FabGuys.com forum: Loneliness

YerDaRimsMe

Just noticed this in the Ireland Forum and made me think. We can all get aroused and rake this place as a knocking shop, orgasm and move on. My profile is arrogant as fuck , I don’t mind saying , bit in a more personal level. I don’t mind admitting I’m lonely Worst kind of lonely … Lonely in a shared bed … anyone else … or is it just fucking me as per usual lol

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By *riefsMan
3 weeks ago

gorey

Yes lots of guys get lonely and It takes very little effort to just say hi to someone

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By *airyscot72Man
3 weeks ago

scotland

Left her for that reason

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By *oywMan
3 weeks ago

ka18

I think we should all try and help the guys who are feeling this problem even if its just popping around for a coffee and chat with or without sex

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By *ool stationMan
3 weeks ago

Alloa area

"Left her for that reason "

Same! Started meeting guys because it was easier to have connections without commitments

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By *ref wild than mildMan
3 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

Must admit . Myself gets lonely at times . I think it’s a lot more common than we think .

I recon it’s always nice just to say hello . How you doing ?

Some guys do think that you’re after a hookup . Suppose it is Fab .

Just be nice too one another

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By *erlinmateMan
3 weeks ago

cumnock

The loneliness caused by grief can be overwhelming at times.Not a nice feeling.

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By *ref wild than mildMan
3 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

"The loneliness caused by grief can be overwhelming at times.Not a nice feeling."

Totally mate

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By *artin20000Man
3 weeks ago

fairlie

Yes I’m very lonely for affection I’d do anything for that feeling of being wanted xx

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow South

"Yes I’m very lonely for affection I’d do anything for that feeling of being wanted xx"

But wanted in what way?

To be their sex toy?

To help pay the rent?

To be wanted for who you are, not what you are?

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By *pankswitch2Man
3 weeks ago

lochgelly

"Yes I’m very lonely for affection I’d do anything for that feeling of being wanted xx"

I'm the same I just want someone to like me for who I am it's horrible feeling in wanted whether it's for friendship or sex .

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

I guess the m too hold to find someone again but if they make you feel alone in bed leave, there will be someone who actually wants you but can’t because you’re stuck

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By *ikasgMan
2 weeks ago

The Sticks

You do not have to be alone to be lonely. I’m a loner, I don’t have friends, anyone that just drops a text to say hi or share a funny, I often say hi to people when I pass them in the street when I walk especially if like me they are walking on their own as I often wonder if they would actually talk to anyone else that day. Why do I do it? Simple I don’t want other people to feel like I do. Just because I like my own company does not mean that I don’t miss a simple interaction.

Similarly if someone looks at my profile I will say thanks and ask how they are, most on here just ignore the message, delete it without reply, or then there are the guys that reply a few times and then ghost people. Life is short, if you don’t want to continue chatting to someone be man enough to say so, at least then people know where they stand. I’m sure the usual haters will criticise this post but that’s their right to their opinion, those people I choose not to waste energy on replying for after all there’s no point arguing with stupid as they drag you down to their level and beat you with their experience.

If you can be anything today… be kind. It costs nothing and to some it means everything

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By *ohn542026Man
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

Old here and alone xxx

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By *ikesmenMan
2 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

It costs nothing to be nice. Life is tough and a smile and a hi can sometimes make someones day

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By *hyguy62Man
2 weeks ago

Brentwood

I’m married and I still feel lonely. A nice older guy, locally, for regular fun and friendship is what I need xx

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By *ornydave2019Man
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I visit guys who are lonely n want to chat n some who are lonely n just want some cock n I don't mind that

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By *igs1974Man
2 weeks ago

glenrothes

I like my own space, married but without the intimacy, so I'd say I'm lonely on the sex front.

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By *un-darkMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

Yeah. I experience the loneliness. Even though far from alone in the house.

Have thought about going to groups to talk but I fear I would hold back my truth about being bi in that space.

A new such social group where we can talk and more if the mood took us would be a dream come true.

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By *tar-40Man
2 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

Loneliness is a mental health issue I suffer from I hate being on my own and it’s a horrible feeling to come home to and just look at four walls all naked got the sleep and repeat a group would be great to talk and let our feelings out

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By *un-darkMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

There is Andy’s man club. And like I said temped to go but not sure how open about everything I could be there. And holding back would seem to defeat the purpose. So an BA group (bi anon) would be cool as fuck

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By *lideitindeep70Man
2 weeks ago

Paignton

Life here is lonely too, I obviously picked the wrong friends when younger as now a loner, doesn't take much to say hi how's things.

