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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men " You must live in a boring world | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men " Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore. | |||
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"It does feel the distinction between this site n swingers is too blurred and has become this way since Covid. In fairness where do you put the line?" I’d say keep all the wife/gf/dogging/female bits/etc chat on the swingers site. Keep this one for cock - this is supposed to be for man on man hookups. | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men " Well im married, I say im bi, because I was told off for saying I was gay, but I only exclusively look at gay sex? | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore." Are you trying to say that TV/TS/XD and Bi Men should not be on this site ?. Or are you Saying that there are too many Story's involving Women and TV/TS ?. If it's the Story/Fantasy then if you don't like the subject DON'T READ IT. | |||
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"Imo it boils down to misogyny. There are no women here, so guys are able to talk about their wives, share their pics, underwear etc non consensually and disrespectfully in ways that would be immediately called out in a mixed audience. The lack of regard and respect that some guys show for their wives/partners on here because they know they will get away with it unchallenged can be shocking at times. " Agreed, I'm also on Fabswingers and a lot of those posts just wouldn't be acceptable on there. | |||
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"The site is for ADULT males to meet other ADULT males - end of story. Who they meet, how they dress, what they talk about, what they do are all irrelevant. If you don’t like someone or something then move on and stop whinging. " It becomes an issue when on a forum linked to a gay hook up site (Bi and TV/TS/CD included), the boards are dominated by threads involving wives, girlfriends, female celebs they'd like to fuck, wife having sex, wife's dirty knickers, wife's knicker drawer, wife's tits, wife's/girlfriends pussy, the list could go on and on and on and on, if these men are so obsessed with women, then what are they doing here? | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore. Are you trying to say that TV/TS/XD and Bi Men should not be on this site ?. Or are you Saying that there are too many Story's involving Women and TV/TS ?. If it's the Story/Fantasy then if you don't like the subject DON'T READ IT. " And if you don’t like other peoples views then DON’T READ THEM - works both ways. | |||
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"The site is for ADULT males to meet other ADULT males - end of story. Who they meet, how they dress, what they talk about, what they do are all irrelevant. If you don’t like someone or something then move on and stop whinging. It becomes an issue when on a forum linked to a gay hook up site (Bi and TV/TS/CD included), the boards are dominated by threads involving wives, girlfriends, female celebs they'd like to fuck, wife having sex, wife's dirty knickers, wife's knicker drawer, wife's tits, wife's/girlfriends pussy, the list could go on and on and on and on, if these men are so obsessed with women, then what are they doing here?"  | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore. Are you trying to say that TV/TS/XD and Bi Men should not be on this site ?. Or are you Saying that there are too many Story's involving Women and TV/TS ?. If it's the Story/Fantasy then if you don't like the subject DON'T READ IT. And if you don’t like other peoples views then DON’T READ THEM - works both ways." And we are all Allowed to Express our opinion. I was Asking Questions to which no Answers have come forth | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore. Are you trying to say that TV/TS/XD and Bi Men should not be on this site ?. Or are you Saying that there are too many Story's involving Women and TV/TS ?. If it's the Story/Fantasy then if you don't like the subject DON'T READ IT. And if you don’t like other peoples views then DON’T READ THEM - works both ways. And we are all Allowed to Express our opinion. I was Asking Questions to which no Answers have come forth " And I think many people have answered your question if you read through the posts, Which is not a problem just cut out all the wife/gf/women’s bits/etc threads and I don’t think there would be anywhere the amount of discontent being caused. I mean, what has “who is shagging your wife, or women’s feet, or camel toes or wanting to swap intimate pictures of your wife (now illegal) etc. got to do with with the purpose of this site. | |||
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"Gay site for gays, tv site for those and married heterosexual swinger on there site why can lines not be drawin’ in sand over some items I use both sites but I clearly look for men to be with men Agree completely. This site has become far too diluted. It used to be mainly gay guys on here. Not anymore. Are you trying to say that TV/TS/XD and Bi Men should not be on this site ?. Or are you Saying that there are too many Story's involving Women and TV/TS ?. If it's the Story/Fantasy then if you don't like the subject DON'T READ IT. And if you don’t like other peoples views then DON’T READ THEM - works both ways. And we are all Allowed to Express our opinion. I was Asking Questions to which no Answers have come forth " Well you were the one to start shouting “DON’T READ THEM”, all I did was to point out that it cuts both ways if you don’t like other peoples views an opinions on the subject. | |||
