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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Just putting it out there, are there any guys who haven't been to boiler house, and yet would like to go, but the fear of being known, spotted, is off putting.

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By *implesimonMan
6 weeks ago

Meath

Yep, me. I'd love to go, if just to satisfy my curiosity but afraid to risk it.

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By *endy OneMan
6 weeks ago

Rather not say

Absolutely. I’d be very nervous of being seen and known.

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By *y glovesMan
6 weeks ago

Blackwater

Guys I'm going tmoro evening with 3 friends we have one thing in common nobody is there to rat you out we are there for sex

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By *arried and lookingMan
5 weeks ago

Mallow

I bumped into someone I know there. We just carried on, said nothing. Both of us were surprised to see each other but it didn't matter, we were both there discretely and for the same reason

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By *ikeqbigcocoMan
5 weeks ago

churchtown

I’d love to but too nervous to be spotted, I reckon the wife wouldn’t like it. At least cruising you can pretend you are out for a walk in the forest but I understand there are risks there too which can be exciting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

If I saw a guy I knew in there, who's in a similar status to myself, I'd have no worry there.

My worry is if an openly gay guy for example if we knew each other, well he could talk, I'm not saying he would, I'm saying that would be a big worry ,fear, for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago


"I bumped into someone I know there. We just carried on, said nothing. Both of us were surprised to see each other but it didn't matter, we were both there discretely and for the same reason "

Was the other guy, a married guy

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By *opcat abcMan
5 weeks ago

gorey

No one will care they will be just as worried as you once you go it will be fine and remember everyone is there for the same thing enjoyment

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By *ordonkyMan
5 weeks ago

Blackrock


"If I saw a guy I knew in there, who's in a similar status to myself, I'd have no worry there.

My worry is if an openly gay guy for example if we knew each other, well he could talk, I'm not saying he would, I'm saying that would be a big worry ,fear, for me."

Openly gay guys don't care what you're up to

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By *anfun1090Man
5 weeks ago

Monaghan


"If I saw a guy I knew in there, who's in a similar status to myself, I'd have no worry there.

My worry is if an openly gay guy for example if we knew each other, well he could talk, I'm not saying he would, I'm saying that would be a big worry ,fear, for me."

I 100% get what your saying but its funny how you dont see a gay lad the same as a married lad. U could trust a married lad but not a gay lad. How do you know a married guy couldnt start asking around or saying things without it coming back to him? Eg: a fella at work was asking about "your name" or my wife is friends with his wife and she bes wondering whats the story with him?

I think its the kinda thing were what happens there stays there, same with all this and crusing spots. But i suppose ur fear of it happening will always still be there. Some gay lads have partners/married and be trying to keep the head down as well. Pun intended.

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By *endy OneMan
5 weeks ago

Rather not say

Excellent answer

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By *ilson2001Man
5 weeks ago

munster


"If I saw a guy I knew in there, who's in a similar status to myself, I'd have no worry there.

My worry is if an openly gay guy for example if we knew each other, well he could talk, I'm not saying he would, I'm saying that would be a big worry ,fear, for me.

I 100% get what your saying but its funny how you dont see a gay lad the same as a married lad. U could trust a married lad but not a gay lad. How do you know a married guy couldnt start asking around or saying things without it coming back to him? Eg: a fella at work was asking about "your name" or my wife is friends with his wife and she bes wondering whats the story with him?

I think its the kinda thing were what happens there stays there, same with all this and crusing spots. But i suppose ur fear of it happening will always still be there. Some gay lads have partners/married and be trying to keep the head down as well. Pun intended. "
gay,bi or straight they can all talk,theres no difference

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By *ranheMan
5 weeks ago

Clare

I think the point is here, the boilerhouse is a venue for sex. People go there for that reason.

What happens inside the door should/and I imagine, would stay there.

I get the overthinking it but realistically no one gains from saying they saw someone in the boilerhouse.

I'd love to say lighten up and enjoy it but I get that it's a massive step.

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By *erry222Man
5 weeks ago

tralee

Guys don't be shy or afraid about being know we are there for the same thing sex

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