FabGuys.com forum: The loneliness of christmas

By *roy8 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Perthshire

So here we are days away from Christmas ,a time of year in the past filled me with joy and pleasure. This year will be very different as I lost my love 6 months ago and I know it will be hard.i was planning to just lock myself away for the duration and probably grief. A few good friends have persuaded me not to. I have reluctantly relented and bringing them into my life for the festive season. It won't be the same by any stretch but has made me realise my love would not have wanted me to be this way. So, people out there if you know of someone who needs the understanding and love of a friend ,extend a hand,let them know you care and let them make the move even if it's just to grief over the phone. Be kind,we need it. Merry Christmas to us all

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

It's what he/she would have wanted

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By *macmanMan
3 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Well said....

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By *raig_KJMan
3 weeks ago

Southport

As you get older, Christmas no longer has its magic.

Friends and Family are reduced.

I’m reminded all through the season, that I’m alone.

I bury myself in hobbies, to keep my mind active. It also means I have regular social interaction.

True Friends are rare.

Soul Mate, what’s that.

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By *inkybi99Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I think why so many older ladies get a wee dog..

Good post my friend.. I hope you have a nice Xmas..

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By *intyreMan
3 weeks ago

Campbeltown

Very well said.

Even online friends are all there for each other.x take care

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By *3243Man
3 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

I hope you have an enjoyable time. Wishing you all the best. xx

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By *ldderMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Christmas can be a especially lonely time when you see people enjoying themselves.But where ever you are trying keeping your spirits up. Happy Christmas one and all x

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By *clayairMan
3 weeks ago

ayrshire

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By *ld4yngfunMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I live alone, in Edinburgh.

I would love some company, around New Year.

If any other guy or guys, are lonely, please message.

We would both benefit from each others company.

No time wasters please. x

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By *ich65Man
3 weeks ago

Chorley

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