FabGuys.com forum: People with a bad attitude on here

By *ulge1 OP Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Just spoken to a guy who expects others to just drop everything and visit him. When you ask about time and place he gets nasty in a verbal way if you can’t go to him there and then. No coming and going on a time that would suit both parties just a FFS another time waster from him then a block. Should he be named ? Or does that make me as bad as him ? Let’s just say I won’t be heading for Bromhouse Edinburgh very soon.

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By *h60Man
7 days ago

Thurso

If I was completely free to travel I would drop everything to visit a Dom top no questions asked

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By *ay couple me and himCouple (MM)
7 days ago

Kilwinning

Always name and shame. Weed out these people

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By *shcd888TV/TS
7 days ago

Inverness

Some people just can't take no for an answer , some of us are here just for a meet now and again, not to get on the veri's leaderboard.

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By *wansmickMan
7 days ago

Belfast

Naming and shaming is a dodgy way to go. There are two sides to a story and both might tell a different tale 🤔🤔. Block and move on 🤔🤔

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By *weddolMan
7 days ago

Chester

I think it is to look at what is behind this behaviour.

The way that we use and relate to the Internet in general is changing.

I think online culture is increasingly moving towards it being an online experience rather than a tool to use to enhance real life, and the way that a lot of men express themselves on here has shifted away from connecting with someone and meeting them for a joint experience, towards wanting some specific activity and then finding a person to provide that service.

This has led to men treating this in a similar way to ordering a pizza and then getting frustrated when they can't just come online and order whatever specific thing it is that they want and get it delivered in the same way as deliveroo or amazon.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
7 days ago

Glasgow

There are just too msny guys on here with a sense of entitlement. I had one this week with the opening message of "Nice profile - when are we going to fuck?" My response was along the lines of 'Since neither of us can accom its not going to happen' to which he replied "Brutal". It might be brutal but it was honest

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By *ucifer76Man
7 days ago

Asgard

Unfortunately you need to through the shit to find the few decent guys that are still here ive said it many a time the site has change so much since covid its unbelievable.

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By *n4bearsMan
7 days ago

Lochalsh

"Naming and shaming is a dodgy way to go. There are two sides to a story and both might tell a different tale 🤔🤔. Block and move on 🤔🤔"

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By *iassloverMan
7 days ago

Rugby

Another thing to do is if they block you, block them back as it stops them unblocking you to send abuse and then hiding back behind the block as I've seen happen elsewhere.

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By *atskinMan
7 days ago

Gourock

Block list is vast. Not only bams but where attitude stinks, past outing as timewasters and TBH incompatible to save time and max local contacts.

It's a shadow of what it was a decade ago on here but I have met good friends and playmates.

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By *DTop1872Man
7 days ago

N Lanarkshire

Some days it feels like a block party

I'm mostly about chatting, but if I want to meet, I'll say - if I don't I'm always polite about it. Unfortunately there are entitled pr*cks who seem to think I should be fainting at the offer

I'm not rude, but I don't have to explain myself to anyone. No one does.

Anyway the sun's out so enough moaning from me!

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