Moved somewhere with a cheap(ish) regular semi-fast train to London.
Used to live there but a lot has changed, where is still good to meet mature gentlemen?
I've heard there's an event at a place called The Lord Clyde and have also been recommended Portsea Sauna.
I used to go to Kings Arms, and also Chariots but they've all closed down.
The Internet isn't great for such a niche search, does anyone have any recommendations, would be grateful.