FabGuys.com forum: Sex less marriage

By *en808080 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Midlands and Dublin

Anyone else in a sexless marriage, I am but not from my on doing. Thankfully I love porn but at the very least would love a wank buddy to confide in and help each other out sexually

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By *hris PeacockMan
10 weeks ago

Cork

Same here ,can get very frustrating at times . Would be nice to have someone to offload with . Don't want to meet a different person every time . A regular guy would be nice. Tks

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By *oxyMan
10 weeks ago

tipp

Every other married man lol

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By *ubmanMan
10 weeks ago

Dublin 24

I consider myself lucky as i found a guy in the same situation and we are wank buddies now.We give each other whatever type of relief we need,but the best part is,his cock is enormous.

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By *olderCouple (MM)
10 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sexless marriage as older loves playing away

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By *onfabguyMan
10 weeks ago

Emyvale

Lads a sexless marriage will slowly kill yous. Get the hell out of yous can. Doesn’t always need to be sex but a hug and a good kiss can be enough to feel needed. If she can’t do that much get out of it. It’s 2025 ffs

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By *assageman58Man
10 weeks ago

rural Galway.

"Lads a sexless marriage will slowly kill yous. Get the hell out of yous can. Doesn’t always need to be sex but a hug and a good kiss can be enough to feel needed. If she can’t do that much get out of it. It’s 2025 ffs"

Wise man..and very true.

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By *omas1969Man
10 weeks ago

galway

On the other hand join fabguys and chat with lads.

Most of the men on here are married and in the same boat.

Herself sleeps in a different room so I can have a wank in peace.

I’ve met many married men and we keep in touch and if the circumstance arises that I’m travelling or can accommodate I let them know.

It increases my chances of a meeting.

Last September I was travelling alone for a funeral and an overnight stay and I keep on who’s near.

I pulled into the small town and seen a lad near.

He couldn’t come to the hotel but had a free house.

We chatted and agreed oral would be great.

30 minutes later I was back in my car and we were both empty.

Doesn’t always work out but as the saying goes,

If you’re not in you can’t win.

I’m in Galway.

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By *ardvoyeurMan
10 weeks ago

Donegal

We have sex, I just need to explore other things that she would not be into.

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By *end a handMan
10 weeks ago

White’s Cross

Same as yourself. Separate rooms with the odd, rare, ride after drink. That actually makes things worse in the long run.

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By *omas1969Man
10 weeks ago

galway

Yes the longing was killing me.

When I was on my own I joined fabs and started trying to work it out.

I met an older man and he was in the same boat as me.

The orgasm I had was brilliant !!

I also saw what a proper BJ was.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Ooooo I know that feeling.... Like a waste land, nothing happening 😞😞

Sure porn and a good wank

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By *ustforfuntooMan
10 weeks ago

visiting

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By *teve104Man
10 weeks ago

swansea

Yes iam in the same boat boys no sex for at least 10 years I do have 3 regular wank budys on skype and that's great all married one a widow

Would love one or two more must be married and over sixty love showing and wanking a lot love to use pantys when I can that's the only scent of pussy I get never had contact yet but think about it a lot if your interested get in toutch must be regular budy.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Insane situation is very frustrating, be nice meet another guy for mutual relief discreetly

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By *ottomguy89Man
9 weeks ago

New Ross

Same here

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By *erryBi56Man
9 weeks ago

Listowel

Here with meets straight to play Greatcrelease Nics when there a few meets with same man

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By *omTom 777Man
9 weeks ago

Wexford

Same here,haven't fucked her in years.Also love porn and would love a regular wank/suck buddy.

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By *omTom 777Man
9 weeks ago

Wexford

Your cock is fucking magnificent too.Would love to taste it.

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By *olderhead1234Man
9 weeks ago

Forfar

Yep same here

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By *iana69TV/TS
9 weeks ago

Belfast/NDown

Always like helping guys in a sexless marriage.

If they can accom or in a hotel a warm sensual massage from me helps to make them feel wanted and if they adore nylon or lingerie its an added bonus.

