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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

Any other lonely single gay guys on here

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By *uskusMan
22 weeks ago

Santry

Yes and very lonely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago


"Yes and very lonely"
Tried messaging

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By *ustchinng123Man
22 weeks ago

Weybridge

Mak s you feel as lone at times. Feel free to on mcsnyone x

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By *einmeMan
22 weeks ago

Comber

Not 'lonely', but would welcome new friend(s) with similar interests and inclinations.

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By *raEireMan
22 weeks ago

Dublin City centre

Plenty in this world

Is the new normal.

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By *ilson2001Man
22 weeks ago

munster guy

far too many people befirend their screens nowadays , leaving many people alone ,others are just too busy in their own little bubble in the world to see whats outside it , sad but true.

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By *sian sub botMan
22 weeks ago

Leixlip

Me.... Looking for a friend for casual merts and chats around Lucan & leixlip

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By *riefsMan
22 weeks ago

gorey

Yeah married and very lonely if that makes sense to anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Am always free to chat if anyone needs company

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By *riefsMan
22 weeks ago

gorey

If anyone fancy a text I will get back to you, I may be slow but I will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Lonely single bi guy.

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By *allsloverMan
22 weeks ago

BT48. 9TT.

Not lonely.. but here to make acquaintances with male(s) who wants to meet and hopefully sex.

Can accommodate in Derry / Londonderry, BT48.

Or travel.

BILL. X. A Bottom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago

Any single guys

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By *riefsMan
21 weeks ago

gorey

None of us should feel lonely but we can be even if there are people around, dose that make sense to anyone

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By *riefsMan
21 weeks ago

gorey

Anyone texting

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By *reffMan
21 weeks ago

Border Region

We can all have blue moments and it is genuinely good to talk

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By *ilke500Man
21 weeks ago

edinburgh

Loneliness and isolation seems to be the big issue this decade. Maybe a hangover from Covid and the rise of technology working from home. All have contributed to social isolation. People seem to spend too much time looking at screens and not mixing. Even pub culture seems to be dying out.

Not surprising so many people mention loneliness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Any single guys here

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By *irtyfacesMan
20 weeks ago

near

As stated before, married but lonely

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By *hiteSportsSocksMan
20 weeks ago

Portmarnock

I think as we get older it becomes difficult to make a close friend, maybe it's because we don't have a shared history.

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By *opcat abcMan
20 weeks ago

Blackrock

Yes going through a bad time and very lonely

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By *ilson2001Man
20 weeks ago

munster guy

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Always free to chat here.

Single but defo not lonely.👫🏽

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By *riefsMan
20 weeks ago

gorey

Just checking in with everyone hopefully you guys are well

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By *etaeras600bcMan
20 weeks ago

city

Plenty of us on here to chat to and would chat gladly so just reach out to ppl say hi.

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By *riefsMan
20 weeks ago

gorey

Hi how are the good people doing

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Loads on here will chat you.👫🏽

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By *riefsMan
19 weeks ago

gorey

How are all the good people

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By *evinmanMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin

Thank God for local pub!

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By *ilke500Man
19 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Thank God for local pub!"

A local pub is the best place and contributes so much to bringing the local community together.

Great place to meet new people from all walks of life. Sad to see so many of the pubs closing in the current economic climate.

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By *ac BtmMan
19 weeks ago

South bray

Hi ......

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By *ais1Man
19 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

It can be a lonely life as a single gay man. But I try to take pleasure in my friendships, trips away, walks, books and yes, a few pints. I've accepted my lot in life and overall it's pretty good. People in relationships aren't necessarily happier, we all have our struggles.

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By *riefsMan
18 weeks ago

gorey

Well how is everyone doing

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By *riefsMan
17 weeks ago

gorey

Good to see some dry weather

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By *ilson2001Man
17 weeks ago

munster guy


"Good to see some dry weather "
summers coming

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By *exycoupleMan
17 weeks ago

Wexford

If anyone is lonely in Wexford town then we can have a coffee together and chat. Genuine offer.

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By *rf1Man
17 weeks ago

City


"Any other lonely single gay guys on here"

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By *ilke500Man
17 weeks ago

edinburgh

Happy to interact with anyone out there who needs a mate or in similar circumstances.

