FabGuys.com forum: Going off line

By *etaeras600bc OP Man
6 days ago

city

Why do ppl text you then they go off line frustrating especially when your trying to talk if your going off line just and wait till you can come back on to text or at least have the manners to say you won't be on line for the next period of time chat later etc etc

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By *upertedMan
6 days ago

Nelson

I'd say look out for a couple of things in this instance. Profile is often less than 1hr old and I think these are spammers. You'll often find you'll message too and it goes unread when they're still online.

I just delete and move on. Look out for the generic profile to of gay man looking to meet gay men.

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By *abbeynew3Man
6 days ago

Belfast

Think it depends on the person's situation..have often been chattinh here getting horned up with guys but family member might arrive so you have to jump off..cant be helped sometimes

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By *ood gurl 4 daddiesTV/TS
6 days ago

trim/kells/athboy /and about

It's not hard to say got to jump now talk later xx

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By *ood gurl 4 daddiesTV/TS
6 days ago

trim/kells/athboy /and about

And just happened now wanted to meet I asked can he accommodate weekdays and he's now off line and he's the one who maded the contact with me

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By *hell100TV/TS
6 days ago

South

It's a regular occurrence here. What is the point in messaging someone if you can't wait even for a couple of minutes for a reply.

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By *illenerMan
6 days ago

Newbridge

Sometimes (often!) life interferes and you have to go offline.

Life doesn't revolve around Fabguys even though one might want it too.

Whilst I love getting messages, I now treat them with a pinch of salt as I've had people hide their profile, go offline ,block me or read the message and then just not reply.

There's life, rudeness and ignorance

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By *ike 57Man
6 days ago

clonmel

or read the message and then just not reply..i hate that..some do say ..later

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By *ral BottomMan
5 days ago

Ashbourne

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By *ral BottomMan
5 days ago

Ashbourne

It’s very frustrating and generally I find it is with people who initiate the conversation in the first place and then they just ghost you!

If I’m going off line I always say so and if I get a message while I’m offline I always reply when I get back online and apologise for my tardy reply. Manners go a long way!

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By *airyScot40Man
4 days ago

East Kilbride

Yeah it’s more than just family members turning up. And it happens on all the apps. It’s often preceded by less than engaging messages which should tell you something. As they say, no reply is a reply.

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By *wansmickMan
4 days ago

Belfast

"Sometimes (often!) life interferes and you have to go offline.

Life doesn't revolve around Fabguys even though one might want it too.

Whilst I love getting messages, I now treat them with a pinch of salt as I've had people hide their profile, go offline ,block me or read the message and then just not reply.

There's life, rudeness and ignorance

Spot on. Fab guys is a site not someone's life and life comes first. I can be as polite as possible but sometimes life, work, circumstances mean a routine can change quickly. Have some patience and/or gumption FFS.

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