FabGuys.com forum: First time nerves

By *urious44wales OP Man
5 days ago

South Wales

Anyone any ideas how to cope with first time nerves?? Im 50 how and been thinking about meeting a guy for 30 years but never quite done it. Hopefully find someone nice the same position to explore with soon!

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
5 days ago

Strood

Try not to overthink it.

Everyone gets nervous, but (for me) the fact that we’d met for the very purpose of cock fun was enough to make me relaxed and very hard.

Don’t expect too much, just let things happen.

Also, I found it better no not chat for too long before undressing. In the door and get on with things pretty quickly works for me.

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By *noncumdumpMan
5 days ago

Watford

Find an experienced guy and tell him you are nervous. We know what to do.

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By *uckmeslow555Man
5 days ago

oakham

"Try not to overthink it.

Everyone gets nervous, but (for me) the fact that we’d met for the very purpose of cock fun was enough to make me relaxed and very hard.

Don’t expect too much, just let things happen.

Also, I found it better no not chat for too long before undressing. In the door and get on with things pretty quickly works for me. "
lovely cock mate

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By *urious44wales OP Man
5 days ago

South Wales

Thanks guys, some sound advice!

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By *eanDevizesMan
5 days ago

Devizes

Why don't you meet a guy who you will have to part cash with first. One that shows boyfriend experience on his profile. You can have a taste and a run though with a guy who knows what he is doing. I think he would rid any nerves you may have.

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
5 days ago

West London

I think we’ve all been there, and as someone who doesn’t play with guys very often I still get nervous but it’s just part of the experience.

I was also curious for a long time but I’m very glad I tried, and it’s not such a big deal once you’ve actually done it

Really hope you enjoy your first experience

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By *onewolf0069Man
5 days ago

solihull

I welcome the nerves, makes it all so much more exciting! Such an adrenaline rush!

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By *alebiMan
5 days ago

CF45

First time is always nervous, but that much makes it more fun

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By *ikepetersMan
5 days ago

yeovil

I get really nervous thinking about it . Probably why I've not plucked up the courage for years now

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By *ontylad87Man
5 days ago

pontefract

I find anon l helps! Waiting fsce down ass up, blindfolded!

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By *onstant.Man
5 days ago

Middlesbrough

I get nervous about every new person I'm about to meet up with.

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By *udi222Man
5 days ago

Harrogate

I was so nervous before my first time with a guy 1 on 1. I kept talking myself out of it with too much time to think. So I did a very short notice meet first with about an hour between 1st contact and meeting. No chance to overthink it.

Ultimately if you try it and dont enjoy it then you've lost nothing. If you enjoy it then you've broken the ice and can be more relaxed about further meets.

It doesn't have to be a life changing moment if you dont want it to be.

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By *rytonTV/TS
5 days ago

Chatham

I was 50 when I decided to try my first cock. With the added disadvantage of it would be the first time being seen in lingerie by anyone. Chatted to a guy for awhile and basically plan the evening out. Amazing meet. Had no problem ducking his cock.

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By *arnieMan
5 days ago

Lincoln

I'm happy to put a bloke who's new to this at his ease.

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By *ave702000TV/TS
5 days ago

Scarborough

Been thinking about it for many years and started talking to another dresser and trying to make plans to meet both dressed and go from there when I am ready soon

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By *ampell1Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

Actually I like the first time nervous the anticipation

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By *andy2021TV/TS
4 days ago

Huntingdon

I think were all nervous the first time with me it was a work mate who was much older than me we flirted alot be for we got together then when he left I found it hard to find another guy

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By *att1210Man
4 days ago

Newcastle

First time is always going to be a wild rush. Same as your first with a girl only you were much younger and the excitement was what drove it. Just try get back into that frame of mind and go enjoy it like a puppy dive right in

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By *sspaaMan
4 days ago

sligo

Obviously don't get pissed but a drink or two before can help you get over all your bullshit

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By *urious44wales OP Man
2 days ago

South Wales

Thanks guys!

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By *anny30007Man
2 days ago

Stevenage

I find chatting online beforehand helps a little. You get to know them a bit.

It is nerve-wracking meeting anyone but just go with the flow and enjoy it. You may find they are as nervous as you but don't say it.

Hope you have a great time with someone.

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