FabGuys.com forum: Regret

By *harlie2653 OP Man
3 days ago

Bingham

Does anybody else get really turned on doing gay stuff and then after cumming feel regret and shame? Am I just weird?

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By *heshguy2024Man
3 days ago

Widnes / Runcorn

You're gay ... don't regret being who you are, life is too short x

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By *oel2020Man
3 days ago

brough

Yea xx

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By *treyu500Man
3 days ago

Australia

"Does anybody else get really turned on doing gay stuff and then after cumming feel regret and shame? Am I just weird?"

No, it's very "normal" or typical. People often feel shame after cuming , regardless of sexuality. Mine only went away after I went to speak to a professional. I specifically found a gay man who supports LGBT people as I felt too judged to even talk about it.

And now I can live the rest of my life without feeling that way ever again. I highly advise it, although a different or blended approach may work for you.

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By *ike919Man
3 days ago

Grimsby

I feel similar after finishing, I wouldnt call it shame but often I am instantly turned off, pretty normal happens to most

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By *art1610Man
3 days ago

Manchester

I use to feel guilty after sex with guy. Took me decades to come to terms with my bisexuality and accept who I am. I don’t choose my sexuality, but I have learned to live with it. X

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By *has2Man
3 days ago

Chaddesden, Derby

"Post coitum omne animal triste est sive gallus et mulier" translated as "After sexual intercourse every animal is sad, both the cock (rooster) and the woman"

It's an old saying and an old problem!

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By *wadbisexualMan
2 days ago

Castle Gresley

Regret & shame... no, though i find i rarely cum during a meet, I'm more interested in making the top cum than myself,

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By *ndrewfunMan
2 days ago

London

I love doing gay stuff then coming home and sticking my unwashed cock into my wife.

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By *ightbumholeMan
2 days ago

Halifax

"Regret & shame... no, though i find i rarely cum during a meet, I'm more interested in making the top cum than myself, "

Same

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By *tevejbMan
2 days ago

Leeds

I ve had a few

But then again too few to mention

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By *hubbyirishguy37Man
2 days ago

margate

Only thing I regret is not having enough

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
2 days ago

Strood

A couple of times I felt a little awkward & disappointed in myself, but then I got my head around the fact that it’s just two people having a bit of sexy fun together without labelling it.

Now though, the ‘gay’ thoughts in my head are actually a turn-on when I’m with a guy.

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
2 days ago

South Derbyshire

I still feel guilty after I've cum. Not every time but most times. Someone earlier mentioned counselling. It's something I've thought about but with a woman.

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By *ature164Man
2 days ago

Watford

I was the same the first few times was a bit disgusted with myself then came to terms with it that I actually liked it and even craved it

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By *ornymwellbiMan
2 days ago

Motherwell

I did at the start now just accept its part of me and what I love and need

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By *appycock55Man
2 days ago

Aberdeenshire

I use to when younger, now I love it.

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By *asssgeguy100Man
2 days ago

North West

I did the first couple of meets but not anymore

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By *azaMan
2 days ago

Walsall

The only regrets I have is I didn't start earlier in life

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By *unlad777Man
1 day ago

Cornwall

My main regret is not having the courage to find love when I was younger. Fun runs out, but love lives on.

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By *appycock55Man
1 day ago

Aberdeenshire

"The only regrets I have is I didn't start earlier in life"

Don’t, I started far to early and regret that I didn’t wait till i knew what I liked.

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By *leethorpebiMan
1 day ago

Waltham

I used to feel guilty and regretted it when I first started to meet guys, now 30 years I just except I am bi and love gay sex as well straight sex

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By *treyu500Man
1 day ago

Australia

"The only regrets I have is I didn't start earlier in life

Don’t, I started far to early and regret that I didn’t wait till i knew what I liked. "

I'm still figuring out what I like. It's part of the fun

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By *ritstoneMan
1 day ago

Cheshire

Feeling shame for being perfectly normal - NO!

You need to get past it, it's not healthy for you.

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