FabGuys.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Scotland

Leave the mrs

Jump to newest
 

By *ime Bandit25 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’m at a point now where I want to leave the Mrs but don’t wanna come out as gay cause I do still love pussy, anyone got some sound advice for a guy in need?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *i Biker60Man
2 weeks ago

bitown

Call digby brown 😉

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *b20Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I’m at a point now where I want to leave the Mrs but don’t wanna come out as gay cause I do still love pussy, anyone got some sound advice for a guy in need? "

I know a fair few Gay and Bi guys who are married and live with their wives,it isn't a matter of coming out, its a matter of why you want to leave her in the first place, if its over its over

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *regABCMan
2 weeks ago

blackhall

Just tell her you have grown apart.

Lots of guys are like you and want to live their lives true to themselves; why not you only live once.

Decide your sexuality when you leave her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iguybottomnowMan
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Mate no one can give you advice about this other may feel the same but in the end its all down to you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heedjMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

Feck that, i'd miss my diners..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iganbiguy1963Man
2 weeks ago

Wigan

In 2012, I thought about leaving my wife, as I preferred sex with men.

It was around that time #reappear, that she actually asked me to marry her.

Many a time, I've thought, God I've missed out.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *2olMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mate, you don’t say if there are children from the relationship and with your age, if there are, I’m sure they’re still a bit of collateral damage if you do split up.

Also, if you split up, would you be staying in same area and seeing her dating others whilst you’re still having to sneak about for discreet cock fun?

If you’re wife is same age as you, you need to factor in a soon to happen menopause and potentially her not wanting as much sex as she does just now, if she does want sex now that is.

You’ve a huge decision to make and only you know the right answer, best of luck with whatever way you go.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icurious21Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

Find a good lawyer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aringtogo00TV/TS
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Trust me the grass isn’t any greener anywhere else, it’s a costly job with only the lawyer winning .

Once the process starts the hate starts to come out then there’s things that she wants that you don’t want but to throw a spanner in the works you want it, the whole process is crazy .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nyonethereMan
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Better to stay in the closet and just meet men behind her back

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aviddaddy50Man
2 weeks ago

aberfeldy

If your not happy leave your wife .you don't have to come out as gay or bi .take time.e for your self rebuild your self then when you feel confident enough and if you choose to then come out .

Life to short to be miserable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aviddaddy50Man
2 weeks ago

aberfeldy

[Removed by poster at 30/12/25 07:25:39]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

Is yhss as t really what you want?

Maybe you just need a proper lover then your heart will decide

It’s tough being single especially getting accommodation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulge1Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Did it 12 years ago found I liked cock more. Not came out as I still like the occasional bit pussy. Plus have a place of my own and can invite who I want when I want.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lue555Man
2 weeks ago

harrow

Can leave your wife with coming out plenty straight people get divorced.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emmeFunTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I would say see a counsellor or a therapist to talk through what you are feeling.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *regABCMan
2 weeks ago

blackhall

That would infer he did not want a split, he does

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *roy8Man
2 weeks ago

Perthshire

20 years ago I always said if the wife was the devil incarnate I would still stay married as divorce would cost me too much. Then things changed she became intolerable to live with and I left,granted there was a very attractive woman to go to. Big mistake.. ... I got well and truly fleeced by her lawyers,cost me over 20 grand in fees alone,7 years to get the decree nisi . Stay where you are and fuck men on the side

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unty NancyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Ayr

This is not the place to seek advice on something this big.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *punk1975Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I can expose you to her she will leave you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hestelpantherMan
2 weeks ago

paisley

If your really honest to her and tell her that your not into the relationship anymore and have fell pig of love wirh her then she should understand you don’t need to tell her you are sexually attracted to men you can if you want but I wouldn’t if I was you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ebastiano HeydrichMan
2 weeks ago

Hemel

Be careful, you might come to regret your decision when you have to deal with the full consequences. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Think before you jump x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Why do you need to come out? If the marriage is going nowhere that is one thing but does your sexuality come into it? Is she feeling the same? Might both be happier on your own

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *westMan
2 weeks ago

Hull


"I can expose you to her she will leave you "

I shouldn't do but I find that so horny.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *OMPLACIENT GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Hove

Would not leave mine she has her fun and I mine.Dirtiest bitch in bed ever🤣🤣🤣

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *kvanmanMan
2 weeks ago

andover


"Feck that, i'd miss my diners.."
and someone to was your clothes lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top