Love fisting! My hole is quite capable - I fist myself all the time, but I still find taking someone’s fist a challenge.
Now my hands are the size of a 5’3 woman, but that doesn’t explain why toying myself is easier than someone using the same toy on me. I’m pretty sure the issue is trust. It’s easier to relax and stretch my hole when I’m in control of it.
My solution? Stretch it even more so I can easily accommodate fists without being at my maximum stretch.
So, my advice for you?? Maybe try that? Also invest in toys, and good toys too. Good toys feel 100x better. Brands like JYBL can be quite affordable.
Get a good variety of toys too. Long thin ones for training depth, tapered conical ones for working on stretching, various dildos of different girths, multiple plugs - maybe try an inflatable plug. Pushing those out can be so much fun.
Try to train it regularly too, stretching any muscle takes time. You’re not gonna do the splits without regular training. Pops are amazing for training, and do get some fisting lube if you haven’t got any already.
Toy company recommendations: JYBL, Uncover Creations, OIFFEUR, Hankeys Toys, Waredog, John Thomas, and generally any maker that offers customisation. (These companies can be expensive, but they often have amazing sales. Sign up to their mailing lists to get some amazing deals).
For cheaper toys avoid sex shops and Amazon. They mostly offer dated products.
I’ve had great luck with AliExpress. Just make sure you buy toys clearly labeled as Silicone/Platinum Silicone, so many of my cheap toys melted because they weren’t silicone, or were low-grade silicone. AliExpress has tons of super realistic cock dildos. I’ve never had much luck with them, their texture causes too much friction.
Hope this helps!! |