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By *upertedMan
17 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

Not lonely. I value my peace.

Previous abusive relationship and just waiting for right person to come along.

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By *ungDublinMan
17 weeks ago

Dublin


"Not lonely. I value my peace.

Previous abusive relationship and just waiting for right person to come along. "

Very practical outlook.

There's a world of difference in being lonely and being alone.

Hope you find the right person for you.

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By *riefsMan
17 weeks ago

gorey

Excellent point

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By *riefsMan
17 weeks ago

gorey

I hope you guys are keeping well and being sexy

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By *riefsMan
17 weeks ago

gorey

Thank to all your text messages very much appreciated, keep chatting with each other

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By *ungrymouth1000Man
17 weeks ago

Tallaght

I have met many men on here over the years yet none ever want to strike up a friendship. I do find that an odd one.

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By *oshua.LMan
17 weeks ago

Slough

I live alone; but working 50 hours a week, then with other stuff going on, just don’t have time to feel lonely. More than happy to simply relax and do nothing some Sundays.

I find the radio a good companion…… a varied choice on offer, that caters for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I don't think its something that applies only to gay lads . I think its much more common in all ways of life . I find it extremely difficult to trust people having had a very abusive childhood and being a victim of two sexual assaults. I always seem to attract the wrong sort and end up getting taken advantage of and hurt

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By *riefsMan
17 weeks ago

gorey

It just one of them things doesn't matter who you are or how old you are,

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By *evinmanMan
17 weeks ago

Dublin

Loneliness is a part of life... i am pretty busy and plenty of friends but am single and get pangs of loneliness at times...

The feeling passes... it is a form of anxiety

But i do think of the many isolated men in Ireland and count my blessings

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By *ilke500Man
17 weeks ago

edinburgh

Think there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely.

I think we all have moments in our lives where loneliness can appear but for most these are fleeting and people can then move on with their lives.

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By *he duke66Man
16 weeks ago

wicklow

Any guys in wicklow that want to chat or meet up weekends, at moment ,let me know.

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By *oveKnickersMan
16 weeks ago

Wexford for any meets

Chat to me anytime I am on here

Any topic

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By *icko49Man
16 weeks ago

greystones


"I don't think its something that applies only to gay lads . I think it’s much more common in all ways of life . I find it extremely difficult to trust people having had a very abusive childhood and being a victim of two sexual assaults. I always seem to attract the wrong sort and end up getting taken advantage of and hurt "

Hi sorry for ur experiences in the past

Try look forward and things will happen for u

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By *riefsMan
16 weeks ago

gorey

Hope you all got out and about for paddy's day

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

No need to be lonely on here.

Plenty of guys chatting 🧜‍♂️

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By *ilke500Man
16 weeks ago

edinburgh

I would hate to think people are on here who feel lonely. You never know friendship could be nearer than you think it could be just one message away.

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By *riefsMan
14 weeks ago

gorey

Anyone else not able to sleep

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By *riefsMan
13 weeks ago

gorey

Hope you guys got out over the weekend and are enjoying the short brake

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By *oveKnickersMan
13 weeks ago

Wexford for any meets

Friendship available, just ask

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By *he duke66Man
13 weeks ago

wicklow

Single but not lonely, would love a older gay man to connect with.

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By *riefsMan
13 weeks ago

gorey

Well how is everyone doing

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By *riefsMan
12 weeks ago

gorey

Anyone else not able to sleep

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By *riefsMan
12 weeks ago

gorey

Hope everyone is been doing well

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By *ardon2020Man
12 weeks ago

Donegal

Most people on sites like this are just after quick sex, be great if it was friends first ( casual friends ) i mean , then if suits a bit of the other, a lot of guys on here are actually not gay so the friendship side is important,

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By *oel2020Man
12 weeks ago

brough

Single

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By *riefsMan
12 weeks ago

gorey

Who up for a chat on t.g

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By *omalone1TV/TS
11 weeks ago

swords

I'm bottom CD I work in blanch, looking for guys in blanch, mulhuddard tyrellelstown finglas who host daytimes during the week. Regular meet.

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By *ilson2001Man
11 weeks ago

munster guy


"Most people on sites like this are just after quick sex, be great if it was friends first ( casual friends ) i mean , then if suits a bit of the other, a lot of guys on here are actually not gay so the friendship side is important, "
friendahip is important to gay guys too ! Not everyone is just looking for casual sex.