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By *onathan8300Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

"There is Andy’s man club. And like I said temped to go but not sure how open about everything I could be there. And holding back would seem to defeat the purpose. So an BA group (bi anon) would be cool as fuck"

I would urge you to go buddy

You dont have to say anything

You can sit and just listen

You only share what you wanna share

Also if youre in a good group og guys you build friendships and solidarity

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By *ide girthMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Definitely go please

I have time on my hands most days and happy to chat with anyone

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By *iscreetly100Man
2 weeks ago

lancashire

I joined fab after a long spell off sick and realising how alone I was. 8 have a lovely wife and kids but no one to talk to about me.

Since being on here I have met some great guys in a similar position to me.

Some I just chat too and some more.

Reaching out and forming connections is the key and being honest. So good luck to all to all who are feeling lonely and happy fathers day to all

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By *enfunMan
2 weeks ago

Ayr

I’ve been wanting to go to the local Andy’s man club

But so nervous

Being alone is so hard.

I work alone most days. Come home and go to bed

Repeat the next day

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By *opmaster62Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I recently lost my partner of 30yrs. Suddenly found myself incredibly lonely

I have amazing friends who I can call but somehow the feeling is still overwhelming. A shag is nice but a momentary respite

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By *ush BackMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

An amazing thread, I can relate to much of it. Thanks guys great community.

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By *erDazSuckedmeaff OP Man
2 weeks ago

YerDaRimsMe

"I’ve been wanting to go to the local Andy’s man club

But so nervous

Being alone is so hard.

I work alone most days. Come home and go to bed

Repeat the next day

Never hesitate to contact these clubs. That’s what they’re there for. Literally lifesavers. Get along mate x

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By *un-darkMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

"I joined fab after a long spell off sick and realising how alone I was. 8 have a lovely wife and kids but no one to talk to about me.

Since being on here I have met some great guys in a similar position to me.

Some I just chat too and some more.

Reaching out and forming connections is the key and being honest. So good luck to all to all who are feeling lonely and happy fathers day to all"

Brilliant man this is what we all need a brother hood we can talk with about everything no holding back in fear of rejection or being cast out because of one part of us

Glad you found something that helps

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By *amme!Man
2 weeks ago

on my travels

"You do not have to be alone to be lonely. I’m a loner, I don’t have friends, anyone that just drops a text to say hi or share a funny, I often say hi to people when I pass them in the street when I walk especially if like me they are walking on their own as I often wonder if they would actually talk to anyone else that day. Why do I do it? Simple I don’t want other people to feel like I do. Just because I like my own company does not mean that I don’t miss a simple interaction.

If you can be anything today… be kind. It costs nothing and to some it means everything "

Totally with you on your last paragraph. 👍

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By *ubtightsslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Alloa

After the break up of my last relationship, I realise just how lonely life can be when alone. The loss of having someone there is truly awful. Some days I'm OK, others I cry myself to a standstill.

I have a couple of very good friends and a sister I can talk to about anything, but equally I am very socially awkward and struggle to connect on any meaningful level.

Man sex satisfies a physical need, and I really enjoy it, but I wish I could have something more substantial.

The thought of being alone for the rest of my life genuinely scares me, but it's probably going to be my reality.

A difficult spiral to escape from.

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By *iscreetly100Man
2 weeks ago

lancashire

If you can be anything today… be kind. It costs nothing and to some it means everything

Totally with you on your last paragraph. 👍"

As do I as I think by being kind you find happiness...

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By *ountrygentsCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Llandudno

"The loneliness caused by grief can be overwhelming at times.Not a nice feeling."

Loneliness through grief is not only overwhelming, it’s also very consuming.

I lost my husband suddenly 14 months ago, every day and night has been lonely since he’s gone.

It feels like my life ended too, before anyone says it yes life must go on, and he wouldn’t want me to be lonely either.

Maybe in time there will be someone else, but never a replacement.

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By *ut_2_ItMan
2 weeks ago

tollcross glasgow

When you have had a shitty upbringing , left homeless as a kid and no family of mates it truly effects your mental health and it deffo is lonely but some days are easier than others.

I have been single now for god knows how many years between meeting mugs and my mental health and hating my body with all the comfort eating it was not worth the hassle.

I think now I'm to used to being on my own the thought of being with other folk is tough but just got to work on it and at some point hopefully I'll meet the right folk again .

clocks ticking not collecting the free bus pass yet

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By *ay couple me and himCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Kilwinning

I think that we should support each other. Whatever you are thinking we've all had thoughts because we're stuck. I came out at 49. Married with a daughter. I was lost for a long time but I joined a gay dads group. If your area doesn't have one then set one up on here. It's not about sex it's about support of who you wanna be. Anyone wanting a chat get in touch.

