FabGuys.com forum: What's the appeal of older men?

By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

I am an older man, approaching 60, and find the thought of having sex with a much younger guy very appealing. Been getting quite a few offers too, lately, as well as actual attention from a few more. But I want to understand their perspective on it, why an older man is so attractive to them. And are looks important or is it just the age difference that turns them on? Would love to discuss this.

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By *bi2Man
3 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

I love the age gap and they tend not to mess you about

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By *awtybtmMan
3 weeks ago

belfast city centre

I find an older man is more respectable and more experienced. If an older guy agrees on a meet its agreed where as in my experience i found people my age or younget can be a let down

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By *onkfish10Man
3 weeks ago

Telford

I get lots of attention from younger keep it up lads

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By *etro manMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Sometimes better to meet same or near age group it’s finding places to meet up

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"I love the age gap and they tend not to mess you about "

Do you ever act as the top for an older guy?

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By *ensualblokeMan
3 weeks ago

Colchester

I think many love the older guy that will pay for the lift, the hotel, the taxi home etc. etc.

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By *ldderMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Love younger tops

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By *airybearbtMan
3 weeks ago

Penzance

I.love the age gap

Personally they

Are more passionate more attentive and they know how to make a bottom like me feel fantastic

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Thanks for the replies - really helpful!

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By *ndtimeMan
3 weeks ago

spalding

Olden is golden as they say. Personally it’s the confidence and experience an older guy brings to the bedroom that I like

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Must admit I’ve had more younger guys offers not complaining at all he he he

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

There's a natural dominance I feel with older men. That appeals to me greatly because I'm such a large imposing guy that it's extremely unlikely that I'd find someone who could physically dominate me.

Even if they're jacked with muscles their usually still half a foot shorter than me.

So older men for me give a natural dominance through experience I guess.

Plus I find they tend to know what they want, nothing less sexy for me than indecisive

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By *illycoop29Man
3 weeks ago

Banff

Love a old guy talk about my gf and cum over her

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
3 weeks ago

Dublin

For me they know what they want

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By *bi2Man
3 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

Top or bottom I don’t mind

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I know

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

They're often sleazy and filthy and I like that

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By *ichub83Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

I love a refined, well-spoken, gentle older man. Partly I think due to initial experiences, and partly because of the gentle taking me in hand knowing what to do. It’s not a top/bottom thing, I’m not into that, it’s just very erotic.

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By *ungusMan
3 weeks ago

gidea park

Reassuring and loving

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

More fantastic, inspiring replies. Thank you guys!

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By *dmirer53Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

69 and a gentleman but it doesn't seem to be doing me any good ,if any mature Manchester feminine guys would like to chat or more I'm here x

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By *bi2Man
3 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

"I love the age gap and they tend not to mess you about

Do you ever act as the top for an older guy? "

Top or bottom

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"I love the age gap and they tend not to mess you about

Do you ever act as the top for an older guy?

Top or bottom "

Brilliant! So glad to hear it.

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By *os001Man
3 weeks ago

Oxford

"Love younger tops "

Me too, although some of them do mess you about!

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
3 weeks ago

North East

Definitely get more attention from older guys and it turns me on especially as they bring plenty experience

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By *al430Man
3 weeks ago

Nearby

Older but not sleazy. Love being about horny young lads and find a big age gap is so hot. Decent young lads do get in touch

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By *akarreMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I find guys of any age hot, older isn’t an issue

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By *ornyJosh_247Man
3 weeks ago

Preston

Yes love the attention of older guys it’s an age gap kinky thing x

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By *valittleoneMan
3 weeks ago

hampshire

Older guy here, I seem to still get a lot of attention

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By *ilke500Man
3 weeks ago

edinburgh

When I was a lad the attraction to older men was probably their experience and knowledge and what I could learn from them.

Think it’s probably still the same now.

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By *iltsguy79Man
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

For me. I like to be sub with guys. And there is something about someone being older than me that my brain finds easy to associate with someone with authority for some reason. And I found the older men I've met in the past are usually the kinkiest ones.

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By *ardch30Man
3 weeks ago

salisbury

Respectful, less pushy, comfortable and usually naughtier. They turn me on a lot

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By *oroBi69Man
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Mine come from my uncle. He was my rock’s a kid.