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By *riefsMan
10 weeks ago

gorey

Hi everyone hope you guys are keeping well

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By *ilke500Man
10 weeks ago

edinburgh

We all get a bit lonely in this game sometimes lol. It’s good to have a guy or two you can chat with share experiences.

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By *ilke500Man
10 weeks ago

edinburgh

Always happy to interact with anyone who is sane and sorted….

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Always happy to interact with anyone who is sane and sorted…. "

Yes regularly feel that way . Find it extremely difficult to trust people as I have been badly hurt and let down so many times and went through alot of trauma in my childhood and early adulthood

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By *riefsMan
9 weeks ago

gorey

Just checking in to see how we are doing

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By *riefsMan
8 weeks ago

gorey

Well I just checking in, my hope for this post was to get guys chatting, with other like minded friend, keep talking to each other we all need someone

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By *he duke66Man
8 weeks ago

wicklow

Happy to chat with single gay men maybe meet it's good to talk x

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Yes a little. I like to meet mates and network.

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By *riefsMan
7 weeks ago

gorey

Hi friends just checking in see how we are all doing

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By *riefsMan
6 weeks ago

gorey

Hopefully you guys are getting some sunshine

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By *ilke500Man
6 weeks ago

edinburgh

You would think that with all the technology and social media people would interact a lot more easily but it doesn’t seem to be the case.

Too many guys out there feel a bit lost and lonely maybe need someone similar to them to make them realize they are not alone in how they feel.

Keep that in my mind the next time someone messages and maybe we just flippantly dismiss them without a response.

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By *riefsMan
6 weeks ago

gorey

Well how is everyone tan going 🤔, just checking in to see we are all doing well, and remember it nice to be nice

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By *ilson2001Man
6 weeks ago

munster guy


"You would think that with all the technology and social media people would interact a lot more easily but it doesn’t seem to be the case.

Everyones too busy on social media ! Real life interaction is rare nowadays,just look at any bus stop,everyones tapping away ,too busy to see the real world around them,i fell sorry for digital generation,they are missing out on so much,like just talking to people beside you !

Too many guys out there feel a bit lost and lonely maybe need someone similar to them to make them realize they are not alone in how they feel.

Keep that in my mind the next time someone messages and maybe we just flippantly dismiss them without a response."

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By *ilson2001Man
6 weeks ago

munster guy


"You would think that with all the technology and social media people would interact a lot more easily but it doesn’t seem to be the case.

Everyones too busy on social media ! Real life interaction is rare nowadays,just look at any bus stop,everyones tapping away ,too busy to see the real world around them,i fell sorry for digital generation,they are missing out on so much,like just talking to people beside you !

Too many guys out there feel a bit lost and lonely maybe need someone similar to them to make them realize they are not alone in how they feel.

Keep that in my mind the next time someone messages and maybe we just flippantly dismiss them without a response."

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By *un35funMan
6 weeks ago

dub

It’s not easy being a man. We’re meant to be strong, brave etc. and a lot is expected of us. A lot of focus of wellbeing tends to have the grown up man at the back of the line in terms of importance. Grown men are almost meant to be emotionless robots. It’s a tough world at times.

I’m expecting some people to rubbish these comments but I mean it in the best possible way. I hear what you’re saying. It can be lonely at times

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By *riefsMan
6 weeks ago

gorey

Hi friend good chatting with you guys last night

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By *riefsMan
5 weeks ago

gorey

How is everyone

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By *riefsMan
5 weeks ago

gorey

Everyone very quite tonight

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By *ony1166Man
5 weeks ago

Bexley

I’m very lonely

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By *airythighs61Man
5 weeks ago

nr, Sheringham

Incredibly lonely ....

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By *ilson2001Man
5 weeks ago

munster guy

Hang in there guys

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By *riefsMan
5 weeks ago

gorey

Well how are all the good people today, reach out to someone and say hello 👋 make a new friend you never know,

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By *riefsMan
5 weeks ago

gorey

Everyone is very quiet this evening 😴

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By *ilson2001Man
5 weeks ago

munster guy

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By *riefsMan
4 weeks ago

gorey

Hi everyone just say hello keep the chat going well all need a ear now and then

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By *otcottishMan
4 weeks ago

Waterford

Remember meeting a older gay man. He said it's lonely life being gay.

