FabGuys.com forum: What's the point of a wink

By *eogeo123 OP Man
2 weeks ago

south Lanarkshire

So many people wink at me, I guess I'm not unique with this observation

What's the point ?

Why not just message if you are serious about a meet.

Feels like a waste of time tbh

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By *airy.manMan
2 weeks ago

central

It's good for shy people who find it difficult to reject, they just don't wink back 😉

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By *ais1Man
2 weeks ago

visiting

It's a way of testing the water. If the other person is interested then they wink back which is then the winker's cue to progress to messaging.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I wink if I am interested and its up to the other guy to respond if he is. No reply is an answer in itself

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By *ralman69Man
2 weeks ago

Inverclyde

"I wink if I am interested and its up to the other guy to respond if he is. No reply is an answer in itself"

That's what I do. If no reply and I see he's looked at my profile after I sent him a wink, then I get the message.

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By *ral AddictionMan
2 weeks ago

Central Belt

If someone sends me a wink, I check out their profile.

If I like their profile, and we have similar likes, and they have good verifications.

I'll perhaps drop them a message.

They are just testing the water.

No problem with that.

Fair to say, most I don't message, as they tend to be the polar opposite, of what interests me ...

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

I rarely wink I prefer a message even saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I never knew a wink meant that you wanted meet. I have received winks and sent winks to many guys who are 100+ miles away. Many of them have become guys I regularly chat to.

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By *otsocuriousjay79Man
2 weeks ago

near you

I use them cause I struggle to initiate conversation.

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By *ostasMan
2 weeks ago

st austell

If i like a guys profile but not sure i meet all their interests i wink, leaving it up to them, if they are interested they wink back, if not no harm done

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By *entletouchMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I agree

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Is there any difference between a wink and a fab of one of your pics? Both happen to me without any chat. Unfortunately very often they're guys I might like to meet but are too many miles away.

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By *ant thisMan
2 weeks ago

balloch

"Is there any difference between a wink and a fab of one of your pics? Both happen to me without any chat. Unfortunately very often they're guys I might like to meet but are too many miles away. "
. Fab on pics is just liking the picture, a wink is if you're interested in meeting but bad at starting conversations I think.

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By *ecret JMan
2 weeks ago

Speyside

If someone winks at me I'll assume they are interested and I'll check out their profile. So it's like a "hey I'm interested in you are yoi interested in me" sort of thing.

If I like what I see I'll send them a message if not I'll ignore them and they might wink at me later and maybe I'll be more desperate then lol.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Linwood

If I get a wink I assume you want to play x

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