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By *tsGottaBeBig9Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

This is my first post on here. Feel like I was drawn to this topic so thanks for all the posts above. I’m going through a very difficult time in my life, loneliness, depression, social anxiety is all crippling. Might give ‘Andy’s’ a look. Had no idea such a group existed

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By *un-darkMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

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By *un-darkMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

"This is my first post on here. Feel like I was drawn to this topic so thanks for all the posts above. I’m going through a very difficult time in my life, loneliness, depression, social anxiety is all crippling. Might give ‘Andy’s’ a look. Had no idea such a group existed"

They do good work and are everywhere. Easy find and just go along is what I hear. Good luck man and keep us posted.

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By *reffMan
2 weeks ago

Border Region

Is there an equivalent to the Andy’s Men Clubs in Ireland?

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By *eephole30Man
2 weeks ago

Teesdale /Durham

Yes me and the wife have slept in separate bedrooms for years now .

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By *onathan8300Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yeah mate , just go

If you start going regularly, you can build friendships, support

Amazing how the way you feel is exactly the same as others , but most men just dont talk

Don't just exist, learn to live !

They do good work and are everywhere. Easy find and just go along is what I hear. Good luck man and keep us posted."

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By *dinlad 18Man
2 weeks ago

DALKEITH

A great post with lots of different responses.I have a very good social group so not lonely in that sense but I crave just the physical touch of a man.To lay naked in there arms and just talk no agenda sex wise just to feel a man's naked body wrapped around yours.

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By *HEdaddyMan
2 weeks ago

Peebles

Good luck and best wishes to anyone dealing with loneliness.

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By *lasgowlatexMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I always say hello to friends on here, it’s very important to remember to do so as you are never sure of how much contact they have. Me saying a quick and having a chat might be the only communication they have in days or more. It doesn’t take a lot of effort but it can make the world of difference

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By *ohn542026Man
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

Felt realy alone when I went to doc say blood pressure low it’s one thing after another since I retired xx

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By *ath567Man
2 weeks ago

Kilsyth

I feel lonely, unloved and unwanted all most every day.

Despite having a partner who tells me they love me, I feel like this most days I hear them say it but I don’t feel it.

I talk to people every day but there is very little connection there. I’m not close with my family haven’t been since around 16/18. My saving grace is that I do tend to cope well being alone always have done but it does hurt from time to time and it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it but it’s hard to open up to them when they don’t understand.

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By *enfunMan
2 weeks ago

Ayr

I’m m on my own most of the time

If any one fancies a chat. About anything

Feel free to pm me

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By *yrman57Man
2 weeks ago

Ayr

"I’m m on my own most of the time

If any one fancies a chat. About anything

Feel free to pm me "

I'm available to chat.

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By *filthyMan
2 weeks ago

North Berwick

My door is always open to anyone that needs a chat or coffee x

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By *lasgowbi 100Man
2 weeks ago

rutherglen

Hate being lonely

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

Loneliness is a bad thing to experience, I am alone most times

It would be nice to find someone to have as a partner, a companion friend who is open to lots of sex too

Men near me don’t like bears

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By *anker1000Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

Always happy to put the kettle on and chat with anyone feeling lonely x

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By *axfactorMan
1 week ago

annan

"Always happy to put the kettle on and chat with anyone feeling lonely x "

Feel the same way myself

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By *ohn542026Man
1 week ago

West Lothian

Live alone here not easy now price of things going up

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By *omtomsbackMan
1 week ago

edinburgh

Happy to chat, also make a pretty good coffee

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By *loppy69ukMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I can relate to most things in this post. I don't often take time off, and come home to nobody at the weekends. Not many people want to visit. They make contact, but for some reason they decide not to visit, some use an excuse, but others don't bother,they just don't turn up. You make the effort, they don't. My job is very lonely in a 15 hr day. Stay safe.

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By *opmaster62Man
1 week ago

Edinburgh

"Always happy to put the kettle on and chat with anyone feeling lonely x "

That's a lovely offer

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By *ankbuddywantedxMan
1 week ago

Portlethen

I work away. Quite often with people I don't like. The loneliness cripples me at times

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By *axxedinMan
1 week ago

edinburgh

This has to be one of the best post subjects on the 'forum'. Keep it up guys. Don't be shy. Contact whoever you want. Filter out the time wasters and enjoy chatting. And more if you are lucky enough. Just remember, we are all in the same boat. In many respects.

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By *ankbuddywantedxMan
1 week ago

Portlethen

If anyone ever wants to chat. I'm always here.

