FabGuys.com forum: Genuine

By *rendan15 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Roscommon

I am a few months on this site.My experience so far is their are very few genuine lads on here.

AM I WRONG.

If you can prove me wrong I will accept it.

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By *trokemateMan
2 weeks ago

Blarney

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By *trokemateMan
2 weeks ago

Blarney

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By *trokemateMan
2 weeks ago

Blarney

Maybe a bit of self reflection there B.

Assuming you consider yourself “genuine”, yet you have 2 blurry photos on your gallery.

Post some “genuine” quality photos before calling out others for not being “genuine” 🤦‍♂️

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By *omo2026Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

So true people with blurred photos in my opinion have something to hide in this day and age there's no need

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By *ilking truckerMan
2 weeks ago

Armagh

I’d say 75% on here just want to chat

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By *outhman2025Man
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

It’s getting harder to ignore the pattern on these hookup sites, a lot of men are only tuned into their own needs. Once they get what they came for, that’s the end of the interaction. If you happen to enjoy it too, that’s treated like a lucky accident rather than the basic standard.

And then there’s the other issue, the sheer volume of attached guys looking for something on the side. That alone wipes out half the chances of meeting someone genuine. You end up sifting through men who can’t offer honesty, consistency, or even the freedom to meet properly. It turns what should be a simple, mutual connection into a maze of secrecy and half‑truths.

Casual doesn’t have to mean careless. Two people are involved, so two people deserve to be considered. A bit of respect and reciprocity shouldn’t be a rare find.

There are decent lads out there who show up with honesty and a bit of mutual energy, they’re just harder to spot because the self‑focused and the attached ones take up most of the space.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I'm not sure being attached or not has a whole lot to do with being genuine but certainly guys just seeking their own sexual gratification is a problem.

Meet quite a few who's only concern is getting themselves off and then walking out the door with a bad guilt trip and an unsatisfied partner in crime.

And I've met throughly beautiful guys who are so considerate and passionate

But you find guys as you go and who to avoid on here. Attached or not.

Currently interviewing for a dom boyfriend for a sub crossdresser if anyone's interested.

Scandalous self promotion.

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By *oseph392aMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownmountkennedy

I have been on this site only a few weeks and it has been mixed. I am a naturally shy guy just recently come out as bi and i accept i am not going to get many mesaages or visits because of that. I have made some genuone connections though and to meet aome lovely guys in person for chats and for fun so i am content.

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By *outhman2025Man
2 weeks ago

Drogheda

"I'm not sure being attached or not has a whole lot to do with being genuine but certainly guys just seeking their own sexual gratification is a problem.

Meet quite a few who's only concern is getting themselves off and then walking out the door with a bad guilt trip and an unsatisfied partner in crime.

And I've met throughly beautiful guys who are so considerate and passionate

But you find guys as you go and who to avoid on here. Attached or not.

Currently interviewing for a dom boyfriend for a sub crossdresser if anyone's interested.

Scandalous self promotion."

I get what you’re saying, being attached doesn’t automatically make someone a bad person or incapable of being genuine. There are definitely guys in relationships who are upfront about their situation and still treat people with respect.

But the reality on these apps is that the volume of attached men looking for something on the side changes the landscape. It means a lot of conversations start with limits, secrecy, and half‑availability. That makes it harder to build anything consistent or even get to know someone properly. It’s not about judging them, it’s just acknowledging that it reduces the chances of meeting someone who’s actually free to show up fully.

And yes, the “get themselves off and leave” brigade is a whole separate issue. That’s not about relationship status, that’s just selfishness. Like you said, there are some genuinely lovely, considerate guys out there too, they’re just buried under the noise.

In the end, you learn who’s worth your time and who isn’t. Attached or not, genuine behaviour shows itself pretty quickly.

As for your recruitment drive, fair play for the honesty. At least you’re upfront about what you’re looking for, which is more than can be said for half the profiles on here.

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By *ilson2001Man
2 weeks ago

munster guy

Genuine ?... Bit ironic for bi guys looking to cheat on their partners ! Most here are looking for just that,self satisfaction quick meets with no strings,once you know that you know where you stand here,its as genuine as any sex hook up site i reckon

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