FabGuys.com forum: Have you any regrets/ wishes in Ur life

By *kirl OP Man
over a year ago

ballinakill

So my question is do you have any parts,areas or times in your life, that you regret, or wish you were better at,or things different.

I know no one perfect, or not with their flaus or failings, that life or human nature.. of course maybe people are happy with their lot and that's okay too...

I think for me I wish I was more confident, more focused what I want for my future, and had sex more. Definitely be more happy too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mooth400Man
over a year ago

castletroy

Getting married..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *echman.1Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I regret not getting cock when I was young

I'm old now and it's difficult to get

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecky34TV/TS
over a year ago

navan

Not coming out as cd ,life would be a lot easier now but hey get on with it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *treyu500Man
over a year ago

wickow

I wish I came out and explored my sexuality earlier. I wish I learned to care less about what other people think, much earlier in life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mrandyMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I regret not getting cock when I was young

I'm old now and it's difficult to get "

I really agree with this .... so msny missed opportunities throhvh shyness ignorance or not interpreting messages correctly...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bbillMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Wish I had come out and found my true sensuality earlier

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty. And most of them nothing to do with my sexuality. Though I do wish I had taken a chance with that much earlier.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had more motorbikes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucer777Man
over a year ago

Around wicklow and around that area..west wicklow.

I wish I took the ex mother in law up on her offer..i ignored her offer several times

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avegoodMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Getting married

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arahtv1960TV/TS
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Definitely being better with money, it caused so much heartache when I was younger

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allycdTV/TS
over a year ago

wexford

Like Becky earlier I regret not having or taking the opportunity to be my femme self but i suppose in the 80's weren't quite as liberal as they are now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubguy65Man
over a year ago

Near

Good man!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to list my regrets I'd be here all night

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *achsMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I regret not getting cock when I was young

I'm old now and it's difficult to get "
100%

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *achsMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I wish I came out and explored my sexuality earlier. I wish I learned to care less about what other people think, much earlier in life "
your still young enough to do it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *achsMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

I would never live with anyone

Spent 18 years with someone that was a cunt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *J63Man
over a year ago

Newtown

Regret the day I was born

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *treyu500Man
over a year ago

wickow

"I wish I came out and explored my sexuality earlier. I wish I learned to care less about what other people think, much earlier in life your still young enough to do it "

Well, I came out earlier this year and I work on not caring about other people's opinions everyday

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kirl OP Man
over a year ago

ballinakill

"I wish I came out and explored my sexuality earlier. I wish I learned to care less about what other people think, much earlier in life your still young enough to do it

Well, I came out earlier this year and I work on not caring about other people's opinions everyday

That's seems very healthy+ a great idea, well done for coming out, and living your life your way ..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *moothguy400Man
over a year ago

bournemouth

I regret not getting in to cock much earlier in life should have done it when I was with the x as she wanted me to

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illabongboy1971Man
over a year ago

Penicuik area

(Getting caught) fucking my French teacher in school

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *treyu500Man
over a year ago

wickow

" That's seems very healthy+ a great idea, well done for coming out, and living your life your way ..

Thank you. I'm much happier now. I actually moved abroad shortly after coming out. I'm home now for Xmas and was a bit nervous as word would have spread , which is fine, I wanted it to.

But, I didn't want the awkward conversations of people coming up to me to tell me "they are ok with my sexuality". I know they mean well, but my GP to response is that " I don't care that you're straight" lol.

Anyway, I took my face pics off grindr as its a small area that I live in. A friend of mine expressed her opinion that she thinks there are people out there who actually make profiles on apps like Grindr to see who is gay/bi etc (for gossip).

Although , I think this is highly unlikely, it was actually the deciding factor for me to put my face pics back on my profile while I'm at home in my small community.

Why would I waste my time caring about what such a pathetic person thinks and does. How sad their life must be if they do that kinda stuff to keep themselves entertained.

So I definitely care less about what others think

I was gonna reply this message privately , but perhaps it will help someone who reads it

Happy Christmas and new year guys. It's never too late to embrace change

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckyounow888Man
49 weeks ago

san pedro del pinatar

Sex on my wedding day. Not with the wife

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Not transitioning when I was young.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

My biggest regret was not talking to my father about sorting out his will….total disaster

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Not shagging certain people that I had a chance to shag.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubbywexfordMan
49 weeks ago

kilmore

Paying more attention in school

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allycdTV/TS
48 weeks ago

wexford

[Removed by poster at 09/02/25 14:36:02]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wansmickMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

A few people I should have definitely fucked but nothing major 👌👌

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Wife asked me one time to fuck her ass.My cock is quite thick when hard and she is quite petite,and I thought I would hurt her,so I refused.Im such an idiot.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riodysMan
48 weeks ago

Wexford Town

Not being brave enough to make a move on someone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I did it my way..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzz50Man
48 weeks ago

cork

Like many comments here I wish I discovered cock earlier in my life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ottomup100Man
43 weeks ago

Shannon

"I regret not getting cock when I was young

I'm old now and it's difficult to get "

I totally agree with this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aymarketMan
43 weeks ago

dublin

"I regret not getting cock when I was young

I'm old now and it's difficult to get "
You're far from old. I'm 76, a lot older than you and I get as much cock as I want. I'm just chilling out at home at the moment but I could be meeting for cock fun today if I wanted. I have a meeting lined up for Friday so I'll hang on till then. Stop thinking you're old, 50s is young. Stay positive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unguy245Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Was still at school..when a friend told me he had started growing pubes..he wanted to show me..I refused..wish I had let him show me..who knows what it would have lead do..so long ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *usan 749ukTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bangor

I wish I had started meeting much earlier in life 💋

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ouise DeMureTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I wish I had gone to see a friend of mine when I was 15. I had this fantasy of popping around wearing a t shirt and white football shorts. I wanted him to kiss me and make love to me. I never did... and yes he was gay.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *non.4322Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

"Getting married.."