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By *oe_66WFMan
1 week ago

Darton

Brilliant post, even in a relationship you can feel 'alone'. Connecting with others will help immensely.

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By *reggabc99Man
1 week ago

blackhall durham

If anyone wants to talk use my shoulders to off load on we should help each other

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By *ukin84Man
1 week ago

Paisley

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By *ednesday72Man
1 week ago

Paisley

This is a needed thread, and not a subject us gents are great about discussing - especially on here, where certain behaviours aren't great for feeling good about yourself.

Anyone who wants to reach out, please do - I love dirty chat as much as the next guy, but we're more than just a nice cock to play with.

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By *riefsMan
1 week ago

gorey

Evening everyone

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By *reggabc99Man
1 week ago

blackhall durham

I will listen and not judge if you need to talk or ask anything

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By *lasgowlatexMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

There are some pretty decent people on here x

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By *reggabc99Man
1 week ago

blackhall durham

It's OK to talk to another guy no shame in it

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By *tsGottaBeBig9Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

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By *tsGottaBeBig9Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

Has anyone on here been to an ‘AndysManClub’ meeting?

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By *ice guy 1956Man
1 week ago

near girvan

anyone in this situation around sth west ayrshire ? if so message me its good to talk

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By *pankswitch2Man
1 week ago

lochgelly

Hi I'm always happy to listen I'm lonely family don't bother about me I live alone don't really have a social life I go places like theatre cinema even eating out alone as I have no choice lifes hard I'm not a loner just alone but I keep going and survive

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By *riefsMan
4 days ago

gorey

Hi guys hope you're all doing well

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By *riefsMan
1 day ago

gorey

It's a warm one

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By *eiseMan
1 day ago

Cumbernauld

"It's a warm one "

Not quite as stupidly hot up here, but Wednesday was still decidedly warm. Think it was a sign of having moved so little that my bones were cold all day.

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By *ide girthMan
1 day ago

Edinburgh

Hopefully this lovely weather is brightening up everyone's day xx

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By *2marcMan
1 day ago

tunstall

"Just noticed this in the Ireland Forum and made me think. We can all get aroused and rake this place as a knocking shop, orgasm and move on. My profile is arrogant as fuck , I don’t mind saying , bit in a more personal level. I don’t mind admitting I’m lonely Worst kind of lonely …

Lonely in a shared bed … anyone else … or is it just fucking me as per usual lol "

Sorry to but in from down south ( so to speak ) but what a fantastic post and people. This is how it should be supporting each other and been able to actually communicate 👍👍

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By *ohn542026Man
1 day ago

West Lothian

Think I take a drive to the sea side x

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By *ulge2Man
1 day ago

Edinburgh

Must admit I get lonely sometimes

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By *ittlefishMan
1 day ago

Im here

"Has anyone on here been to an ‘AndysManClub’ meeting?"

Yes I have. Turned into more of a group therapy session with me as the therapist. I tend to go into healthcare mode and absorb everyone else’s issues 😂.

Get down to a meeting.

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By *erlinmateMan
1 day ago

cumnock

Good afternoon guys, hope you are all doing ok.

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By *riefsMan
23 hours ago

gorey

How is everyone tan coming along

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By *tsGottaBeBig9Man
22 hours ago

Glasgow

"Has anyone on here been to an ‘AndysManClub’ meeting?

Yes I have. Turned into more of a group therapy session with me as the therapist. I tend to go into healthcare mode and absorb everyone else’s issues 😂.

Get down to a meeting.

Thanks. Still contemplating attending but feel ill at the thought of it too

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By *reggabc99Man
10 hours ago

blackhall durham

Don't get lonely guys

Contact a guy and just talk even if it's Bellshill you will end up smiling and laughing

Make friends with these guys and go visit them for a day or two.

Impossible??? You won't know if you don't try.xx

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By *ubicattorney2Man
10 hours ago

looking for fun

I agree and recognise the loneliness aspect a lot of the guys are saying on here.

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By *arcus BezzantMan
9 hours ago

North Ayrshire

I knew from my teens I'd spend my life alone, though I didn't reckon it would be every Christmas too, I expect I'll be one of those people who gets found dead several weeks after it happens.

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By *ubBiGuyXXXMan
8 hours ago

Paisley

Unfortunately I know this all too well. I've suffered depression my whole life and it's led to this, I'm in a sexless marriage with little to no intimacy.

I do love my wife but for various reasons I can't always get hard anymore so we have drifted to a place where we are really good friends but we are not lovers.

Probably not helped by me being very submissive by nature, she hates that about me

I'm still trying to talk her into taking on lovers herself but she's not into it, I feel so trapped and alone so much, I know the life is rather be living but it's just out of reach

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