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By *dinburghjay OP Man
8 weeks ago

edinburgh

Because I like to give as well as take I thought i’d pop a few things i’ve found on my journey to loving being fucked.

i spent 15 years or so as a dedicated top, but in the last year i have started to love being more bottom and sucking cocks.

I was pretty tight and as much as I wanted to be fucked I found it pretty painful, but i’ve learnt the following.

Relax. don’t tense up.

lube and more lube. Put some up yourself and make sure the guy has lots on.

control the entry. I like to guide the in. It prevents over egger tops just ramming it up there

guide them in slowly or just get them to stand there and push yourself back on to them.

when they are in just relax and ask them to hold still for a bit whilst you get used to it.

i’m fairly clean (high fiber diet) but if you can do douche

Have fun and remember it’s your body so don’t do anything you don’t want to.

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8 weeks ago

"Because I like to give as well as take I thought i’d pop a few things i’ve found on my journey to loving being fucked.

i spent 15 years or so as a dedicated top, but in the last year i have started to love being more bottom and sucking cocks.

I was pretty tight and as much as I wanted to be fucked I found it pretty painful, but i’ve learnt the following.

Relax. don’t tense up.

lube and more lube. Put some up yourself and make sure the guy has lots on.

control the entry. I like to guide the in. It prevents over egger tops just ramming it up there

guide them in slowly or just get them to stand there and push yourself back on to them.

when they are in just relax and ask them to hold still for a bit whilst you get used to it.

i’m fairly clean (high fiber diet) but if you can do douche

Have fun and remember it’s your body so don’t do anything you don’t want to.

Sound advice slow and deliberate remember it's meant to be mutual pleasure

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By *erbysuckMan
8 weeks ago

derbyshire

That’s sound great advice I will bear that in mind xx

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Because I like to give as well as take I thought i’d pop a few things i’ve found on my journey to loving being fucked.

i spent 15 years or so as a dedicated top, but in the last year i have started to love being more bottom and sucking cocks.

I was pretty tight and as much as I wanted to be fucked I found it pretty painful, but i’ve learnt the following.

Relax. don’t tense up.

lube and more lube. Put some up yourself and make sure the guy has lots on.

control the entry. I like to guide the in. It prevents over egger tops just ramming it up there

guide them in slowly or just get them to stand there and push yourself back on to them.

when they are in just relax and ask them to hold still for a bit whilst you get used to it.

i’m fairly clean (high fiber diet) but if you can do douche

Have fun and remember it’s your body so don’t do anything you don’t want to.

Love this.

Ive been fortunate enough to have only one meet where the top was over eager and tried to ram themselves in and was very sore and uncomfortable. The rest have paused once they have entered me to get used to them being there and slowly built up a rythem.

As always no means no and if youre not enjoying it you can stop

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By *oxleyMan
8 weeks ago

Wetherby

A very nice post.

No stress, no issues.

Well done.

Wish I were closer !!!

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Good advice. Would also say, take your time. Wham bam is going to hurt and may cause bleeding

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By *ollobolloMan
8 weeks ago

Cambuslang

Great post. I’m not wanted slammed by a guy who thinks he’s showing off in front of his mates. Some guys love that and that’s fine but it’s not for the reasons I wanna fuck. I do it for the passion and the feeling. Kissing, touching and feeling is paramount. Once you have that it’s connection which makes you relaxed and ready. Both finding the way to fuck and be fucked is incredible. Worst thing is being tense though.

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By *ichardE14Man
8 weeks ago

Between C Wharf & Stratford

Great Post

I have a regular who just used to ram it in, but with guidance he's now learned to take it gently...to begin with, he can the do what he wants

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By *raig_KJMan
8 weeks ago

Southport

Relax by pushing down, as a cock enters your arse.

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By *winkbreederMan
8 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

Good advice for beginners like me. I would also assume that we should start by taking skinny dicks if possible. Which tbh i am looking for to show me the ropes.

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By *dinburghjay OP Man
8 weeks ago

edinburgh

I used to think that. But with a bit of experience I can take pretty much any size. Bigger just takes longer to get comfortable.

I think it’s more a mental thing than anything else.

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By *OMPLACIENT GUYMan
8 weeks ago

Hove

My first was pretty thick in girth.He used his fingers to stretch me a little then really lubed me up.He took it slowly stopping when I asked then pulling back slightly he'd push a little further untill his full length was up me.

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By *500Man
8 weeks ago

London

Great advice

A tounge slowly inserted in the hole to relax it and guide it open helps.

Relaxation is the key to arse hole entry

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Good advice for beginners like me. I would also assume that we should start by taking skinny dicks if possible. Which tbh i am looking for to show me the ropes."

First cock i took was big and girthy too at first i wasnt sure i would be able to handle him, thankfully he gently eased and stretched my ass with his fingers before plenty of lube and took his time. Once he got in he held his position till i was comfortable with him being there before sliding further in till he was fully inside me

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By *lasgowbi 100Man
7 weeks ago

rutherglen

Was fucked for the 1st time on Friday, give the guy his due because he was so gentle

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By *utual2Man
7 weeks ago

Angus

I know from my own experience with using a suction dildo I’ve had to take my time and gently and slowly easy it in, bitt at a time and plenty lube. It’s only 5 inches, but that’s plenty.

