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 , have shitty pics... Or they wish I would top them, dominate them ( FFS I'm sub bottom), or want me to visit their remote county for fun (where they can't host and will prematurely ejaculate). And then they can't be bothered to leave a comment afterwards.
Hit rate on fab has been so poor in general. The G app has been much better.
End of rant. If you live within 30 mins of my area, top, and need a mouth or ass please get in touch. haha haha. Peace and love everyone | |||
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"So many fab guys are married and can't meet at normal times, can't host, need discretion , have shitty pics... Or they wish I would top them, dominate them ( FFS I'm sub bottom), or want me to visit their remote county for fun (where they can't host and will prematurely ejaculate). And then they can't be bothered to leave a comment afterwards.
Hit rate on fab has been so poor in general. The G app has been much better.
End of rant. If you live within 30 mins of my area, top, and need a mouth or ass please get in touch. haha haha. Peace and love everyone "I feel ya. It takes a lot of effort and dealing with a sea of messers and not-so-decent men before finally meeting the good ones. They often treat you like you're disposable and need to meet every single demand they have, with no middle ground. Also, it often feels like walking on eggshells. Say one things "out of line", you're blocked. Or you're blocked without a reason, even. Recently I've serviced a bi man, divorced. I host so we finally arranged. We had fun, or so I thought. And we mentioned a possible repeat. I left a verification straight away, kindly asked for one: nothing. He didn't like messages so I didn't text much, but I sent him one here and then, he ignored all of them even though I spotted him online every single time. So I asked if he was still interested in meeting again or he preferred I stopped messaging. He replied he didn't know and he wasn't meeting, but we could keep being in touch here. So I thought he meant he wasn't meeting at all for now... Next day he was online with a "men meeting now" status, and I sent him a text saying that I got it, he didn't want to meet ME, not meeting in general. He blocked me straight away lol. Basically you never know how to communicate, what to say, how to say it... they can ignore you and you need to chase them, no basic decency cause, again, you're disposable and unimportant. Yet there are also very decent men - but it takes effort to find them. End of rant too lol | |||
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"So many fab guys are married and can't meet at normal times, can't host, need discretion , have shitty pics... Or they wish I would top them, dominate them ( FFS I'm sub bottom), or want me to visit their remote county for fun (where they can't host and will prematurely ejaculate). And then they can't be bothered to leave a comment afterwards.
Hit rate on fab has been so poor in general. The G app has been much better.
End of rant. If you live within 30 mins of my area, top, and need a mouth or ass please get in touch. haha haha. Peace and love everyone
I feel ya.
It takes a lot of effort and dealing with a sea of messers and not-so-decent men before finally meeting the good ones. They often treat you like you're disposable and need to meet every single demand they have, with no middle ground. Also, it often feels like walking on eggshells. Say one things "out of line", you're blocked. Or you're blocked without a reason, even.
Recently I've serviced a bi man, divorced. I host so we finally arranged. We had fun, or so I thought. And we mentioned a possible repeat. I left a verification straight away, kindly asked for one: nothing. He didn't like messages so I didn't text much, but I sent him one here and then, he ignored all of them even though I spotted him online every single time. So I asked if he was still interested in meeting again or he preferred I stopped messaging. He replied he didn't know and he wasn't meeting, but we could keep being in touch here. So I thought he meant he wasn't meeting at all for now... Next day he was online with a "men meeting now" status, and I sent him a text saying that I got it, he didn't want to meet ME, not meeting in general. He blocked me straight away lol.
Basically you never know how to communicate, what to say, how to say it... they can ignore you and you need to chase them, no basic decency cause, again, you're disposable and unimportant.
Yet there are also very decent men - but it takes effort to find them.
End of rant too lol"Surely the ignoring is a sign saying don't bother ! Just ignore them and the problem doesn't exist. This guy wasn't giving you mixed messages he was giving you no messages whatsoever. | |||
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"So many fab guys are married and can't meet at normal times, can't host, need discretion , have shitty pics... Or they wish I would top them, dominate them ( FFS I'm sub bottom), or want me to visit their remote county for fun (where they can't host and will prematurely ejaculate). And then they can't be bothered to leave a comment afterwards.
Hit rate on fab has been so poor in general. The G app has been much better.
End of rant. If you live within 30 mins of my area, top, and need a mouth or ass please get in touch. haha haha. Peace and love everyone
I feel ya.
It takes a lot of effort and dealing with a sea of messers and not-so-decent men before finally meeting the good ones. They often treat you like you're disposable and need to meet every single demand they have, with no middle ground. Also, it often feels like walking on eggshells. Say one things "out of line", you're blocked. Or you're blocked without a reason, even.
Recently I've serviced a bi man, divorced. I host so we finally arranged. We had fun, or so I thought. And we mentioned a possible repeat. I left a verification straight away, kindly asked for one: nothing. He didn't like messages so I didn't text much, but I sent him one here and then, he ignored all of them even though I spotted him online every single time. So I asked if he was still interested in meeting again or he preferred I stopped messaging. He replied he didn't know and he wasn't meeting, but we could keep being in touch here. So I thought he meant he wasn't meeting at all for now... Next day he was online with a "men meeting now" status, and I sent him a text saying that I got it, he didn't want to meet ME, not meeting in general. He blocked me straight away lol.
Basically you never know how to communicate, what to say, how to say it... they can ignore you and you need to chase them, no basic decency cause, again, you're disposable and unimportant.
Yet there are also very decent men - but it takes effort to find them.
End of rant too lol
Surely the ignoring is a sign saying don't bother ! Just ignore them and the problem doesn't exist. This guy wasn't giving you mixed messages he was giving you no messages whatsoever."We had met and he had said he was interested in meeting again. So yes, there were mixed messages. I think it's way better to be upfront and direct: you don't want to meet me again, fine, you can tell me. I'm a grown man and I'll live with that. Ignoring and ghosting is immature. Anyway, water under the bridge  | |||
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"I know there are plenty of messers on fab - but I’ve met some really nice, decent lads and had some very nice mutual pleasure. Important to keep trying! " I fully agree, same here! | |||
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