I’ve always been versatile in bed play but obviously like most men I get pleasure from letting them top.
Now I’m older I’m looking for someone loyal to play with, to own to concentrate on.
I’m thinking of switching to top just because I get lonely sometimes and would like someone to spend time with.
Trouble is , expectations of being top come from those of rough porn.
Have you ever been with the same thoughts and did you find what you wanted?