FabGuys.com forum: Racist Asshole Kerry

By *semypole OP Man
29 weeks ago

East

An asshole in kerry in 50s saying he is from dingle asked to meet my boyfriend & I for group at our place in Limerick yesterday. Told him my bf was Pakistanian so he asked to see photographs of us which I shared. He then says he doesn’t like foreign men and their attitude and blocks me!!! I am going to get to the bottom of who this prick is and I have a few in mind!!! I won’t tolerate racism

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By *teveirl0Man
29 weeks ago

Sutton

"An asshole in kerry in 50s saying he is from dingle asked to meet my boyfriend & I for group at our place in Limerick yesterday. Told him my bf was Pakistanian so he asked to see photographs of us which I shared. He then says he doesn’t like foreign men and their attitude and blocks me!!! I am

going to get to the bottom of who this prick is and I have a few in

mind!!! I won’t tolerate racism "

Name and shame

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By *ohnny boyABCMan
29 weeks ago

penarth

are they worth it? doesn't sound like it to me.

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By *semypole OP Man
29 weeks ago

East

Keyboard warriors the lot of them. I am doing some digging here as I have my suspicions of who it may be!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Still remember when a few years ago an Irish guy saw a couple of my pics, asked where I was from and said "you're handsome but you're not Irish, all the best". thankfully it's really rare for that to happen. But small minded people are still very much among us.

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By *illageboy1967Man
29 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Name and shame them OP. It's amazing how some lads behave on here. I'd do ya both for sure

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By *ack the lad321Man
29 weeks ago

tralee,killarney

"Keyboard warriors the lot of them. I am doing some digging here as I have my suspicions of who it may be!!!"

Definitely name and shame.

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By *evinmanMan
29 weeks ago

Dublin

Don't over react - we all have our preferences- it is not racism ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

It's sad but some guys are so mean and when they can just say Sorry not my type, they have to be nasty...I'm an old man I know but some guys on this tell me I'm too old to be looking for sex ...

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By *oss432Man
29 weeks ago

Kilcock

"Don't over react - we all have our preferences- it is not racism ffs!"

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By *teveirl0Man
29 weeks ago

Sutton

"It's sad but some guys are so mean and when they can just say Sorry not my type, they have to be nasty...I'm an old man I know but some guys on this tell me I'm too old to be looking for sex ..."

Never to old to be looking for sex....

🤣😂🤣😊

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By *ipptoppyMan
29 weeks ago

local-ish

"Don't over react - we all have our preferences- it is not racism ffs!

💯% - not worth stressing over. Draw a line under it, move on and don’t be dwelling on it.

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By *addylad30Man
29 weeks ago

Killarney

Is there a certain age that men are too old. God help me so my sex life is almost at an end...

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By *urious lad124Man
29 weeks ago

near you

Not saying this guy right or wrong but maybe he not racist an just don't like tan lads. Personally I prefer Asian or paki guys an I not into Heavy lads but don't mean I hate fat guys just don't turn me on. But at same time I do think you right an he racist. And il admit I'm ageist. Once over a certain age I don't want to know lol

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By *aul40633Man
29 weeks ago

D22

I personally like foreign lads . Each to their own I suppose .?Asian men for me are stunning but as I said that’s just my preference

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By *ecretsukerTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Tipperary

This thread exists cos a fella expressed a preference! And he was labelled a racist, then the knives came out by the name and shame lads.. in reality it’s a case of the OP’s hyper sensitivity to race was triggered. And he got mad..

why do people make their lives so complicated…..

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By *ATURE LADMan
29 weeks ago

Clonmel

This guy was bad mannered and tactless but that doesn't make him racist. I think what really annoyed you was the fact that he blocked you after having the last word which you found offensive. But making it your life's work now to find out who he is - is ridiculous. This site is full of bad mannered and tactless people as is this country sady - ignore it and move on

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By *icko49Man
29 weeks ago

greystones

"It's sad but some guys are so mean and when they can just say Sorry not my type, they have to be nasty...I'm an old man I know but some guys on this tell me I'm too old to be looking for sex ..."

Then I’ve no chance I’m older than you!!! Lol

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By *orkguy90Man
29 weeks ago

Cork

"It's sad but some guys are so mean and when they can just say Sorry not my type, they have to be nasty...I'm an old man I know but some guys on this tell me I'm too old to be looking for sex ...

