FabGuys.com forum: Ignorant people

By *klvrJim OP Man
5 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Do people actually realise some of us actually work for a living and are not glued to this site 24/7. Just because I don't answer a message straight away I'm now classed as a time waster.

Quite pathetic in my opinion, clearly as ever shows only they are interested in Thier needs and not the person that they want to talk to.

Your thoughts??

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By *heekymikeMan
5 weeks ago

Stockport

Shouldn't fret about it, plenty on here expect that if you're on here you are available to have sex at a moments notice assuming that they then turn up. The real world away from their keyboard isn't like that.

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By *admium-redMan
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

I get this a lot. Most of the guys I’ve had to block have been because of constantly messaging within a few minutes before getting rude and in a huff. It’s hilarious to come back on the site after 10 minutes to read the many messages left - going from cute to offensive within the space of 3 minutes.

A bullet dodged.

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By *iscreetly100Man
5 weeks ago

lancashire

Manners cost nothing....i find that the rude ones are often moan that the site is full of time wasters...

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By *iStretfordMan
5 weeks ago

manchester

I used to log on in the morning, and stay logged on all day. Looking when I can. I had a few messages like you did. Polite then slowly got worse. Then when I finally saw the messages and went to reply, he had blocked me. Oh well. Saved me the job.

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By *heerNylonzMan
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

One thing that tweeks my nipples ,but not in a good way is when you are chatting/ messaging someone and they just go offline without atleast saying goodbye or atleast letting you know they are going offline. You wait and wait for a reply and nothing. If they start chatting and we are messaging back and forth, it would be nice to know when they need to end the conversation. Another thing i do is reply to a message and if they havnt answered it in 7 days i just delete the message. Not sure if it deletes it their side but if they havnt answered a message they originally sent in the first place after 7 days then it couldnt be that important

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By *wimbikerunMan
4 weeks ago

Blackpool/Preston

"Do people actually realise some of us actually work for a living and are not glued to this site 24/7. Just because I don't answer a message straight away I'm now classed as a time waster.

Quite pathetic in my opinion, clearly as ever shows only they are interested in Thier needs and not the person that they want to talk to.

Your thoughts??"

You had a lucky escape.

These people aren't worth the oxygen.

Remember to report and block anyone giving abuse.

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By *wimbikerunMan
4 weeks ago

Blackpool/Preston

Remember to report people who get even slightly abusive.

I've just reported one who objected to me being shaved lol.

He actually sent the message with that purpose lol

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By *poolBiTopMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Think my record for being blocked due to not answering within their expected time is 1 minute. 🤣

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By *uriousguy1960Man
4 weeks ago

Westmalling

I to get this problem and another thing that winds me up is the friends list when you have friends and they are online and you contact them but they don't bother to answer back now I just delete as friend

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By *yzantineMan
4 weeks ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

I do think for some this is all the social life they have and feel quite emboldened in their relative anonymity. I try to be polite, say hallo and goodbye when I’m on and off here. Basically treat people as if they are real and not just some digital wank toy.

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By *enisworshipMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *enisworshipMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Use your status to indicate your at work.

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By *ros62Man
4 weeks ago

North west

I've been on the receiving end of such a message this morning, blank profiles asked to meet I told him I'd other arrangements for my day , I then got a dogs load of abuse and blocked.

It's both annoying and amusing

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By *issyslut2024TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Hyde

This is a sex site

So obviously everytime I log on I’m fully dressed with car keys in my hand gagging to meet the first person who says hi

When I tell them I’m married and she’s in the next room I still get asked can I sneak out or can they sneak it, it’s like a rather poor Brian Rix comedy farce

Some have lost touch with reality

Anyone fancy a fuck now lol

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By *klvrJim OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I also hate this but also delete and block the person after 7 days of no contact or replying to my messages.

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By *londebiguyMan
4 weeks ago

near Southport

"I do think for some this is all the social life they have and feel quite emboldened in their relative anonymity. I try to be polite, say hallo and goodbye when I’m on and off here. Basically treat people as if they are real and not just some digital wank toy. "

Yes, I think so too.

I wonder how some people are out in society?

I always trg to ne polite, respectful and honest to people who message me.

Sometimes it's a struggle with the attitude that you receive back.

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By *adBod1986Man
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

I do try to be civil and friendly in my replies, "thanks but no thanks" and all that, but when someone messages and is hundreds of miles away or blatantly nowhere near what my profile says I'm looking for, it's hard to be polite, since they've decided I wasn't worth the time to even read a little blurb! Manners go both ways and I'll always treat others how they treat me

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By *iscreetly100Man
4 weeks ago

lancashire

I got blocked within 30 seconds of reading a message....he messaged said hi and what was I looking for...I replied straight away and asked him the same question very politely and explained I was working

Was told to f off, I was desperate and too old for him.....and blocked me...

My age is on my profile.....and I'm not desperate....🤣

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By *iscreetly100Man
4 weeks ago

lancashire

As the proverbial saying goes "manners maketh man"

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By *ip71Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't do with pathetic arrogant selfish tossers, plenty on here let me tell ya haha

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By *aturebarneyMan
4 weeks ago

Sale

Not had a problem yet

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By *uskWandererMan
4 weeks ago

Ormskirk

I have had more than a few who will just "Meet now!" Then when you say you can't get all huffy.

People are who they are. And who they are aren't for me if that is enough to rattle their cage haha

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By *ider23300Man
4 weeks ago

Walsall

Just block them. You know you’re not a time waster and that’s all that counts. Doesn’t matter what idiots think

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By *altoniansCouple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Dalton, Cumbria

It is just one of the many negative aspects of online sexing.

If you are not looking for "now" when online, then maybe say so in your status update, and see if that stops the expectations...

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By *uangshanMan
4 weeks ago

jarrow-fellgate

Sex sex sex. Not work makes the gay life a poor man, yeah most do have unrealistic expectations and some time work come before cum !

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By *andy60Man
4 weeks ago

n yorks

I find the grammar an literacy police are so ignorant and judgemental,

They think they are superior because they have had the privilige of an education....

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By *omo2018Man
4 weeks ago

liverpool

The men who can't understand things happen out of your control or demand a meet now and cant and start kicking off arnt worth your time or body

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By *aleOMan
4 weeks ago

newcastle

It’s annoying but I no longer get phased by it.

I do have a job/home/life outside of this site which inevitably means I’m not immediately available 24/7 to go meet some random lad miles away…

But hey ho..

onwards

Maybe I should just put “ planned meets only” on my profile to scare off the idiots

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By *irst oneMan
4 weeks ago

CHESTERFIELD AREA

I have only received politeness on here

But, I suppose on reading this some bastard will try to change this.

Love you all.xx

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