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"I can see clearly this question alone has opened up a lot of anger, remember the question is not a whine nor negative thing it’s an question to debate and perhaps the moderators should deal with the issues on the site if many feel it’s gone past the premise of male and male ! " Yes it has and yes they should, you only have to look at the post above yours “to see your wife” - some of the bi’s seem incapable of controlling themselves and exercising better judgment- that isn’t what this site is for. | |||
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"Far too many TVs on here." Like it or not, TVs/CDs have every right to be on here. | |||
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"I don’t mind tv, bi or dresser etc etc etc being here but there is too much about the wife’s tits wife’s or daughters knickers etc etc those are more swingers, and have a place for talking about women’s issues on such sites, a lads-lads site should be for the men being men, if he wants to talk about buying his own knickers and need siz/style advice from others that share his interest that’s a male thing and male problem. This is a talking point not a hate on others so make comments constructive and thought provoking " Most of those subjects, especially those involving daughters, sisters, step daughters etc wouldn't even be acceptable on Fabswingers. On here, wife/girlfried is bad enough, anyone bringing siblings or their daughters/step daughters in to a sexual conversation on here should be a big red flag to moderators and they should be permanently banned because that's just wrong on far too many levels. | |||
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"Maybe fab should set up a separate site for tv etc. Finding it very tedious " Would probably be a good idea to have a “Bi” site for all the Bi’s (including the CD’s, TV’s and TS’s), let them do all their wife/GF/women’s bits/frilly knickers/etc talk there. I don’t object to them being here if they are looking for sex with men AS a man, but it is now getting to the point like what happened in some gay pubs when lesbians started to move in, the pub ended up being a Lesbian pub because they just took over and ended up driving the gay men out. I fear that is the way this site is going with the way quite a few of the Bi’s treat it, with all the women’s talk they are starting. | |||
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"Maybe fab should set up a separate site for tv etc. Finding it very tedious Would probably be a good idea to have a “Bi” site for all the Bi’s (including the CD’s, TV’s and TS’s), let them do all their wife/GF/women’s bits/frilly knickers/etc talk there. I don’t object to them being here if they are looking for sex with men AS a man, but it is now getting to the point like what happened in some gay pubs when lesbians started to move in, the pub ended up being a Lesbian pub because they just took over and ended up driving the gay men out. I fear that is the way this site is going with the way quite a few of the Bi’s treat it, with all the women’s talk they are starting." It would be easier to create a new site for what you've suggested. I'm surprised it's not been done already. The world has become a free for all for the sake of inclusivity to the point where the included have little in common so split into factions. Full circle evolution. | |||
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"If they separated bi TV TS CDs from gays there wouldn't be that many left on here" Well at least we would be able “to see the wood for the trees”. | |||
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"Maybe fab should set up a separate site for tv etc. Finding it very tedious Would probably be a good idea to have a “Bi” site for all the Bi’s (including the CD’s, TV’s and TS’s), let them do all their wife/GF/women’s bits/frilly knickers/etc talk there. I don’t object to them being here if they are looking for sex with men AS a man, but it is now getting to the point like what happened in some gay pubs when lesbians started to move in, the pub ended up being a Lesbian pub because they just took over and ended up driving the gay men out. I fear that is the way this site is going with the way quite a few of the Bi’s treat it, with all the women’s talk they are starting. It would be easier to create a new site for what you've suggested. I'm surprised it's not been done already. The world has become a free for all for the sake of inclusivity to the point where the included have little in common so split into factions. Full circle evolution. " Think it is more of a “One size fits all” approach by the owners because of the LGBTQIA+ alphabet soup, but in truth that just doesn’t work in practice because as we see in these forums different parts of the Soup want different things. Yes there is “some overlap” but in reality I would suspect that for example the majority of Gay men will have no interest in the TV’s, CD’s or TS’s as they are looking for a man who looks like a man, not someone who looks like a women - so they would be best served by a Bi site, as the majority of them identify as some form of Bi. | |||