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By *bbillMan
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Have been for over 10 years doesn't bother me tho

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By *eith TimmoMan
7 weeks ago

Palmerstown.ballyfermot ie city

Lads get out a sexless marriage is a love less one..believe me a 24 years I had it, sex is a important part of a relationship brings you together...with out it what's the point..your just friends...my opinion....

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By *bd1862Man
7 weeks ago

New Ross

This thread should come with a health warning…

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By *westMan
7 weeks ago

Hull

"Always like helping guys in a sexless marriage.

If they can accom or in a hotel a warm sensual massage from me helps to make them feel wanted and if they adore nylon or lingerie its an added bonus."

Sounds great. Wish I was able to take advantage but I am miles away.

I'd forget my marriage and think of her leaving me.

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By *heshireguy69.Man
7 weeks ago

Northwich

Seems to be so many sexless marriages I am not married but had a gf the sex got less and less until none so single now

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By *amie MaybeTV/TS
7 weeks ago

dublin

I'm not in a sexless marriage.

The sex is still there.

It's the passion. The passion is long gone. It's incredibly lonely lying beside someone who your not sure if they actually give a shit anymore.

Done everything, date nights, looking after the house work, kids, surprises holidays, gifts. Tried everything sexually bar bringing in someone else.

She still loves sex and it's regular but there's no passion her end and I have to do all the work and though I love to please and watching her cum I'm regularly left wanting when she finishes. Tbh I've started making excuses to even let her try finish me as it feels like I'm making her have to work.

Had endless talks about it that went in circles and ended up in arguments or weeks of silence. Her weapon of choice.

So a few years ago I finally took up the courage and started doing what I wanted to please myself.

Dressing was such a release and when I finally met with guys the passion was incredible.

Who would have thought 2 guys strangers to each other would show so much care and passion for each other's needs.

So here we are.

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By *anfun1090Man
7 weeks ago

Monaghan

Im not married so i cant really talk but does sex not get a bit dull with the same person all the time anyway? Or maybe just something wrong with me

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By *incity24Man
7 weeks ago

Mayo

Also in a sexless marriage. Would love a wank buddy and maybe more.

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By *ornblower555Man
7 weeks ago

wexford

It's a very common problem with the frequency of sex in a marriage declining over time. Can be soul destroying for most men

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By *airythighs61Man
7 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Difficult coping with a sexless marriage...after over 30 years maybe it's part of the course ? although companship is worth alot too ...

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By *amagedgoodsMan
7 weeks ago

Halstead/ Karsiyaka N. Cyprus

My lady who was an avid bisexual swinger shut down completely after breast cancer

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By *llmaleMan
7 weeks ago

longford

Not always the woman’s fault either do, I don’t have sex with my wife anymore we both have our own rooms, I prefer cock fun now,I could shag her if I wanted but I’ve no interest

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By *aul40633Man
7 weeks ago

D22

Lots of lads on here not necessarily in a sexless marriage , for me think due to length of time together and having a kid other things just got in the way . No ones fault as such. Maybe I was just too weak when I was younger to go a different way in life . People’s expectations etc . Hard to know . Ireland back in 80’s different place than it is now ( in my opinion)

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By *i-ishMan
7 weeks ago

local

Same situation here … separate rooms at this stage… would love an oral buddy …

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By *olderCouple (MM)
7 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sexless marriage here love watching husband have sex

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By *irty scubyTV/TS
7 weeks ago

I think a sexless relationship is what brings most of us to this site initially... in my case I had a long term girlfriend and for the first few years sex was amazing, no limits and lots of sharing.

To this day don't know why it stopped, she wouldn't say... over the years sex got less and less and became a chore for her which is why I stopped initiating..

Fizzled out completely now as has the relationship.

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By *bbillMan
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I'm quite happy she's gone off sex

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By *dmirerbelfastMan
7 weeks ago

belfast

"I'm not in a sexless marriage.

The sex is still there.

