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By *odger300 OP   Man
23 weeks ago

Inverurie

Any guys had a successful open relationship

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By *iley_Starr115TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm currently in a poly/open relationship so I'll weigh in with my experience.

First off open relationships are Not for everyone and they only work if everyone is on the same page.

Despite what many think you can still cheat in an open relationship. Being poly/open doesn't mean you get a free pass to fuck anyone.

If you're looking for actual relationships instead of just sex then be prepared to deal with jealousy. Splitting your time equally among partners is a challenge.

I currently have 2 partners, used to be 3 but things got messy and we cut them off. Now we are a throuple and things are amazing.

As mentioned, this will not work for everyone. All parties need to be committed or it doesn't work. But if you can make it work it's rewarding physically and mentally.

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By *odger300 OP   Man
23 weeks ago

Inverurie

Thanks for your input very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Any guys had a successful open relationship "

Yep had an open relationship for nearly 10 years… works great as we have a solid relationship and that’s the most important thing. Full transparency is key, and no secrets.

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By *rishTedMan
23 weeks ago

Manchester

Was with a man for many years. Became more open as time passed. I was never worried about fidelity etc. Thought we were fairly honest with each other. Enjoyed playing together and separately.

Was surprised though that after we finished we had both done lots we hadn’t told each other.

I suppose the worst possible scenario is when one want to be open and the other doesn’t!

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By *k..maleMan
15 weeks ago

West Midlands

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for about 6 years now never had any problems.

I do like the thought of wondering what she's up to on a night out or an evening ect.

Yes it can work from my experience

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By *harlotteTgirlEdinTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I am in an open relationship with my wife she is not into sex knows all about Charlotte

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Ive always been a one on one guy, give my time and energy in LTRs. Seem to get offers from "bi" guys wanting quick meet only. Maybe that's because most on here are attached?

Wouldn't mind a poly setup around kinks, but having never had a 3 way it's probably a fantasy I'll never fulfill

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By *amsoonMan
14 weeks ago

stornoway

Yes we've been in an open marriage for 34 years. We both enjoy meeting other men. She at 79 no longer meets other men except her long term lover Dave

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By *ornyfeckerMan
14 weeks ago

Dundee

I am so impressed. Good luck and long may it continue for you both

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By *mallcock321Man
14 weeks ago

Renfrew

My wife knows I meet men for sex. She sometimes meets guys and or females for sex. We have also enjoyed MFMF MMF & FFM as a couple.

So I think that puts us in an open relationship. It's all just about sex though, nothing more emotional or personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm poly and open with my partner, works good for us.

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By *k..maleMan
11 weeks ago

West Midlands

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for about 6 years now never had any problems.

I do like the thought of wondering what she's up to on a night out or an evening ect.

Yes it can work from my experience

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By *OMPLACIENT GUYMan
11 weeks ago

Hove

Yes wife and I have had one for most of our married lives.We both played around when courting and carried on.Occasionally she'll bring a guy home for me to watch.The atmosphere is electric afterwards I have sloppy seconds.

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By *hrisukbishareMan
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We are open. I have had two other M lovers of a yr each pre covid. Hope to find some lovely long term lovers again soon.

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By *itladJ87Man
11 weeks ago

Hadfield


"Any guys had a successful open relationship "

Yes, my fella is a side. I love getting a lad over and absolutely railing them. Nothing hotter than sending a stranger away satisfied and loaded at both ends 😈😈😈😈😈😈

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Yes, we have a long successful open relationship.

Like me, my Scottish partner have frequent sex fun with other guys too. Casual sex fun is fine until one falls in love again.

He felt in love with Eddie a handsome and sexy 24 year old Malaysian-Chinese student after they met frequently for sex fun.

But now, Eddie told me he is thinking of going back to his English ex-partner. Sad but true.

I think open relationship works only if it is for casual sex fun and not for love because of jealousy.

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By *wansmickMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

I just have a fWb. It's ideal and although we only meet every now and then it's no jealousy, great sex and no hassle.

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