FabGuys.com forum: Time wasters

By *wo2tango OP Man
5 weeks ago

Hamilton

Getting really hacked off with time wasters, do guys that arrange to meet and then don't show up got a sexual kick out of it. Happened again today, have a word with yourself you know who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It drives me crazy too. It happens way too often. We all might have second thoughts or get nervous but it doesn’t take much to let the other person know. Just have a bit of honesty!

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By *ustaguy888Man
5 weeks ago

Hamilton

Agree. A guy talked the talk last night. Took all the details and then went silent

I messaged him to say that if he got cold feet etc, that I understood.i wished him the best for the rest of his stay then I was blocked. I think he's left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I was chatting to a guy for months. I would even have called him a friend. He suggested a particular hotel to meet and a day that was good for him. He disappeared or blocked me on the day that I was going to book. It was upsetting but I’d have been furious if I had booked it

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By *dinBi4Man
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It has always been this way. I used to use two other sites and it got to the point I arranged a meet every day for a week and all were no shows. These days I tend to not accommodate and try and do short notice meets. I find it a bit more reliable.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Motherwell

The newest trend I have noticed is guys send me dick pics and then get my Kik and message me on there, setting out what they are going to do to me and how they can get away from their wife, gf , partner and book a hotel for a session with me. This messaging back and forth usually lasts a couple of weeks, then they either leave fab or block me. Has happened at least 3 times this year already and that's definitely more than the last 4 years. Mx 😜

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Complaining about time wasters won't stop them from wasting your time, it's a natural part of hookup world

Approach with low expectations and thick skin

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By *iley666Man
5 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

When you get the message, ‘What are you going to do to me?’

That’s a major red flag for someone who is wanking!

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By *opmaster62Man
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I knew a guy who flew to Belfast to meet. The other guy never showed and blocked him

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By *ipropMan
5 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

"I knew a guy who flew to Belfast to meet. The other guy never showed and blocked him"

Did the other guy remain on the site himself? Those are the sociopaths, in particular, who I'll never understand. Knowing that someone else knows what you did, but being able to not care and not let it limit your very public use of the site.

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By *ove2suck555Man
5 weeks ago

dundee

Time wasters ruining this site

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By *avey57Man
5 weeks ago

waltham cross

This used to happen on Grindr also. You would get to their road awaiting a house number and then silence or even being blocked. I even got so far as getting into bed with a guy who suddenly said ‘I can’t do this’. Some guys get a thrill from the hunt but once they get you, their courage wavers and they back out!!

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