FabGuys.com forum: Are gay men the best?

By *ohnfire OP Man
3 weeks ago

Dublin

In my experience I’ve had the best experience with gay guys, bi guys tend to be too unreliable and mess you about, does anyone else find this?

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

Australia

It's common sense imo. But, I suppose it really depends on what you're looking for. When I started meeting men, I wanted unrushed experiences where I could chat a bit and gain a bit of trust before trying anal for example. Gay men were far more accommodating and understanding in that regard. I was curious and trying to figure things out. They genuinely helped me. All it took was a quick cup of tea or a beer and a chat, soon after, we were having sex on the carpet in front of an open fire.

Also, they were more available/reliable, friendlier) accommodating, less paranoid, more mentally stable.... in my opinion.

I try to emulate this myself and I have met nice guys, bi or otherwise, that were not "out" (had good experiences). But, in terms of averages from fabguys specifically- the gays win it.

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By *uvtasukMan
3 weeks ago

G mire

Bi men tend to be more cautious. For obv reasons.

Onwards transmission of STIs and having to explain to wives and GFS.

Gay men are more promiscuous as they mostly don't have to explain STIs to wives/partners. They are more open to BB so more risky.

I've found gay guys over 40 ish but not all, have some "traits' from possibly years of hiding things from society and possible mental anguish from abuse etc.

The vast majority have been positive experiences but there have been a few questionable experiences with open gay men who tend to be of the dramatic type.

That's just my thoughts.

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By *ilson2001Man
3 weeks ago

munster

I think bi men are at same risks as gay men,also feel bi men are less likely to get sti,std tests regularly,many assume just because they play with other bi guys they are safe !

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

Australia

"I think bi men are at same risks as gay men,also feel bi men are less likely to get sti,std tests regularly,many assume just because they play with other bi guys they are safe ! "

I completely agree. And now that I think about it, a gay guy from here encouraged me to go to a clinic to get my initial vaccines like hep a/b and HPV.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I agree, gay guys are more reliable than bi guys, but I find gay guys want more than just a once off bit of fun and tend to look for a relationship...just my experience.

Bi guys when they don't mess you about, are more understanding of the "marriage" situation and so will usually only meet once maybe twice with you, as they are usually in the same situation.

safe sex, I think, no matter who you meet up with is the best way to avoid any issues.

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By *loverfieldMan
3 weeks ago

Dalton, Cumbria

"In my experience I’ve had the best experience with gay guys, bi guys tend to be too unreliable and mess you about, does anyone else find this?"

Yes. And gay guys are cleaner too. More skilled, more reliable indeed, and they are not paranoid like bi guys are.

Also, most gay guys get regularly tested, but closeted bi guys seldom do.

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
3 weeks ago

chichester

"Bi men tend to be more cautious. For obv reasons.

Onwards transmission of STIs and having to explain to wives and GFS.

Gay men are more promiscuous as they mostly don't have to explain STIs to wives/partners. They are more open to BB so more risky.

I've found gay guys over 40 ish but not all, have some "traits' from possibly years of hiding things from society and possible mental anguish from abuse etc.

The vast majority have been positive experiences but there have been a few questionable experiences with open gay men who tend to be of the dramatic type.

That's just my thoughts.

Yes gay men are totally more promiscuous by miles just look at the sauna / grind hook up scene. Bi men are cautious to a degree and more flaky in my experiences

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By *ilson2001Man
3 weeks ago

munster

"Bi men tend to be more cautious. For obv reasons.

Onwards transmission of STIs and having to explain to wives and GFS.

Gay men are more promiscuous as they mostly don't have to explain STIs to wives/partners. They are more open to BB so more risky.

I've found gay guys over 40 ish but not all, have some "traits' from possibly years of hiding things from society and possible mental anguish from abuse etc.

The vast majority have been positive experiences but there have been a few questionable experiences with open gay men who tend to be of the dramatic type.

That's just my thoughts.

Yes gay men are totally more promiscuous by miles just look at the sauna / grind hook up scene. Bi men are cautious to a degree and more flaky in my experiences

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yet this site is mostly bi guys looking for bareback

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