FabGuys.com forum: Taking that first meet

By *ottomup100 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Shannon

Mainly for not out bi married guys(but all welcome) . What helped you to decide to go for your first meet. I'm at that final step but can't get over my nerves

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5 weeks ago

I suppose mine was lack of intimacy with my partner (never any initiation on their behalf). No pj's no spontaneity.

As much as the sex is great when u meet with lads, it's that raw emotional intimacy that cannot be matched. Had a great meeting this week and have been smiling ever since- just an immediate attraction and most of all fun!

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By *ideswordsMan
5 weeks ago

Swords

My first experience with a guy was as a teen, couple months after my first time with a girl. After getting married, it was just porn and my imagination for many years. I guess it came to the point the itch and desire for cock and cum reached a point I just had too and one evening a guy if spoken a few times to was able to host nearby. I just went for it. I was clear going in what I wanted and I stuck to that. I guess the moment and the guy was right so I went with it. If you're not ready, don't. For me, I had zero regrets as I was fully ready and knew what I was getting. Haven't looked back since.

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By *autiously_curiousMan
5 weeks ago

Craigavon

When the time is right you will go. If you're still not ready for thay final plunge, then you are not ready.

Eventually rhe urge will get too string and you will overcome it. What helped me wqs the fact we'd talked a lot and it was all planned through. I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Great to see lads supporting lads. Appears most of us in similar boats re: our personal lives.

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By *bd1862Man
5 weeks ago

New Ross

If you were a young guy, teen or twenties, I’d say find the next hot body you can, do it and move on to get it out of your system.

Given you’re in your forties, I’d say find a guy 60 plus. Gay and out. They can always accommodate and are easy going. No pressure. Go over to theirs. Start kissing when it feels right and go from there.

Your first time isn’t going to be a porno but that doesn’t mean it’s isn’t going to be enjoyable!

I know I’ve made some big generalisations here but I think this could be a good option for you.

It’s clearly something you want to do, the desire is there. An experienced older gay guy would be perfect for you

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

"If you were a young guy, teen or twenties, I’d say find the next hot body you can, do it and move on to get it out of your system.

Your first time isn’t going to be a porno but that doesn’t mean it’s isn’t going to be enjoyable!

I know I’ve made some big generalisations here but I think this could be a good option for you.

It’s clearly something you want to do, the desire is there. An experienced older gay guy would be perfect for you"

Very good advice above

Find an older gay guy, with plenty of experience who can accommodate and who looks after his hygiene.

Make sure you shower well and are very clean too.

Maybe find someone with the same sexual interests as you if possible, but don't worry too much about it.

If you are interested in anal play make sure you take your own anal toys, lube and condoms with you. Fast a good couple of hours before the meet or douche if you can.

Experienced guys will know how to deal with a beginner.

I would stay away from guys younger than you.

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By *arsitMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin/Lucan

Its a natural thing to want to sample a cock

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By *ohnwest52Man
4 weeks ago

west

Thats great advice

I have yet to do a meet for sex

I long to take cock and am now at breaking point

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By *oreneededMan
4 weeks ago

dublin

"I suppose mine was lack of intimacy with my partner (never any initiation on their behalf). No pj's no spontaneity.

It appears you had a most enjoyable experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Yeah was fantastic. Hope no one else out there is getting too big headed....

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bangor

As soon as I found out that I enjoyed dressing as a woman, the natural urge was to find out what being with a man was like.

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By *aveB430Man
4 weeks ago

Tipperary

"Mainly for not out bi married guys(but all welcome) . What helped you to decide to go for your first meet. I'm at that final step but can't get over my nerves"

I can totally understand, the first time is nervous but even though you think everyone around knows what you're doing , they really don't. I met my first guy in the bar of the hotel he was staying in ,before going to his room , keep in mind that wherever you're meeting the guy , you've probably done the same thing a hundred times . People really don't notice us as much as we think . Hope it helps

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By *ndy3737Man
4 weeks ago

dublin

My furst time was maybe 2 years ago, i was early 30s. Been curious awhile and was getting nothing at home.

I was very nervous about my first time and was scared of getting caught. Received a msg from a 60 yr old gay top who could accomm, told him it was my first time. He offered a bj and wanted nothing in return, i ended up going to his house. Met him 5/6 times after that lol. Hes on here also

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