Hi all
Relatively new here. Met two guys so far and positive experiences. Ended up having repeat meets with the first, but on the last arranged meet I was late due to roadworks and found myself blocked when I got to the postcode.
Does anyone have any tips on "settling down" for a meet? I've been suffering with anxiety recently, and while I won't drop out of an arranged meet, I've found getting over the nervous bit the stumbling block (no, not ED lol). Just keep going until it feels normal or any tips?
It's like anything new, it takes time to build confidence.
A bit like learning to drive.
When we first learn to drive, everything feels unnatural.
It's the same with sex. The more you practice the more relaxed and better you get.
I'm in Durham in July if you want to practice with me.