said she has no interest in sex at the min. She rang doctors last week an they told her to come of the pill and booked an appointment to get bloods done.

Shes hoping to be put on hrt. Does hrt make woman horny?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Married no sex for a good while now, due to the menopause. Hence why I’m here

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By *k73Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Menopause done mine det nothing of her now not even a wank

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

It just didn’t occur to me when we got married that this would be the case one day. Me sexed up more than ever and she the puritan. c’est la vie.

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By *asculine.bottomMan
3 weeks ago

bristol

Sadly it's not just the mature guys this happens to

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By *englooMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton

Wife still wants sex but I find that I need to think about guys to get hard and cum.

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By *enayrshMan
3 weeks ago

ayr

Wife has menapause so no sex

Spend alot of time in here

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By *i60subMan
3 weeks ago

Northampton

No sex here in marriage - I prefer cock now anyway

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By *otsure03Man
3 weeks ago

witney

Not in mine

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By *k73Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

No sex in marriage here to

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By *uesada guyMan
3 weeks ago

Thurrock

She landed the bomb shell last week that she would be happy not to have sex again. Ohh..

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By *azaMan
3 weeks ago

Walsall

And definitely no sex here also.

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By *lasgowbi 100Man
3 weeks ago

rutherglen

Same here no sex for a couple of years now

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By *raham999Man
3 weeks ago

OX11

We used to have a great sex life up until several years ago but due to medical problems then the menopause sex stopped.

Luckily I acted on my curiosity and have great sex with other guys most in similar situations and married.

I'm 70 and loving it.

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By *ello 1000Man
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

As a single gent, my thoughts were that you married gentlemen were having sex every night

Reading the comments on this thread shows how wrong I was

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By *D SusanMan
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

none in mine for years but i have discovered i like to dress and suck cock so it isnt all bad

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