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Anal sex, how long before it stops hurting

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By *nalplay7 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

PRESTON

At what point did you realise you could take a dick and actually enjoy it rather than being in pain.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

For me the first time I took a fella.

I was taught by an older guy. He was only 32 but me being 19 he was old! Haha

He was really gentle and got me breathing right. Got me to relax and not clench on an in or out stroke.

I knew immediately that it was what I wanted. 🕳

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By *raig_KJMan
2 weeks ago

Southport

When you learn to relax, and want cock badly.

Push down when being entered.

An experienced Top will wait while an Exit, gets use to being an Entrance.

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By *uckypup67Man
2 weeks ago

Penrith

There's a few factors to take into consideration.

Depends on how relaxed you are.

Position.

How much lube.

Cock size.

Using butt plugs helps, start small and work up to bigger ones.

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By *omo2026Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Main thing is to completely relax with plenty of lube and wait for the enjoyment to begin x

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By *d seekerMan
2 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

First time for me, but had used toys, but with the real thing I tried a few positions.

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By *acyjones2TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bamber Bridge

Best for the top to start slow then build up speed to eventually pound you .

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By *up JamieMan
2 weeks ago

South Shields

It's never once hurt me. If it is then don't do it. Pain is your body telling you something is wrong.

Though I was playing with myself with fingers and buttplugs for years before actually doing it. None of that ever hurt either.

Oh and you are are using lube right?

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By *ornyfortyMan
2 weeks ago

Preston


"At what point did you realise you could take a dick and actually enjoy it rather than being in pain. "

Relax and lube.

I’m ok with average and would love to take bigger.,

I enjoy a little pain, it kind of turns me on.

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By *hatsgoingon2000Man
2 weeks ago

liverpool

If done right it shouldn’t hurt if both are doing what they should be and communicating

When done right nothing better

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By *vsindyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

A place where sheep are warm, or Burnley.

Never hurt at all, even when I lost my anal virginity to an 8 inch cock (and it was, he had me measure it). A bit of discomfort initially, but no pain. After that, well......up the bum was most enjoyable.

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By *hagmenowplsMan
2 weeks ago

Hereford

I love being fucked, only time it really hurt was being fucked by a guy with a 11" cock with a huge pa! Wasn't the pa but the depth inside me, hitting my pelvic bones, internally bruised but I want to try it again but in a different position!

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

Use more lube if it's hurting and tell the top to slow down.

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral

I have never been in pain after anal sex - long may it continue

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By *ust.frankMan
2 weeks ago

Blackpool

Plenty of lube

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By *athan3someMan
2 weeks ago

West Yorkshire/North Manchester


"If done right it shouldn’t hurt if both are doing what they should be and communicating

When done right nothing better "

Absolutely!

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By *arleyBearMan
2 weeks ago

chester

If it hurts you are doing it wrong, it can be a little uncomfortable as you get used to it but as the above posts have said…take your time, plenty of lube and relax but above all have fun and enjoy

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By *etstalkMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Agree with the majority here.

It’s shouldn’t be hurting. If it is, stop!

Listen to your body.

A considerate fuck buddy will take their time and work with your whilst you adjust to taking his length.

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By *needitMan
2 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Bottoms love my dick,and im a proper considerate top,easy goes til they ask for more.Love to take a young mans virginity

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By *ornet99Man
2 weeks ago

stockport

Some great advice from all above . Relax , Lube and take time . Open to offers xxx

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By *londebiguyMan
2 weeks ago

near Southport

The top needs to take their time and go with the signs from your body.

You can feel when it's the time to be pushing in or moving out a little to allow the bottom to relax and get used to it.

It's not about just jamming in and hammering away

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By *uckRAWMan
2 weeks ago

leeds

I'd be lost without my little brown bottles

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral


"The top needs to take their time and go with the signs from your body.

You can feel when it's the time to be pushing in or moving out a little to allow the bottom to relax and get used to it.

It's not about just jamming in and hammering away "

I wish every Top thought like you.

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By *hrisk75Man
1 week ago

gateshead

Hurts for me when first entering but once we manage to get past the resistance that goes then I think it’s not about pain but getting used to the feeling.

Afterwards never had pain but once had an all night ache after a particularly long hard session, felt like I’d fallen hard on my backside…..guess I sort of had.

Good luck

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By *ammy57TV/TS
1 week ago

Stevenage

Almost always stings burns a little on entry but if I'm relaxed and he takes me slowly and firmly that goes quickly, and I love sex that way even though I'm the biggest wuss you could meet!

It's essential that I want the guy and that I'm relaxed.

I have had sessions where I didn't

And they were horrible and afterwards I was bruised and sore inside as well as my actual sphincter muscles being I think strained,

I've also heard that if u have piles it's best avoided? But I'll let others comment on that?

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By *olin 5 inchMan
1 week ago

durham

Thin cocks better for me make sure u have enough a d enjoy sum bigger cock guys can hurt x

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By *u2usemeMan
1 week ago

hyde

Entry hurts a bit but I think lots of lube is the answer and gentle entry also depends on the frequency you take cock

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By *itherMan
1 week ago

Leeds

If you find it painful it might help just before you meet to use two fingers with lube and open yourself up gently till it feels comfortable.

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By *hrisk75Man
1 week ago

gateshead

I’m not so experience but one part of my learning curve

First time I bottomed it hurt quite a bit getting it up me I was really tight guy was really turned on and didn’t last that long, I’ll be honest I think I was glad it was pretty quick

Next time a bit of a perfect storm, met the same guy, he wanted to last longer so had a wank before I arrived (unbeknownst to me) and I asked him to use a bit more lube to get it up me, he entered me a bit easier but extra lube and him already cumming meant he did last longer….a lot lot longer, I didn’t want to let him

down and he didn’t me, with the best intentions he pounded me hard for over 45 minutes.

That’s the sorest I’ve been…..look back on the experience with great fondness though !!!£

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By *immynichMan
1 week ago

Holmfirth

Only time it hurt me was 1st time many years ago when I didn’t know about lube or douching. It was in a public toilet in cottaging days and a big builder type man fucked me hard but even then I was hooked when he came in my ass and told me to wash my ass out you filthy sissy bitch. So I did!!!! Never ever hurt since regardless of length or girth

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