FabGuys.com forum: Horny for cock but nervous

By *ottomup100 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Shannon

As the title says I'm horny for cock but too nervous to meet. Not out married with kids just can't make that move. How did you overcome the nerves

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By *hrisPHMan
2 weeks ago

Lisburn

Just take a deep breath and take the plunge. Like a lot of things in life you sometimes just have to take a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Same here. Married with kids...got fed up of rejection from wife..I needed sex in some form so I came here...Its a big step I know

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bangor

Just go for it

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By *ottom 54Man
2 weeks ago

Causeway

Get chatting to someone on here and become relaxed messaging them. You will soon find someone to meet up with and as others have said swollow hard and go for it. You will quickly discover if it's for you or not. Nerves go away after a few meetings

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By *obthebuilder777Man
2 weeks ago

newtownabbey

Get yourself to a sauna. Boiler house Dublin or ‘the outside’ Belfast. Pay in changing room and showers. It’s a safe environment. You can just dander round to get a feel for the place. Watch the action and no doubt get some action as well. Darkroom is fantastic feelings and glory holes just fun for a surprise. If the sauna works, just step in and relax. Sauna was my first experience of cock, god yes.

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By *uvtasukMan
2 weeks ago

G mire

Yes. A sauna would be best as previous has said. They are a lot safer for you than a solitary meet. If u don't want an advance just walk away in the sauna.

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By *ohnexplorerMan
2 weeks ago

ennis

Definately a thing, if n a relationship especially when it comes to sti etc

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By *ohn try biMan
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

"Definately a thing, if n a relationship especially when it comes to sti etc"

That's my main concern too...

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By *are04Man
2 weeks ago

Letterkenny

"Get yourself to a sauna. Boiler house Dublin or ‘the outside’ Belfast. Pay in changing room and showers. It’s a safe environment. You can just dander round to get a feel for the place. Watch the action and no doubt get some action as well. Darkroom is fantastic feelings and glory holes just fun for a surprise. If the sauna works, just step in and relax. Sauna was my first experience of cock, god yes. "

Good advice. Safe, no pressure and everyone there for same thing.

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By *opcat abcMan
2 weeks ago

gorey

Weall started off the same way a friend of mine took me to the boiler house and let me off to explore I had a fantastic time we chatted after and are still friends am always grateful to him you will find someone who is local to you and can accommodate and just go and enjoy the whole experience

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By *ohn try biMan
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

It's the sti part that worries me... Love to suck and be sucked but I'm afraid I'll pass something to wife.

What is the real risk?

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By *ickdMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Trust your gut. Those nerves are your brain’s way of communicating to you. You need to take time to reflect on what you value in life? What's important to you?

I know what that urge feels like, and I acted on it - after many many false starts. I don’t regret it. But I do have regrets that I wasn’t brave enough to admit I was gay and same sex attraction was greater than my love for my wife.

I refer to my ‘taking the plunge’ as opening Pandora’s Box. I unleashed something and that lid was never going back on.

Look up a gay helpline and talk in total confidence to someone and share your feelings. Talking out loud to someone who doesn’t have a vested interest but who will hear you and respond with compassion can be really helpful.

Finally, be patient, only do what you want to do when you’re ready, ignore all the noise on hear and don’t be pressured to act before you’re ready. AND be kind to yourself, you’re not the first man to struggle with this situation and you won’t be the last.

Best wishes

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By *ickdMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

You can read my ‘advice’ to newcomers to Fabguys and the online man-sex world on here.

https://m.fabguys.com/forum/intros/1638994

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By *uckonitMan
2 weeks ago

D13

Be 100% sure it's what you want & worth the risk. If you do well just be careful to cover your tracks as married. Other than that enjoy it, it's worth it & probably wonder why you hadn't done long time ago, I know I did.

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