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By *enjamin2018Man
3 weeks ago

Halstead

I'm not generally attracted to guys my age but I can understand why younger guys might prefer older guys , which as an older guy , I'm happy to embrace.

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

So glad I started this thread. You're all giving me a great deal of confidence, I must say. Always thought things would wind down once I was past 40 but so wrong.

Visited a sauna a while back just to have somewhere to watch porn and wank off in private but was amazed at what happened. Hadn't even got changed and a young lad was all over me, touching my cock through my towel. We had sex in a cubicle and then he left. Two minutes later the lad on reception came over and offered to show me around the place. Before I knew it, he had me in another cubicle with my legs in the air...

Since then was wondering if this was all a fluke or not, but have now started going to a local sauna regularly and can't believe the things that happen to me.

Thank you so much, lads. It only means the future looks very bright for you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Older guy here colchester looking for younger

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By *ear891Man
3 weeks ago

Teddington

I personally find older guys more attractive. Especially 50+ who have a nice beard, bear type, my type a guy

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By *ightbulb16Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s the contrast and the taboo nature of it for me!

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By *arnyslutMan
3 weeks ago

Fakenham

It's just something young is ok but older just satisfies more

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By *rottingfun69Man
3 weeks ago

derby

Honestly for a lot it’s the reliability of someone older they generally meet and actually turn up also the fact they don’t mess about know what they want and get straight to business.

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By *atskinMan
3 weeks ago

Gourock

Im 60 in a couple of weeks and know it'll both rule me out for some younger guys and for others count me in, lol.

I do get turned on by the age difference, definitely but I find younger guys can dine out on it so it's time limited.

Guys nearer my age or older tend to know their onions but usually can't accom.

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By *alpalMan
3 weeks ago

Scartho, Grimsby

Older man here, 68, but do prefer older guys myself, less pushy, take their time and don't expect a lot

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By *ockncumlover96Man
3 weeks ago

Harrow

Just love the soft cocks getting harder in my mouth and then going soft in my arse

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By *ick62Man
3 weeks ago

North Notts

When I was a young lad I couldn’t get enough old cock mmmmmm

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By *eorge00Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Experience, knowledge and fun

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By *dfunMan
3 weeks ago

west Sussex

I love an older man

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By *otjustlooking75Man
3 weeks ago

Prestwick

About the only thing I'm looking forward to in getting closer to fifty lol

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I always find older men very attractive.

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By *aldie guyMan
3 weeks ago

Sydenham

78 here prefer older more gentle

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By *omyorksMan
3 weeks ago

York

When I was 40, I was often told I was 'too young'

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"When I was 40, I was often told I was 'too young'"

Yes, you look young with a baby face. I just saw your face photo.

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By *ammtMan
3 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

Older men tend to be a bit more dominant and don’t mess you about love an older man

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

worcester

Have always loved older men, think a lot of other subs are the same x

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Thank you once again for all your responses. Have now made a couple of sauna visits and found a new confidence following your messages. I am much more likely to make the first approach now. And pleased with what happens!

I am now having more fulfilling sex at 70 than at any other time in my life.

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By *orlestonbottomMan
3 weeks ago

Great Yarmouth

Where to start with this… older men are soooo damn sexy. Of course there’s the age & power dynamic of submitting to an older man, the idea of someone more experienced than you who cuts straight to what they want without any messing around, not ashamed to speak their mind etc etc… But more than this, my experience is older guys are just flat out sexy and I love being manhandled by them.

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"Where to start with this… older men are soooo damn sexy. Of course there’s the age & power dynamic of submitting to an older man, the idea of someone more experienced than you who cuts straight to what they want without any messing around, not ashamed to speak their mind etc etc… But more than this, my experience is older guys are just flat out sexy and I love being manhandled by them."

Feel free to consider yourself manhandled.

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By *rgeo OP Man
3 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

This all makes sense now, explains one or two encounters over the last couple of years. A very shy, polite, extremely good-looking Muslim man invited me to his home. It was a very slow and erotic experience for me. Obviously, he felt very safe with me; I was no threat.

I am so glad and lucky to have met him through this website. His profile disappeared afterwards, but he remains a very fond memory.

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