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"Maybe fab should set up a separate site for tv etc. Finding it very tedious Would probably be a good idea to have a “Bi” site for all the Bi’s (including the CD’s, TV’s and TS’s), let them do all their wife/GF/women’s bits/frilly knickers/etc talk there. I don’t object to them being here if they are looking for sex with men AS a man, but it is now getting to the point like what happened in some gay pubs when lesbians started to move in, the pub ended up being a Lesbian pub because they just took over and ended up driving the gay men out. I fear that is the way this site is going with the way quite a few of the Bi’s treat it, with all the women’s talk they are starting. It would be easier to create a new site for what you've suggested. I'm surprised it's not been done already. The world has become a free for all for the sake of inclusivity to the point where the included have little in common so split into factions. Full circle evolution. Think it is more of a “One size fits all” approach by the owners because of the LGBTQIA+ alphabet soup, but in truth that just doesn’t work in practice because as we see in these forums different parts of the Soup want different things. Yes there is “some overlap” but in reality I would suspect that for example the majority of Gay men will have no interest in the TV’s, CD’s or TS’s as they are looking for a man who looks like a man, not someone who looks like a women - so they would be best served by a Bi site, as the majority of them identify as some form of Bi." However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. | |||
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"Maybe fab should set up a separate site for tv etc. Finding it very tedious Would probably be a good idea to have a “Bi” site for all the Bi’s (including the CD’s, TV’s and TS’s), let them do all their wife/GF/women’s bits/frilly knickers/etc talk there. I don’t object to them being here if they are looking for sex with men AS a man, but it is now getting to the point like what happened in some gay pubs when lesbians started to move in, the pub ended up being a Lesbian pub because they just took over and ended up driving the gay men out. I fear that is the way this site is going with the way quite a few of the Bi’s treat it, with all the women’s talk they are starting. It would be easier to create a new site for what you've suggested. I'm surprised it's not been done already. The world has become a free for all for the sake of inclusivity to the point where the included have little in common so split into factions. Full circle evolution. Think it is more of a “One size fits all” approach by the owners because of the LGBTQIA+ alphabet soup, but in truth that just doesn’t work in practice because as we see in these forums different parts of the Soup want different things. Yes there is “some overlap” but in reality I would suspect that for example the majority of Gay men will have no interest in the TV’s, CD’s or TS’s as they are looking for a man who looks like a man, not someone who looks like a women - so they would be best served by a Bi site, as the majority of them identify as some form of Bi. However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. " But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. | |||
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" However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. " I don't disagree with you on the sex thing and the overwhelming female related treads, a lot of them extremely misogynistic which don't belong on here, but these threads are mainly coming from bisexual men who as I mentioned, can't seem to leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here, very little of it comes from TV/CD/TS, as for those of us who are gender non conforming, we have every right to be here, most are bisexual and some like me are gay, we all want to have sex with men, some of us exclusively men, liking or not liking feminine clothes is a personal choice and should have no bearing on an individuals right to use this site. | |||
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" However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. I don't disagree with you on the sex thing and the overwhelming female related treads, a lot of them extremely misogynistic which don't belong on here, but these threads are mainly coming from bisexual men who as I mentioned, can't seem to leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here, very little of it comes from TV/CD/TS, as for those of us who are gender non conforming, we have every right to be here, most are bisexual and some like me are gay, we all want to have sex with men, some of us exclusively men, liking or not liking feminine clothes is a personal choice and should have no bearing on an individuals right to use this site. " No need to get your panties in a twist, nobody has said you dont belong hete. In fact, I suggested that due to teh prevelence of girly stuff here, masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men don't really belong here and need another site. Inclusivity is great, but we are not the same. | |||
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" However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. I don't disagree with you on the sex thing and the overwhelming female related treads, a lot of them extremely misogynistic which don't belong on here, but these threads are mainly coming from bisexual men who as I mentioned, can't seem to leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here, very little of it comes from TV/CD/TS, as for those of us who are gender non conforming, we have every right to be here, most are bisexual and some like me are gay, we all want to have sex with men, some of us exclusively men, liking or not liking feminine clothes is a personal choice and should have no bearing on an individuals right to use this site. No need to get your panties in a twist, nobody has said you dont belong hete. In fact, I suggested that due to teh prevelence of girly stuff here, masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men don't really belong here and need another site. Inclusivity is great, but we are not the same." When you say Masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men, you do realise that a lot of gay men aren't that masculine don't you, some are very masculine, some are very effeminate, some are somewhere in-between, one size does not fit all. | |||
