This post is aimed primarily for those who, like me, have an interest in kink and BDSM.
I'm sure I can't be the only guy who struggles to find other 'serious' guys who would like to explore the medium but are unable to find suitable partners.
Obviously, the reasons for our interest will be as individual as the people taking part, but this thread is an attempt to at least put compatible people together.
So, for me personally, I am a sub with a particular interest in pushing my boundaries in terms of impact play. I do have some experience, having been caned, cropped and most notably flogged, including a lengthy session at the hands of an experienced dominatrix at the now closed Jaydee's swingers club.
I also enjoy being restrained and experimenting with sensory deprivation. I would like to experiment with e-stim and bastinado among other elements of BDSM.
I am neither into humiliation nor am I in a position to be controlled away from the session. Rather, my aim is to further push my boundaries in the areas of kink which I have already had some experience, as well as trying new elements of kink thus far unexplored.
Although not a crossdresser per se, I will happily dress up for those dom's who enjoy those elements of roleplay, especially as roleplay is another area which I'd like to explore.
Please tell me your ideas for scenes!
As anyone experienced in kink understands, it is important that SSC play is observed, including the employment of the traffic light system safeword protocol.
Any worthwhile BDSM session takes careful planning and is not something that should be undertaken without first establishing the hard and soft limits of both the dom and the sub.
Aftercare is particularly important, especially in the event that the sub enters subspace.
Recovery time should also be considered and my preference is to leave the subsequent two days following a session free to just chill and allow my body to find its equilibrium.
So to conclude, I live in Mexborough, South Yorkshire and will be available for a session in August as I have that month off work.
I can accommodate and have some equipment but live in a houseshare and space is limited, so if you are able to accommodate it might be a better option.
Please do PM me if you are a Dom and are interested in the possibility of discussing our relative interests and requirements with a view to meeting for a session,
Equally, if the reader has any questions regarding this post or BDSM in general, please do get in touch.
Finally, please feel free to add your thoughts to this thread as well as your own requirements if you would like to arrange a session with other kinksters, regardless of whether you are a Dom, a switch, or a sub.
Thanks very much for reading.
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