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By *ippBiManMan
4 weeks ago

South Tipp

Always on the look out for new friends so if anyone needs to just chat etc

You know where I am

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By *bigail_dubMan
4 weeks ago

ballymount

Am always up for chats

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By *opcat abcMan
4 weeks ago

Blackrock

Anyone who is feeling lonely and just wanted to talk to another adult feeling free to message

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By *ilke500Man
4 weeks ago

edinburgh

Always up for interaction with any decent lads that are looking to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

My dms are open. I know I can be abrasive but I'm always open for a chat

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By *ilson2001Man
4 weeks ago

munster guy

Older here ,think as we age it gets harder,opportunities are less

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By *ally01Man
4 weeks ago

Dublin

Hope all doing well, always free for a chat if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

OP gone lol loneliness must of got to him lol

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By *moothbearMan
4 weeks ago

city

Nasty comment

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By *ilson2001Man
3 weeks ago

munster guy

Just had the worst day of my life,had to sign forms to admit my mum to a nursing home,after minding her for past 30 years,life will never be the same again,appreciate everything you have in life

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Just had the worst day of my life,had to sign forms to admit my mum to a nursing home,after minding her for past 30 years,life will never be the same again,appreciate everything you have in life "

That's extremely tough mate . But as someone who has worked as a Home Support Worker I can fully understand why you had to make the decision. It costs a absolutely fortune to have a full time carer and the HSE only give you a few hours a day . It really got my blood boiling to see those who really needed the support were the ones who get the lest . The whole care system is rotten to the core

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Nasty comment "
agree mate no need for being nasty. Obviously a troll as I see he's gone too

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"My dms are open. I know I can be abrasive but I'm always open for a chat "
never apologise for being you. It would be a boring world if we were all the same

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By *riefsMan
3 weeks ago

gorey

Good evening friends hope you're having a good evening

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By *riefsMan
3 weeks ago

gorey

Anyone else who can't sleep

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By *ilson2001Man
3 weeks ago

munster guy

Up at 4 or 5am every morning ,cant sleep at all these days

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By *onnieabcMan
3 weeks ago

north down

Awake from about half 5 as normal.

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By *oel2020Man
3 weeks ago

brough

Out bed at six still naked

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By *riefsMan
2 weeks ago

gorey

It's a warm one

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By *ilke500Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh


"It's a warm one "

Heatwave coming….”taps aff” weather as they say hereabouts 😈

Enjoy the sunshine lads…😉

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By *ilson2001Man
2 weeks ago

munster guy

Its the weather for it

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By *uvclose 70Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

Hi, bit nervous about this but was just reading some of the messages and a lot of them sounded very genuine. We do get lonely and tend to just accept that this is how it is and how it will stay.

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By *ilson2001Man
2 weeks ago

munster guy


"Hi, bit nervous about this but was just reading some of the messages and a lot of them sounded very genuine. We do get lonely and tend to just accept that this is how it is and how it will stay."
it shouldnt be that way .

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By *ilson2001Man
2 weeks ago

munster guy

Unfortunately though the older we get the worse it is .

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By *ilson2001Man
2 weeks ago

munster guy

Thinking giving up on this place, ......

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By *laseMan
2 weeks ago

Roscommon

Incredibly lonely. Would love to find a single gay man for a monogamous relationship.

I can dream!

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By *eith99Man
2 weeks ago

Dub

Sometimes I think the gay world can be difficult

Our desire for companionship gets diluted in one night stands - that hallow feeling when wham bang is over and he goes on his merry way - leaving you feeling more alone

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By *eith99Man
2 weeks ago

Dub

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By *ifebouycorkMan
1 week ago

Fermoy

Keith, I have to agree with you. Nobody wants to chat or hang out or God forbid get to know someone new

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By *eith99Man
1 week ago

Dub

We have moved away from seeing sexual intimacy as a communication that says I care about you and want you

For many it is a physical attempt to counteract loneliness and actually deepens that sense of feeling not just alone but used for his sasifaction

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By *ilson2001Man
1 week ago

munster guy

When a profile constantly posts "no messages leave your phone number" not bloody likely i think !

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