It's the passion. The passion is long gone. It's incredibly lonely lying beside someone who your not sure if they actually give a shit anymore.

Done everything, date nights, looking after the house work, kids, surprises holidays, gifts. Tried everything sexually bar bringing in someone else.

Had endless talks about it that went in circles and ended up in arguments or weeks of silence. Her weapon of choice.

So a few years ago I finally took up the courage and started doing what I wanted to please myself.

Dressing was such a release and when I finally met with guys the passion was incredible.

Who would have thought 2 guys strangers to each other would show so much care and passion for each other's needs.

So here we are."

It's no wonder the passion is incredible when you dress, as you look stunning and incredibly sexy😍. If you dressed like that for me, the passion would be sky high!!! 😘😘😘

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By *ed VikingMan
7 weeks ago

Ireland

3 years since we had sex separate room over 5 years and I agree with one off the above comments it probably a reason why some off us are here ..

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By *bd1862Man
7 weeks ago

New Ross

We, men and women, are sold a lie about marriage, sex, dating, families, parenthood etc. What we see on telly and online is not real life. Trying to replicate it or striving for it causes so much pain because it is an impossible and unachievable thing.

The constraints of it are too much for so many.

I’m not saying i have a solution but we can at least recognise the problem to begin with.

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By *p90Man
7 weeks ago

Swanwick area

Yes, I'm in the same club. Not had any sexual interaction in over 11 years and that was a one off. So 15 years plus.

In fairness she suffers from arthritis. So sex is uncomfortable. Possibly she thinks a hand job will end up with me attempting more. Leave her, no. She needs me here. She gave me the opportunity to set up my own business, without her support I'd still be in a factory not a director of my own company.

Those who say move on need to realise it's a very complicated subject. If your still friends you have much to loose. Don't throw that away.

Get a blow job of quality and your ok for a week or two. That gets rid of the stress and your a better person to live with. She needs that

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By *uckNrimMan
7 weeks ago

Wakefield

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By *at123Man
7 weeks ago

none

Dam menopause has us all fucked or unfucked partly the reason I am on here

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By *p90Man
7 weeks ago

Swanwick area

"Dam menopause has us all fucked or unfucked partly the reason I am on here "

That so true.

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By *p90Man
7 weeks ago

Swanwick area

Question is

How many will want to have sex with the wife is she suddenly asks.

I do not think I want to now, just to awkward

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By *amesbristol2024Man
7 weeks ago

bristol

Yep

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By *ean154Man
6 weeks ago

Salthill/West city area.

"Dam menopause has us all fucked or unfucked partly the reason I am on here

That so true.

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By *eekingcumsMan
6 weeks ago

Stoke/Stafford

I have one of those too.

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By *scotiaMan
6 weeks ago

EH21

Are they not all ???

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By *rankLMan
5 weeks ago

birdhill

Sexless marriage brought me here three years ago. I discovered the joy of being with men. Thank you sexless marriage. Discovering men is like a new sex life. I love men and get so sexually stimulated by them. It’s so natural making love with a man.

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By *hiteSportsSocksMan
5 weeks ago

Portmarnock

I'm gay and in a long term relationship, to be honest I thought it was just me who was in a sexless partnership.

When we do have sex it's good, but I do like hooking up with straight and bi guys.

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By *olderhead1234Man
4 weeks ago

Forfar

Same here sexless marriage wife not interested in sex any more porn and wanking that’s about it as don’t get many hook ups of here

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By *teve104Man
4 weeks ago

swansea

Just an old wanker these day's and loving it.

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By *hloe696969TV/TS
4 weeks ago

"This thread should come with a health warning…"

....more like a wealth warning....being caught playing away from home with another can be financially disastrous...better to mutually agree to part on good terms rather than suffering an acrimonious divorce and end up living in a bedsit paying for a house you don't live in and children you won't see....don't die a day at a time.... escape and live your life happily....

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By *ampell1Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yes me,to for over ten years now

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By *bbillMan
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Me and I love it

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