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"This is what I’m talking about. Can’t help how I feel but for most of my life felt completely straight. Over the last 5 years different experiences have led me here. And now, when I want to meet a guy, my preference is to meet a gay guy rather than a bi guy. But I consider Myself bi curious. So am I an imposter and taking up the space of someone else ? Honest question. " No. You feel how you feel & you’re honest about it with yourself. Sexuality is fluid in my opinion as you go through various stages of life. Trying to label & pigeonhole everything just gets tedious | |||
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"Yeah that is exactly what’s milling around my brain but still want to be conscious of what other people think. And that’s what’s I’d love to be informed of. " One of the worst things we're socialised into , is to be overly concerned with what other people think. It's about how you personally feel and whatever label suits you , if you want a label at all. However, at some point you may ask yourself. "At what point does a curiosity about something become : I like and enjoy that thing". Only you can know the answer to that. You're not taking up space whatsoever. Everyone is welcome. The main thing that causes issues on here are guys talking too much about women and panties etc. Just because it's often off topic and ruins the flow of a thread. Many say "just don't read it", which is a fair point to a degree. But, you wouldn't go onto a vegetarian website to talk about meat pie recipes. People would understably be a bit annoyed and may point you to a website focused on that topic - eg. Fabswingers or meatpies.yum lol. It literally takes seconds to find the million websites to talk about your mother in law. For probably everyone on here, we couldn't talk openly about guys, cocks,ass, fantasies or kinks while growing up or as adults. Many on here still can't have these conversations with people they trust in their personal lives. This is a safe space to air those thoughts for once in your life. To meet and talk to other men who have sex with men. If there was anything to be a bit conscious of, I would suggest that. But, do whatever you want. Free speech and all that jazz. | |||
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"Just wondering if gay guys get a bit pissed off with bi curious guys who dip in and out so to speak. Honest opinions. " I think once you have met more than one man for fun,you're curiosity is over,and you're bi,not bi curious. No harm in that,keep doing what you enjoy, and don't mind what anyone thinks | |||
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"This is what I’m talking about. Can’t help how I feel but for most of my life felt completely straight. Over the last 5 years different experiences have led me here. And now, when I want to meet a guy, my preference is to meet a gay guy rather than a bi guy. But I consider Myself bi curious. So am I an imposter and taking up the space of someone else ? Honest question. " I attached and was bi curious 5 years and after i started meeting a few nice experienced It opened a door of meeting men b i veering toward gay as i just want to meet men and not interested in sex with a woman anymore.So I like describe myself Bi Gay.Yes lads who say they straight married/attached but want a BJ or to fuck are bi | |||
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"I'd rather get fucked by another man these days,than fuck a woman, so maybe I'm more gay than bi now.im ok with that.but I'd still fuck a woman if the opportunity arose" Ya, it can be a fickle thing, sexuality. For some people it's very clear cut. I would say I'm more physically attracted to men than women but personality and connection really make a difference for me when it comes to who I enjoy sex with more , rather than what gender. I went out on Saturday - got talking to a lesbian girl (22) and her friend , a twink guy (22). Not sure how it happened, but I ended up kissing both of them. And I definitely enjoyed kissing her more , which was a bit of a suprise tbh considering my recent sexual escapades. Although, thinking back now, she was pretty and had more personality (she clearly has some attraction to men also). He had this cocky attitude and this stupid pencil thin moustache that just looked ridiculous. At the end of the night I left with a man (43) anyway so it's not like it matters  .
I used to think my life would be so much easier if I definitively just liked men or women. But, I've slowly learned to not give a fuck and just go with the flow and it's way more fun than being stuck in my own thoughts all the time worrying about labels and what other people think  . | |||
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"Just wondering if gay guys get a bit pissed off with bi curious guys who dip in and out so to speak. Honest opinions. " Ok, so here's my personal take on this. For me anything here is just sex. I find large cocks a turn on but am not a fan of kissing. I've always had female partners and some knew I fucked guys, some didn't. I label myself I suppose as bi because I dont look at a bloke and think he's good looking. But I do look at a cock and think "that'd be nice in my arse" When I look at a woman though I get all the usual feelings so again, anything with a bloke is purely sexual. | |||
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