FabGuys.com forum: Lose interest after cumming

By *ornynhairy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Livingston

Is it just me or do other people lose interest a bit after cumming? I am just interested to find out if I am the only one!

It doesn’t last too long before I get a bit horny again but it’s still takes a bit of time.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"Is it just me or do other people lose interest a bit after cumming? I am just interested to find out if I am the only one!

It doesn’t last too long before I get a bit horny again but it’s still takes a bit of time.

It's actually quite normal

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By *reakazoidMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Very normal

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By *eoff_15Man
3 weeks ago

Bordon

Perfectly normal

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By *wadbisexualMan
3 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Absolutely this applies to me, once I've cum i go off the boil, this explains why during a meet i rarely cum while my meet is still there, I usually finish myself off after he leaves

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By *aryb60Man
3 weeks ago

mossley

Happens to me too. My fuck buddy wants me to pleasure him straightaway but I need a few minutes minimum

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By *onmouthshireMaleMan
3 weeks ago

usk

Depends who I am with if it's a regular buddy they can do what they want to me ....

I serve them it's not my choice

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By *vanMan
3 weeks ago

Blackpool

Yeah . I lose interest very quickly after I have cum .

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By *mblerMan
3 weeks ago

Goole

Post nut clarity.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

I used to you, but years of training myself to keep going has amazingly worked. I do always reach a point of "im done now" though.

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By *reenbinMan
3 weeks ago

Portishead

Very normal, I used to suffer the same, however one regular meet many years ago used to make me cum before he fucked me. The feeling of shame for reasons I don't understand used to make me so horny and it rarely happens now. Really made me enjoy anal as it was the only sensation on my mind to focus on getting off again, if that makes any sense It seems to be the biggest blocker to eating your own cum as well. Maybe as blokes we are just programmed that way.

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By *ewbie NickMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Used to have a gay mate in Eire, he told me once that a guy shagged him then went to leave with the condom still on his cock!

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By *iExCuckMan
3 weeks ago

Lowestoft

I think its normal and different for everyone. I think for me, it stems from my beginning days in public toilets with old men. It was common for them to first suck me off into their mouths and then turn and bend me over and rim my cum into my hole so its lubed ready for them to push their cocks into me.

Also, I have watched many other bottoms over the years that while they are being fucked, they lose their hardon regardless of cumming or not.

Not sure why, but even after being sucked off first, I quickly get hard again while they fuck me.

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By *ayboy1966Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Is it just me or do other people lose interest a bit after cumming? I am just interested to find out if I am the only one!

It doesn’t last too long before I get a bit horny again but it’s still takes a bit of time.

Totally loose 100% interest when cum for sure!

If he cums before me, I’ll swallow easy, I’m I’m first, forget it, it’s done

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By *ightbulb16Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

That’s why chastity is so fun!

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
3 weeks ago

bognor regis

It’s normal

My Dom likes me to cum early so my focus is on his organs or to cage me so I cannot cum which heightens the submission but also the humiliation

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By *jh59Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

As soon as he has cum in me ,that's it

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By *ade crossTV/TS
3 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Same here enjoy an evening cruising but make sure I don't cum

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By *ecky34TV/TS
3 weeks ago

n_van

Guilt kicks in after I cum

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By *hloxbeautMan
3 weeks ago

edinburgh

Yeah deff happens to me too sadly

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By *ornyguy911Man
3 weeks ago

harrogate

If he's not cum and I have I'm not finished I just get going

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By *urieMan
3 weeks ago

Ashford

"Guilt kicks in after I cum"

Yep same for me, although it's more about making him do, but then I just want to nicely usher them gone lol

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By *enerife cd slutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Newark

Always the last to cum at the beach, I can suck ,play and edge for hours in the sun but won't cum until its hometime unless i get very carried away and then I blow and go.

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By *ornie4allMan
3 weeks ago

central

Happens to me to

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By *sfguyMan
3 weeks ago

stockton

It's called refractory period, caused by oxytocin and prolactin, encouraging rest and physical relaxation.

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By *abbagemanMan
3 weeks ago

macroom

Totally normal for men

Due to the fact we used to be in the open

It’s a fight flight response

Once we have cum, we kick back to being aware of our surroundings and any possible danger

So due to chemicals mentioned by poster above. We concentrate on scanning for danger

Not on continuing pleasure

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I've not been lucky enough to have a repeat session yet but have managed to find guys I actually like as people for meets, so the post-orgasm time is usually friendly and chatty, even with our semen all over each other. No post-nut shame or rushing off.