Then I’ve no chance I’m older than you!!! Lol"

Neither of you are anywhere close old enough not to be looking for sex (I don’t think an age exists)…and both of ye are hot asf

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By *ilson2001Man
29 weeks ago

munster guy

"This thread exists cos a fella expressed a preference! And he was labelled a racist, then the knives came out by the name and shame lads.. in reality it’s a case of the OP’s hyper sensitivity to race was triggered. And he got mad..

why do people make their lives so complicated….. "
it comes across as racist to me as well to be honest,and the usual crap on here ,blocking someone after they get your photo,plenty assholes here but im sure theres a few nice ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Still remember when a few years ago an Irish guy saw a couple of my pics, asked where I was from and said "you're handsome but you're not Irish, all the best". thankfully it's really rare for that to happen. But small minded people are still very much among us."
Irish or not...you're fucking hot !

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By *J63Man
29 weeks ago

Newtown

Careful now! Someone might get offended and you’ll get labelled a ‘Fat-ist’ !

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

would say your terminology used is 100% more racist than that of the chap who replied to the OP.

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By *leazeladMan
29 weeks ago

Citywest

"Don't over react - we all have our preferences- it is not racism ffs!"

“He then says he doesn’t like foreign men and their attitude”, sounds quite clear cut to me no?

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By *abbeynew3Man
29 weeks ago

Belfast

Lots of this kind of muppet are emboldened nowadays sadly

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By *orthfunXXXMan
29 weeks ago

Northampton

Preferences aren’t about racism—everyone has their own, including you. Mine are Northern European men who are stocky, hairy, and aged 40–60. I’m not attracted to Asian, Black, feminine, or thin men.

Accusing people of racism is getting boring now.

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By *ipptoppyMan
5 weeks ago

local-ish

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By *ipptoppyMan
5 weeks ago

local-ish

"Preferences aren’t about racism—everyone has their own, including you. Mine are Northern European men who are stocky, hairy, and aged 40–60. I’m not attracted to Asian, Black, feminine, or thin men.

Accusing people of racism is getting boring now. "

💯% agree 👆🏻

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By *lit0711Man
4 weeks ago

Cootehill

Do not to use the word "Paki". It's a derogatory term for South Asians and it's racist. Indians tend to be called Paki as well when it's used. The is worse than calling an Irish person English just because they're white. These two nations have been at war since partition. Just like calling every Asian, "Chinese".

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By *inkyCub95Man
4 weeks ago

Limavady

Wtf is a Pakistanian? I think you mean Pakistani. Rage bait post.

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By *oxer2020Man
4 weeks ago

Tralee

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By *igarboy1Man
4 weeks ago

meath

maybe he had a bad experience with someone foreign, thank yourself he blocked you and you dont have to deal with him.

Move on and dont worry about it

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By *ouplem34Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Fuengirola for a week

Pointless naming and shaming as admin from Fab will just delete your profile text, like they did with ours when we named and shamed someone. They don't do anything.

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By *ordonkyMan
4 weeks ago

Blackrock READ PROFILE

Accusing people of racism is getting boring now. "

I don't have such preferences.

I can't really understand the difference between Asian men who are stocky, hairy, and aged 40–60, Black men who are stocky, hairy, and aged 40–60 and Northern European men who are stocky, hairy, and aged 40-60. Probably racism.

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By *loverfieldMan
4 weeks ago

Dalton-in-Furness

Lmao at those of you who claim that this wasn’t racism...

If you make a comment like "I don’t like foreign men and their attitude" after seeing a photo of a guy from a different ethnic background, you are not expressing a sexual preference, you are making a narrow minded assumption and casting a judgement based on ethnicity.

That is racist.

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By *raEireMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin City centre

The best behaviour atitude of society is right here,

To invalidate someone's feelings, try get any excuse from the bottom of earth to defend someone spiteful atitude.

Some people has no type at all, they f..k any living thing on this planet.

Some others do habe type.

How you express it makes the difference.

You just say, 'not my type'.

The conversation ends right there.

But the fact of say what this person said, and block the other user straight away, says a lot of his knowledge on the words he said.

This words it's the way it's full of not nice people, because others will play blind and gaslight you.

If a person say they got offended.

Doesn't matter with you agree with it or not.

1st. You apologise

Then if the person wants you allows you to explain yourself. Good.

Otherwise, everyone move on with their lives.

To the OP;

Please, don't listen to those who is excusing the other person behaviour.

Only who has been through a prejudice situation where you're the 'victim ' will understand it.

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