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"Whats your view opinion. 30% gen guys 70% fucktard fantasizers and dreamers. Do you just block? Report? Or do you think admin should do more about it. You shower shave trim an douche, send pics. Postcodes. Mobile numbers to get blocked or ghosted its happening more an more on here. Ive been on an off since 2014 and have seen the decline in the site. Genuine opinions an views an discussion. " “Or do you think admin should do more about it.” What exactly do you think admin would be able to do in this regard? Can you explain? Can you describe the tests and checks you do on any FabGuys profile before you arrange a meet and exchange addresses and numbers? | |||
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"Whats your view opinion. 30% gen guys 70% fucktard fantasizers and dreamers. Do you just block? Report? Or do you think admin should do more about it. You shower shave trim an douche, send pics. Postcodes. Mobile numbers to get blocked or ghosted its happening more an more on here. Ive been on an off since 2014 and have seen the decline in the site. Genuine opinions an views an discussion. " Yes the site is full.of mind game players, fantasists and people with strange motives. There are genuine guys too though, but you can't always tell from profiles. I have experienced strange behaviour from verified and site supporters profiles, is it possible to fake verification ? | |||
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"…Admin useless i cant use current status blocked it for naming and shaming guy in it… " Why are admin “useless” simply for policing something that it *specifically* says you mustn’t do..? They’re doing their job. Why did you not make a report on a profile that you believe you had a valid reason to report as the site advocates? Why do you think you know better? | |||
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"… I have experienced strange behaviour from verified and site supporters profiles, is it possible to fake verification?… " What was the strange behaviour? What did the verifications say that you felt were “faked” and what made you feel they were not real? | |||
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"Whats your view opinion. 30% gen guys 70% fucktard fantasizers and dreamers. Do you just block? Report? Or do you think admin should do more about it. You shower shave trim an douche, send pics. Postcodes. Mobile numbers to get blocked or ghosted its happening more an more on here. Ive been on an off since 2014 and have seen the decline in the site. Genuine opinions an views an discussion. “Or do you think admin should do more about it.” What exactly do you think admin would be able to do in this regard? Can you explain? Can you describe the tests and checks you do on any FabGuys profile before you arrange a meet and exchange addresses and numbers? " members only 3 strikes an out | |||
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"…Admin useless i cant use current status blocked it for naming and shaming guy in it… Why are admin “useless” simply for policing something that it *specifically* says you mustn’t do..? They’re doing their job. Why did you not make a report on a profile that you believe you had a valid reason to report as the site advocates? Why do you think you know better? " were did I say I know better? I simply asked for peoples views and opinions! | |||
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"…Admin useless i cant use current status blocked it for naming and shaming guy in it… Why are admin “useless” simply for policing something that it *specifically* says you mustn’t do..? They’re doing their job. Why did you not make a report on a profile that you believe you had a valid reason to report as the site advocates? Why do you think you know better? were did I say I know better? I simply asked for peoples views and opinions! " You didn’t write: “Admin useless i cant use current status blocked it for naming and shaming guy in it” Look at the posting being replied to… | |||
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"… “Or do you think admin should do more about it.” What exactly do you think admin would be able to do in this regard? Can you explain? Can you describe the tests and checks you do on any FabGuys profile before you arrange a meet and exchange addresses and numbers? members only 3 strikes an out" You raised the question of whether admin should be doing more: I’ll ask again - what exactly do you think admin would / could / should be able to do in this regard? “members only 3 strikes an out” - I take that to mean you only meet paying site members. In what way does this protect you? Do you make sure the profiles are verified by meeting in person? Do you read the verifications or ask to see them? Do you speak to people on the phone? What checks do you do before driving to unclear destinations or giving your address to unknown people? And you would let someone muck you about like this two more times..? 😶 | |||
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"… “Or do you think admin should do more about it.” What exactly do you think admin would be able to do in this regard? Can you explain? Can you describe the tests and checks you do on any FabGuys profile before you arrange a meet and exchange addresses and numbers? members only 3 strikes an out You raised the question of whether admin should be doing more: I’ll ask again - what exactly do you think admin would / could / should be able to do in this regard? “members only 3 strikes an out” - I take that to mean you only meet paying site members. In what way does this protect you? Do you make sure the profiles are verified by meeting in person? Do you read the verifications or ask to see them? Do you speak to people on the phone? What checks do you do before driving to unclear destinations or giving your address to unknown people? And you would let someone muck you about like this two more times..? 😶" monitor the site an do their job simple really isnt it. Its not a questions and answers its views and opinions did you not understand that part..... | |||
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"Think the OP does protest too much. This site - like life - is what you make it. There’s a thousand & one reasons why meets don’t happen….like in the real world out there. If one falls through, it’s there loss, move onto the next guy / experience. Lives for living not for bleating & bemoaning others "I was just asking for opinions and views. Ive had some good meets on here and a lot fucktard fantasizers timewasters also been on off since 2014 watched the decline in the site. Personally think it should be members only thats my opinion. You have yours I respect that even tho it differs from mine. | |||
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"When I first came on I was bombarded with messages , which was very overwhelming. So I came off within days. Can back on and the same happened. I agreed to meet and got let down and I got nervous and let others down without explanation....and yes was probably classed as a time waster. Coming on this sure can be overwhelming at first so we need to give newbies some slack we have all been there. Once you get used to it you can almost filter out the ghosts etc. to a certain extent. But on the whole it's an enjoyable site and when you get it if right you get the chance yo meet great guys. You are never going to get away from the time wasters and fantasists completely " What’s moderate and measured and sensible view. 👍 You have to give a bit of benefit of the doubt as everyone has to start off from somewhere, and indeed many are overwhelmed by their first forays into this world. But you need to know when that benefit should be removed and be hard-nosed so you are not mucked about. Treat everyone as a potential liability waiting to prove themselves otherwise to you. You will get a few who show themselves to be genuine and you are elated when that happens. You will get many more who can’t and you thus won’t be too disappointed. | |||
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"…I think it's part and parcel of being on a site like this. We have to accept that there are fuckwits out there who have no intention of meeting. There's also a sizeable group who really want to meet until they have have a wank then lose interest. Take the rough with the smooth I suppose…" Succinct and on the money, Samantha. 👍 | |||
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