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" However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. I don't disagree with you on the sex thing and the overwhelming female related treads, a lot of them extremely misogynistic which don't belong on here, but these threads are mainly coming from bisexual men who as I mentioned, can't seem to leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here, very little of it comes from TV/CD/TS, as for those of us who are gender non conforming, we have every right to be here, most are bisexual and some like me are gay, we all want to have sex with men, some of us exclusively men, liking or not liking feminine clothes is a personal choice and should have no bearing on an individuals right to use this site. No need to get your panties in a twist, nobody has said you dont belong hete. In fact, I suggested that due to teh prevelence of girly stuff here, masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men don't really belong here and need another site. Inclusivity is great, but we are not the same. When you say Masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men, you do realise that a lot of gay men aren't that masculine don't you, some are very masculine, some are very effeminate, some are somewhere in-between, one size does not fit all." Thats people in general and nothing to do with sexuality. There are plenty of feminine straight men and masculine stright women. This site, especially the forums, swing to those who do dress up, which is not what the vast majority of gay men are about. Self identification is not sexuality. What you choose to wear and how you behave is your identity. Today I identify as a food mixer. Nobody has more rights than anyone else to be here, and your voice doesnt diminish mine and vice versa, but the fact is the only thing gay about FG is the cocks up bums simply due to the definition of gay sex. Thankfully there's something for everyone. For the something we dont like, there's filters and block, but they doesn't work in the forums. | |||
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" Self identification is not sexuality. What you choose to wear and how you behave is your identity. Today I identify as a food mixer. Nobody has more rights than anyone else to be here, and your voice doesnt diminish mine and vice versa, but the fact is the only thing gay about FG is the cocks up bums simply due to the definition of gay sex. Thankfully there's something for everyone. For the something we dont like, there's filters and block, but they doesn't work in the forums." I never said I identify as anything other than male, I have the right parts, I just am not very manly, that does not make me any more or any less gay, I'm attracted to men and only men, also I don't have "gay sex" I have sex with men and sex is more than just blow jobs and anal both of which are not exclusive to gay and bisexual men, personally when I have sex I want the full package not something that's reduced down to 2 sex acts, not too much to ask, even on a hook up site. | |||
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"actually you say gays don’t belong here ? This site is called ladslads original set for men to meet men boys to be boys and not for bra’s, tits, wife, pussy, daughters or other feminine traits and those who want that should be on another app of there own. However those TV/CD/TS are mainly bisexual, some are actually gay (not uncommon), I'm gay and femme leaning so sort of in the CD category in that I do discretely wear some more feminine clothing, because that's how I identify, I was never a manly man, sexuality and how you identify are not always connected, they have every right to be on here, it shouldn't be an issue, the real issue is bisexual men who can't leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here. But it is an issue for gay mrn, who like sex with men who dont dress up as women, or who dont want to hear about that stuff or someone's wife. In a rush to be relevant and inclusive, gay lost its way. Fabguys is such a diverse crowd that the only thing missing on this site is women. I don't disagree with you on the sex thing and the overwhelming female related treads, a lot of them extremely misogynistic which don't belong on here, but these threads are mainly coming from bisexual men who as I mentioned, can't seem to leave their heterosexual life behind when they come on here, very little of it comes from TV/CD/TS, as for those of us who are gender non conforming, we have every right to be here, most are bisexual and some like me are gay, we all want to have sex with men, some of us exclusively men, liking or not liking feminine clothes is a personal choice and should have no bearing on an individuals right to use this site. No need to get your panties in a twist, nobody has said you dont belong hete. In fact, I suggested that due to teh prevelence of girly stuff here, masculine gay men seeking masculine gay men don't really belong here and need another site. Inclusivity is great, but we are not the same." | |||
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