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By *amantha111TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Beeston

Totally lol :D. Soooo many guys go super uncomfortable after cumming, I've even had them then get angry at me after, it's a fascinating biological paradox to observe. That's why I like to build a real connection before and after with mature minds, I love being a reliable cumdump but I deffo don't enjoy peoples emotional breakdowns afterwards lol :D

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By *ikepetersMan
3 weeks ago

yeovil

Glad I'm not the only one. Not done a lot but the few times I have I've always felt that guilty feeling after. Soon goes away though

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By *977mkMan
3 weeks ago

Lancs

Perfectly normal. Personally if meeting I like to unload in the morning then have the rest of the day for a wank

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By *umlover68Man
3 weeks ago

Worthing

That's why you have a second guy there ready to go in after the 1st one has cum inside, so he can take over whilst the first one recharges

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By *oaster74Man
3 weeks ago

Portishead

Every time I wank I intend to eat my cum, I achieve that about 1 in 10 times as I go straight off the idea after cumming

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By *umlover68Man
3 weeks ago

Worthing

"Every time I wank I intend to eat my cum, I achieve that about 1 in 10 times as I go straight off the idea after cumming"
With a cock like that, somebody else should be eating it for you

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By *ensualblokeMan
3 weeks ago

London /Colchester

WE all lose interest, but mine is more of a slow cooling down rather than 'nut and go'. Depends on the situation of course- sometimes the other guy might want to go again,

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

This is me! I try and cum last and take great pleasure in making my top cum.

I've also learned to focus on my hole a lot more for my pleasure. I'm happy to not cum at all at a meet and build up a load.

I've had many anal orgasms and I think this is why.

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By *ibor58Man
3 weeks ago

Windsor

It depends if it's fuck and go yes if I know there is more to come definately not stay hard after Cummings ready to go kissing and caressing also helps

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By *ack_69erMan
3 weeks ago

Beverley

Once I have cum, I will keep going and satisfy the other person. Nothing worse than someone who just calls it a day once they have cum.

It's why I always like to cum firstthen I know I won't be let down and unsatisfied.

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By *lbert BelkinMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

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By *aza1234Man
3 weeks ago

Walsall

I definitely lose interest and feel guilty about it but within a few hours I am ok with it

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By *lbert BelkinMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

"Once I have cum, I will keep going and satisfy the other person. Nothing worse than someone who just calls it a day once they have cum.

It's why I always like to cum firstthen I know I won't be let down and unsatisfied."

So many times it has happened to me. Person cums first, then leaves and I'm left to finish myself. Not great.

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By *odge66Man
3 weeks ago

rotherham

it's normal

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By *iExCuckMan
3 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Nothing to be ashamed of being a male.

It's why I prefer cruising so men can fuck me and go. Spunk inside me makes great lube for the next guy and if I've cum, seeing more men keen to fuck me gets me hard again.

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By *ukfellaMan
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

If I'm going to eat my own cum then it has to be me cumming straight into my mouth, no cumming in my hand or on a plate to lick up. Saying that if I cum on a nice cock I'd lick and clean that up.

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By *lue_uk86TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeah that’s me too!

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By *andit 666Man
3 weeks ago

Ipswich

If it’s a versatile meet then I’m happy to cum first and then be fucked afterwards

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By *eicester-lukeMan
3 weeks ago

leicester

Im the same always lose interest after i blow my load. Any tips on how to overcome this would love to keep going

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By *ecretsucker37Man
3 weeks ago

North Wales

Yeah definitely. That’s why if I’m going to do mutual oral, I always suck them first. If I’d cum first, I’d have no interest in sucking them.

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By *ockSucker59300Man
3 weeks ago

Chelmsford

No I dont lose interest, especially if I've cum first. Love to kiss, cuddle, play until get hard again for seconds and sometimes thirds.

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By *amjam10Man
3 weeks ago

essex

I lose interest as soon as I cum don’t even like being touched after I cum . Always try not to be the first to cum

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By *ubbiguyMan
3 weeks ago

guernsey

The guilt kicks in after cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

When I was younger I used to be able to shoot my load and keep going , nowadays I shoot my load and I just loose every bit of interest.

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By *9OralSubMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Used to happen to me ...now I can keep enjoying

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By *cotssissyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

falkirk

Exactly why I’d never cum at a meet. Unless it was an elusive sissygasm. Caging helps. Once he’s away I can edge and may cum with the taste of cum fresh on my tongue and hopefully in a bit of a state lol

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By *ackbMan
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

I tend to lose interest when I’ve cum. However, given my preferences to be submissive, I do not cum at a meet with a dom guy. I get really turned on by the thought that I’m not allowed to cum and my only focus is on the dom.

I certainly cum when alone later, but it’s the submission and servitude that excites me. Sadly, I struggle to find true doms.

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By *iExCuckMan
3 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Must be the submissive side that when I cum and they want more ie fuck me, I cant say no

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By *aturebarneyMan
3 weeks ago

Sale

I loose interest if I cum when meeting someone.That's why I prefer to please.

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By *ottombear41Man
3 weeks ago

northfield

Yes I feel like I've done something wrong lol winds me up tbh because when im done I leave and then get hotny in the car on the way home

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By *onewolf0069Man
3 weeks ago

solihull

Yeah ive learned thats its best if the other guy cums first, then i will cum almost immediately after, that way we are both satisfied

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