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By *arried and looking OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Mallow

Its been 6 months since my wife had sex with me. She's no interest anymore.

Definitely guys on here are great sex partners.

Anyone in the same boat

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By *enior ManMan
2 weeks ago

All Over

Why has it stopped?

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By *uke2020abcMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

In the same boat as u man nothing happening

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By *onfabguyMan
2 weeks ago

outside Monaghan town

I went over a year without it. I ended up getting out

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By *ockisfunMan
2 weeks ago

Lucan

Same here, lucky I enjoy cock

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By *henaturistMan
2 weeks ago

Gwsy

The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?

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By *exycoupleMan
2 weeks ago

Wexford

You're definitely not alone. Lots of frustrated men around.

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By *arky132Man
2 weeks ago

omagh fintona

Not to be mean but that's one of the signs shes getting some somewhere else.Could be wrong thou

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By *omTom 777Man
2 weeks ago

Wexford


"Its been 6 months since my wife had sex with me. She's no interest anymore.

Definitely guys on here are great sex partners.

Anyone in the same boat"

Been 6 years for me,menopause.

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By *oxer2020Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

My wife going through menopause, no sex for years and only once this year.....

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By *heedjMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

I'll be your bitch... mmmm

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By *ohnS79Man
2 weeks ago

Wicklow

Yeah, has happened me too. Very frustrating situation. Loads of people in the same boat

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By *appychap32Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere

Im the same boat.

My wife is going throughout menopause at a youngish age so have had it twice this year. Its fucking shit to be honest. We sat down an had a talk about it but she says she cant help it

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By *ade NeffMan
2 weeks ago

W town

We all need intimacy and sex

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By *oodGuyJackMan
2 weeks ago

Dub

It’s generally connected to menopause.

You should encourage your wives to have a chat with their doctors to see if they should go on HRT. It can lesson many of the symptoms and it can also restore libido.

Equally men naturally lose testosterone as they get older which can also lower libido and general interest in sex. TRT is a good way of addressing it.

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By *arried and looking OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Mallow


"The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?"

Its like an epidemic. They've turned celibate. We all need an outlet for our horniness

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By *olderCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sexless marriage here loves watching husband

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By *ythenMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Similar issue as lot of posts above … wife going through menopause… sex life fell of a cliff for a year or more but we are slowly getting back it together… it’s tough on all as I’m sure all us can attest to

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By *r HendersonMan
2 weeks ago

South of the river

Very similar, wife was very ill many years ago, and after her recovery what little sex drive she had was completely gone, now been 17 years with sex with her.

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By *TRAPON BOSSTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Waterford Ireland

Same hear 5 years no sex with her I have been bi over 30 years Love been with tv and bi guys for fun And she's knows don't sleep together anymore .

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By *ike6999Man
2 weeks ago

SUNDERLAND

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By *ike6999Man
2 weeks ago

SUNDERLAND

I found my self loveing cock more as wife as lost interest in sex

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By *reshmeat1000Man
2 weeks ago

Douglas

Been over 30 years for me, not menopause just not interested. She said I was too big.

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By *ubirishMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Same. God there’s a lot of us!!!

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By *arried and looking OP   Man
5 days ago

Mallow

Let's meet up for coffee

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By *ike1921Man
5 days ago

Epsom

Not had full sex with wife for a few years get a wank off her now and then really love wanking and sucking with guys now

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By *reakawayMan
5 days ago

Black country


"The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?"

No you're not alone. I need sex to function as a man and as a human being. I'm not a sex maniac. Its just a natural urge. All normal men are the same. I dont think women understand that. Mine certainly doesnt. Like the OP sex in my marriage is sparse though not completely without sex. A couple of times a week sex would do for me. But meaningful sex. Where we both put in effort to please each other. Rather than me instigating sex then doing all the work in bed. But unfortunately thats the way it is for me. And a lot of guys on here from what I have seen.

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By *ornblower555Man
5 days ago

wexford


"The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?

No you're not alone. I need sex to function as a man and as a human being. I'm not a sex maniac. Its just a natural urge. All normal men are the same. I dont think women understand that. Mine certainly doesnt. Like the OP sex in my marriage is sparse though not completely without sex. A couple of times a week sex would do for me. But meaningful sex. Where we both put in effort to please each other. Rather than me instigating sex then doing all the work in bed. But unfortunately thats the way it is for me. And a lot of guys on here from what I have seen. "

Well said. I'd imagine a lot of men on here get pushed away by their wives when they try to instigate any form of sex . Men become isolated and feel unwanted within relationships when this is the case.

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By *ood gurl 4 daddiesTV/TS
5 days ago

trim/kells/athboy /and about

I would love to make daddies happy make me your little slut please

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By *aul3200Man
5 days ago

Rossendale

Same here, wife totally gone off sex, she’s happy for me to wank as much as I like, which I do however I’m craving for more physical intimate contact so I enjoy massages from other guys to feel their hands all over my body and lots of mutual touching too.

I’m sure there are lots of married guys in my position too, don’t want to leave my marriage but need intimacy especially with another guy

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By *henaturistMan
5 days ago

Gwsy


"The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?

No you're not alone. I need sex to function as a man and as a human being. I'm not a sex maniac. It’s just a natural urge. All normal men are the same. I dont think women understand that. Mine certainly doesnt. Like the OP sex in my marriage is sparse though not completely without sex. A couple of times a week sex would do for me. But meaningful sex. Where we both put in effort to please each other. Rather than me instigating sex then doing all the work in bed. But unfortunately thats the way it is for me. And a lot of guys on here from what I have seen. "

Same as

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By *nthonyl1975Man
5 days ago

Fermoy area


"The country is full of guys like us in the same position, married but wife’s gone off sex

It’s frustrating and I need some form of intimacy or sexual relief to function properly and get work done, am I alone?

No you're not alone. I need sex to function as a man and as a human being. I'm not a sex maniac. It’s just a natural urge. All normal men are the same. I dont think women understand that. Mine certainly doesnt. Like the OP sex in my marriage is sparse though not completely without sex. A couple of times a week sex would do for me. But meaningful sex. Where we both put in effort to please each other. Rather than me instigating sex then doing all the work in bed. But unfortunately thats the way it is for me. And a lot of guys on here from what I have seen.

Same as"

Same here, her just laying there going through the motions and waiting until you finish is worse than no sex or having your hand pushed away when trying to instigate intimacy.

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By *aul40633Man
5 days ago

D22

Read through a lot of the replies on this . It’s like reading my situation over and over . The saying what’s seldom is wonderful doesn’t apply to me . Even on very rare occasions we do have sex I just don’t find it all that good . We don’t have sex that often though . Think for me it’s not just sex that I miss but the intimacy. The build up , the first touch , first kiss , I’ve met some hot guys down through the years that I look back on now and regret not keeping in touch . And before any say “ why don’t you leave her “ I just can’t for a number of reasons . Am I weak ? Yea probably am .

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By *arried and looking OP   Man
18 hours ago

Mallow


"Read through a lot of the replies on this . It’s like reading my situation over and over . The saying what’s seldom is wonderful doesn’t apply to me . Even on very rare occasions we do have sex I just don’t find it all that good . We don’t have sex that often though . Think for me it’s not just sex that I miss but the intimacy. The build up , the first touch , first kiss , I’ve met some hot guys down through the years that I look back on now and regret not keeping in touch . And before any say “ why don’t you leave her “ I just can’t for a number of reasons . Am I weak ? Yea probably am . "

Same boat.... and there's some guys who engage in a really intimate meet, touching, kissing, brilliant

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