There’s a point it gets it and i have to be very careful and patient. Like there’s this wall.

Once I get past it, and still take my time, I’m good to go.

I can remove it and gently push it inside again but it’s a lot easier.

Riding it has been a fun experience.

Couldn’t imagine someone just ramming their cock inside, the pain would be terrible. It’s crippling.

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By *3243Man
7 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

I had a guy a while ago who thrust his cock in like he was throwing a spear. It was very sore and I yelped loudly. That was the end of that session! I was very sore for ages. So yes, what you write is great and should be obligatory reading for some.

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By *dinladdyMan
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

As someone on the thicker side I am probably over cautious on how my bottom is doing. Really don't want to hurt the guy!

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By *ercy93Man
7 weeks ago

Falkirk

Thanks for the tips , I have yet to try anal ☺️

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By *agerforbothMan
7 weeks ago

perth

Eager to try my first as I’ve only topped and glad i stumbled on this post thanks for advice and any more tips are welcomed be me and I’m sure many others

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By *haverMan
7 weeks ago

Bracknell

I bought a inflatable butt plug and now my anus can stretch to take a tennis ball love it

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By *uriousalexMan
7 weeks ago

St. Andrews

Thanks for all the advice guys, came close to my 1st time a couple of weeks ago, but due to my nerves, it never quite happened, though im sure its what i want, and im sure it will happen, hopefully sooner than later.

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By *lderbttmMan
7 weeks ago

Inverness

Even after decades of being fucked, I still get guys to go in slow to begin with. I have good lube and the brown bottle to help. Then they can just pound me.

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By *dinburghjay OP Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

something that’s helped me recently is opening myself up with a dildo befor hand. Especially if I am going to a sauna where communication it’s a bit lacking. One on one tends to be a bit slower if you know what i mean!

But the biggest thing I have learnt is to control the entry.

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By *ax102Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Great comments.

I really wanna try it but nervous and never found the right guy - if that makes sense.

I don’t do pain but want to experience the feeling of it.

Guess the right moment will happen sometime xx

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By *en DoversMan
2 weeks ago

Alloa

I’ve had mixed experiences. One guy tried to ram it in so quickly he literally knocked me off the bed, through to a lovely guy with a huge cock who lubed both us up and slowly and gently inched his cock into me. Mmmm

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By *aughtyPKMan
2 weeks ago

Bothwell

My first time and only time was when I got seriously d*unk and went back to a hotel with a stag do. 4 guys on my virgin ass wasn’t a good idea. Was very very sore! I was ruined.

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By *ide girthMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Great advice

Thanks

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By *ibtmguyMan
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

For me problem is length nit girth

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By *cknow1Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Good advice. Except for douching. Could never get it to work for me. Developed other ways. Main advice. Enjoy it and relax.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

Get a nice dildo to practice on. You can loosen yourself up and enjoy yourself during all the practice.

I find tops don't want fellas who claim to be tight. Yes, first entry that's natural, but they wanna bit of in and out.

Nothing better than taking a guy and telling him to go slow and then grabbing the cheeks of his arse and just pulling him til he's balls deep. 🍒

Lots of fun...

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By *teviebi1968Man
2 weeks ago

Falkirk

Thanks for all the advice and tips guys.

I haven’t been fucked many times and not for a wee while now but I’m really wanting a cock in me again and hopefully soon.

I tend to find it’s easier for entry depending on the position I’m in. If I’m on my back with legs wide open and in the air or my legs on the shoulders of another guy it’s more comfortable for starting off. After being fucked in that position for a bit then the other positions become easier.

That’s just got me very horny writing that. Dam it. lol.

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By *tephanie9090TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bishop

Prepare well. Douche, plenty of lube and take it slow...its soo worth it.

Stephanie is small and tight but its just amazing when its done properly...

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By *arty12Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I like to be sure im clean by having full enema followed by dildo. Usually takes a few fillings to make sure but lots of fun and helps to relax when riding dildo or cock. Love to show off if anyone would like to watch or film ?

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Linwood

I shave then clean myself out with the shower hose, some lube then ride my dildo to clean out the remaining stuff then pop my plug in ready for my date x

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By *bznewMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

In an ideal world it would be great to have an “arrangement” with a cute discrete younger couple for a series of lessons….show and tell, guidance, etc

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Can be easier if you already know the guy well and trust him. Knowing he isn't out just to get what he wants goes a long way. Took me a long time to build that trust but so glad that I did

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By *acingfanMan
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

As a complete top, my advice is to go as slowly and with as much patience as the bottom needs.

So that you both enjoy it.

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By *avin61Man
1 week ago

glasgow

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By *avin61Man
1 week ago

glasgow

Like to try being bottom

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By *eiseMan
1 week ago

Cumbernauld

"As a complete top, my advice is to go as slowly and with as much patience as the bottom needs.

So that you both enjoy it."

Nope, not quite following you, can you visit and demonstrate what you mean, please? 🤔😉

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By *oeyK11Man
1 week ago

glasgow

Lots of lube, take time. Wee sniff and go with someone who isn’t massive

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