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"I'm very interested in finding a genuine friendship with anyone who could pop round and have coffee etc. getting to know my wife on a platonic level then me and him could go out without suspicion for regular full on sex ideally within 20 miles of me, anyone genuinely interested please get in touch, here's hoping pete "You ABSOLUTELY 100% need to find a believable common ground, how you met, WHY you met etc. Just suddenly having a 'new friend' won't wash and may just invite a LOT of questions that you're not prepared for and/or don't have a suitable immediate reply to. Stammering / faulting / tripping over your own tongue when suddenly asked an innocent question is a MASSIVE RED FLAG for her. Think about it carefully, if your wife suddenly acquired a new friend and started to want to disappear 'for a coffee' with them, how would you feel? Suspicious? Worried? Of course you would. She may not even remotely consider the fact that your new man friend was there for sex. In which case she could enter full panic mode (and I wouldn't blame her) or even start to feel 'something was going on' and start a whole host of negative responses (what's going on, am I not good enough, where did he come from etc etc etc). If you want to pursue this course, then you and a prospective new partner need to have your stories 1billion% water tight and realistic. Remember, she's your wife, probably has been for many years - she likely knows you a HELL OF A LOT better than you think!! (I was married for 35years, believe me, wives now every last nook and cranny, where the bodies are buried, where you're vulnerable). I know I sound like the prophet of doom but I'm actually trying to be helpful. Just please remember, CID,MI5,FSB,FBI,CIA etc are nothing compared to a suspicious wife. They won't suddenly fire a question at you at 1am in bed, over breakfast or out shopping. PLEASE just be very very careful. You have both your own and your wife's situation and emotions to consider. She must have loved you very much to marry you, please respect that. Anyway, good luck, but please be careful - for you and her. Sharon xx ps you can PM me if you want to chat. Maybe even voice call etc if that would help? Just trying to help. It can be difficult conversing via a website. | |||
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" You ABSOLUTELY 100% need to find a believable common ground, how you met, WHY you met etc. Just suddenly having a 'new friend' won't wash and may just invite a LOT of questions that you're not prepared for and/or don't have a suitable immediate reply to. Stammering / faulting / tripping over your own tongue when suddenly asked an innocent question is a MASSIVE RED FLAG for her. Think about it carefully, if your wife suddenly acquired a new friend and started to want to disappear 'for a coffee' with them, how would you feel? Suspicious? Worried? Of course you would. She may not even remotely consider the fact that your new man friend was there for sex. In which case she could enter full panic mode (and I wouldn't blame her) or even start to feel 'something was going on' and start a whole host of negative responses (what's going on, am I not good enough, where did he come from etc etc etc). If you want to pursue this course, then you and a prospective new partner need to have your stories 1billion% water tight and realistic. Remember, she's your wife, probably has been for many years - she likely knows you a HELL OF A LOT better than you think!! (I was married for 35years, believe me, wives now every last nook and cranny, where the bodies are buried, where you're vulnerable). I know I sound like the prophet of doom but I'm actually trying to be helpful. Just please remember, CID,MI5,FSB,FBI,CIA etc are nothing compared to a suspicious wife. They won't suddenly fire a question at you at 1am in bed, over breakfast or out shopping. PLEASE just be very very careful. You have both your own and your wife's situation and emotions to consider. She must have loved you very much to marry you, please respect that. Anyway, good luck, but please be careful - for you and her. Sharon xx ps you can PM me if you want to chat. Maybe even voice call etc if that would help? Just trying to help. It can be difficult conversing via a website. " Exactly this...your wife probably knows you better than you know yourself. Have fun but be careful. | |||
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