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"No. If you show you care, the other party will just walk on you. So fuck them all." Agree 100% Mire rhan 30 years on the scene and meeting more than 100 men has shown me that male homosexuals are not particularly nice people. | |||
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"I may be wrong but I don't think that many guys on here are looking for LTR's and are here mostly for their own sexual gratification. I've met some lovely guys over the years but 99% of the time it's just casual fun. I may be wrong but that's my take on it. I try be respectful and nice to everyone and I don't feel guilty about not replying or turning down meets. Hmmm maybe I am sounding a bit of a selfish w#nk&r "Agree It's a sex site, but that doesn't mean you don't have to treat people respectfully Some guys hook up, some don't Guys that don't fit your criteria just move on or block, they'll soon find someone else | |||
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"No. If you show you care, the other party will just walk on you. So fuck them all." Ooft! Bit of a generalisation there! I've met some very nice people on here. | |||
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"Is it wrong to care & respect? Appreciate it’s a casual site but…… Maybe I’m old fashioned." You’re not disqualified from using this "casual site" by showing care and being respectful! You're not old-fashioned, but probably just barking up the wrong tree? | |||
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"No. If you show you care, the other party will just walk on you. So fuck them all. Agree 100% Mire rhan 30 years on the scene and meeting more than 100 men has shown me that male homosexuals are not particularly nice people. " I have a different opinion, that is that the lgbtqi community is constantly being attacked by society, hate crimes against gay men is on the increase. Gay men tend to be very cautious in case they are abused, knowing that even reporting to the police will be met with a wall at times. In a site like this which IS just a sex site, sure show respect and you get it in return but showing you care is often a step to far and many will shy away for fear of being outed, abused or targeted for the wrong reason. Its a bullshit world, but thats the way it is and its everyman for themselves. | |||
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"No. If you show you care, the other party will just walk on you. So fuck them all. Agree 100% Mire rhan 30 years on the scene and meeting more than 100 men has shown me that male homosexuals are not particularly nice people. " I think this may be one sweeping generalisation too far 🌈 Straight off the top of my head, some other conclusions to consider: Consequences flowing from making poor choices in men? Unlucky in love? Self hatred? 100 is a minuscule sample size of "male homosexuals!"  | |||
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"I personally think that homosexuals that advertise on here cannot be faithful to one guy…" What about other, non "homosexuals?"  | |||
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"In a long term loving and caring relationship. But this is not the place to find that. The old fashioned way is how you find love, meet someone and go on a date, get to know someone. Form a friendship and have copious amounts of sex with just that person. Fab, grindr and all the other shagging sites are just that. Find a shag and for a lot on here that is behind the wives back. There will be edge cases but they are the minority. And to the previous comment about gay hate crime being on the increase maybe the "community" needs to look to why that is. It fell from how bad it was up to the mid 2010s and if its increasing since then then maybe the community is doing something to provoke the hate. Like shagging in public parks. Marching down streets in fetish wear wanting applauded for it for a month a cross the county. But please define what "hate" crimes are. Gay bashing is mostly a thing of the past. But saying you don't 100% agree with all LGBTXYZ ideology is not a hate crime no matter how offended someone is. " This… you’ve absolutely nailed it mate… A month for gay pride yet only a day to remember those who died during wars. Those who faught and died for the right to be whoever you want to be. | |||
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"Being polite, respectful and caring are excellent personal qualities to have. Despite other guys attitudes, always be true to the person you are. Never lower your standards " I agree. It’s hard not to get cynical though particularly when they come out with thin excuses that you’ve heard countless times. | |||
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