This...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

wickow

"Getting married..

This..."

No offense lads but some of these regrets......you can still act on them. 40s, 50s,60s even 70s. So much life left and fun to be had. You can get a divorce if you havnt already.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illageboy1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I wish people would read my profile before contacting me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allsloverMan
2 weeks ago

BT48.

Just an age thing

GAY sex was TABOO in the late 1970s and 1980s.

NO GAY BARS, GAY DANCES nor GAY SAUNAS.

Everything HIDDEN.

COTTAGING in PUBLIC TOILETS and an odd WANK OFF.

Now the YOUNGER GAY PEOPLE have as much right as HETEROSEXUALS.

Bill. XX

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *outhman2025Man
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

I regret not listening to my gut instinct to walk away from a relationship in the early days and staying 15 years.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iTallaght1990Man
2 weeks ago

South

Met a fella I spoke on Skype with after a few weeks and went to his house but got too nervous...only wanked his cock for a few seconds and left...managed to meet again a few years later and got to suck his cock a bit more and he came but havnt been able to meet back since as he seems to have no interest

Wish i had of sucked his cock the first time and done more with him over the years...really nice man and a great cock too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iTallaght1990Man
2 weeks ago

South

Also used to speak with someone on here from Dublin 12 but never got the chance to meet...hasnt been online in months now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *raEireMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin City centre

"Getting married..

This...

No offense lads but some of these regrets......you can still act on them. 40s, 50s,60s even 70s. So much life left and fun to be had. You can get a divorce if you havnt already. "

Large part of society fear the loneliness that comes with age.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustluvsexMan
2 weeks ago

Waterford

Getting caught masturbating by my mum while I was wearing her panties,it was regretfully embarrassing 🤦‍♂️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

wickow

"Getting caught masturbating by my mum while I was wearing her panties,it was regretfully embarrassing 🤦‍♂️"

I would disown myself at that point

How did you live that one down ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rankly honeztMan
2 weeks ago

wicklow

I did not swallow enough of my own cum or others cum

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oveit69coolMan
2 weeks ago

D17

I regret not visiting more public toilets when I was a twink

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *armer sonMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

"I wish I came out and explored my sexuality earlier. I wish I learned to care less about what other people think, much earlier in life "

fact wasted so much time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erbysuckMan
2 weeks ago

derbyshire

I fucked my mother in-law she was a better fuck than her daughter

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erbysuckMan
2 weeks ago

derbyshire

Who hasn’t

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erbysuckMan
2 weeks ago

derbyshire

Definitely if asked …..nail it xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erbysuckMan
2 weeks ago

derbyshire

I regret getting married my first wife is a CUNT

And not buying a house again after my marriage failed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ommy12Man
2 weeks ago

dublin

I didnt have the courage to come out on my younger years, still don't this days😒

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecky34TV/TS
2 weeks ago

navan

Yes hate im stuck in the closet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eat22Man
2 weeks ago

Roscommon

Not having enough sex when I was younger

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *antypanMan
2 weeks ago

Mallow

Had a chance years ago to fuck my then sister in law. Always regret not taking that chance especially because my ex is an absolute gowl..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ure manMan
2 weeks ago

mullagh

Regret coming out at the age of 15, but was proud to be gay back then yes got my head kicked in sometimes the name calling. But gave as good as I got, you had to, this gay life is fucking hard, you reach a age where even the gay bars don't represent you, I fought to be heard now the guys my age are queens, it's full on drama either trying to break a couple up , or if you fancy someone even thow there with someone they would try there luck, yes each to there own, but back when I was 18 we all looked after each other, we respect each otheres desion and didnt judge a guy we had each other's back, now it's scum, not proud to be gay, probably at a stage in my life I am done with it all to old...God help the new generation and they have it so easy.lets see what there like in 20 years time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *el1234Man
2 weeks ago

Santry

Even though I'm married I'm Living the lie when I know I prefare men but do like women but men really do it for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ick1965Man
2 weeks ago

Bangor

In my early 20s my local pub had a new year's eve fancy dress bash where the men were to dress as women and vice versa. My mates GF lent me her old school uniform to wear but I needed shoes and a bra. Some gay guys who frequented the pub offered to lend me some stuff and invited me to their flat to pick them up. My biggest regret is that when I went round, I didn't accept their offer let me try things on. I now realise it had been a huge opportunity to spend time with two gay men, while I dressed as a school girl. Doh!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *annon691691Man
2 weeks ago

ards

I explored for the first time with an old friend in early high school and fuck I wish id done it more.so many fantasies but not enough confidence and worry im too tight with little anal experience but fuck I love to suck adore a facial and love being rimmed had a round recently for a blo n go meet was unreal on my knees looking up at 3 of them standing over me tugging it was dripping off me.bukkske is very much in the list

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *itoffunnowMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

To be my true self. I was always good at football and the kinda cool guy growin up but it wasn’t me and I really regret it, i didn’t have the bottle to come out. I’m now married with kids but all I want is a hot man to use me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orksop40Man
2 weeks ago

worksop

Regretted not coming out as gay wen younger and exploring my sexuality and now being into gay guys and in the closet as gay.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread