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"Im going with a female friend hopefully be good " Seems it scared him off.  | |||
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"Sorry it should be males only. " Why should it be only males? | |||
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"Sorry it should be males only. Why should it be only males? " I think he means that having a safe space for males is invaluable. It is. But that’s not the same as saying it has to be Pipeworks. | |||
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"Sorry it should be males only. Why should it be only males? I think he means that having a safe space for males is invaluable. It is. But that’s not the same as saying it has to be Pipeworks." So men will feel unsafe in pipeworks on this night if there are females there?…….. honestly?…… So I’ve been into the polo lounge for nights out and found that females use the mens toilets as the females loo is so busy They walk in and out without any issues and can clearly see men standing having a leak. There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point | |||
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"There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point " Safe space was a bad choice of term on my part. Exclusive space (for males) is a better term. | |||
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"There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point Safe space was a bad choice of term on my part. Exclusive space (for males) is a better term." Ah well that makes more sense now. But to be fair it’s for one night a month is that such a hardship?….. I think you will find the decision to host this night is for business reason only. With it being hard enough for a business to make money it looks like they have had to diversify how they operate in order to turn a coin It’s either find a new way to make a profit or risk closing down Would all these men that want the club exclusively for them be pleased if it shut?….. Sometimes thinking outside the box isn’t for everyone | |||
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"Sorry it should be males only. Why should it be only males? I think he means that having a safe space for males is invaluable. It is. But that’s not the same as saying it has to be Pipeworks. So men will feel unsafe in pipeworks on this night if there are females there?…….. honestly?…… So I’ve been into the polo lounge for nights out and found that females use the mens toilets as the females loo is so busy They walk in and out without any issues and can clearly see men standing having a leak. There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point " I don't feel unsafe but as a gay guy I have absolutely zero interest in any woman. Similarly I have no interest in guys who dress as women and I certainly don't want to see either group naked. Safe spaces for gay men are rare and valued. Events like Fluid will drive many gay men out of the host venue and may never come back as they won't know what they will find. Going drinking in a gay, or gay friendly, pub is a totally different matter | |||
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"Sorry it should be males only. Why should it be only males? I think he means that having a safe space for males is invaluable. It is. But that’s not the same as saying it has to be Pipeworks. So men will feel unsafe in pipeworks on this night if there are females there?…….. honestly?…… So I’ve been into the polo lounge for nights out and found that females use the mens toilets as the females loo is so busy They walk in and out without any issues and can clearly see men standing having a leak. There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point I don't feel unsafe but as a gay guy I have absolutely zero interest in any woman. Similarly I have no interest in guys who dress as women and I certainly don't want to see either group naked. Safe spaces for gay men are rare and valued. Events like Fluid will drive many gay men out of the host venue and may never come back as they won't know what they will find. Going drinking in a gay, or gay friendly, pub is a totally different matter" So for one night a month that is going to make the majority of gay men boycott the place?….. deary me what a prehistoric attitude that is | |||
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"Gay sauna gay men. When did the basics go to shit in this world. It's like telling trans in other toilets. Not very safe for others imo. " So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night | |||
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"Gay sauna gay men. When did the basics go to shit in this world. It's like telling trans in other toilets. Not very safe for others imo. So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night " Someone is a keyboard warrior. I just think sometimes it's better to have stuff got actual gay men instead of the numbered alphabet that has to join in | |||
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"Gay sauna gay men. When did the basics go to shit in this world. It's like telling trans in other toilets. Not very safe for others imo. So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night Someone is a keyboard warrior. I just think sometimes it's better to have stuff got actual gay men instead of the numbered alphabet that has to join in " So my honest opinion makes me a keyboard warrior?….. see when the place closes down cause it’s not making money I won’t say told ye so | |||
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"Gay sauna gay men. When did the basics go to shit in this world. It's like telling trans in other toilets. Not very safe for others imo. So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night Someone is a keyboard warrior. I just think sometimes it's better to have stuff got actual gay men instead of the numbered alphabet that has to join in So my honest opinion makes me a keyboard warrior?….. see when the place closes down cause it’s not making money I won’t say told ye so " The place needs to be cleaned up first lol. No wet floor signs. Cabins aren't really clean and one or two staff are pretty rude if we are talking about the actual venue. It's gone down hill hygiene wise. | |||
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"Gay sauna gay men. When did the basics go to shit in this world. It's like telling trans in other toilets. Not very safe for others imo. So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night Someone is a keyboard warrior. I just think sometimes it's better to have stuff got actual gay men instead of the numbered alphabet that has to join in So my honest opinion makes me a keyboard warrior?….. see when the place closes down cause it’s not making money I won’t say told ye so The place needs to be cleaned up first lol. No wet floor signs. Cabins aren't really clean and one or two staff are pretty rude if we are talking about the actual venue. It's gone down hill hygiene wise. " So gay men feel safe in and around rude staff members but won’t feel safe around females for night night only?…….. Deary me | |||
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"So as I’ve said already are you telling me that gay men will feel unsafe in this place on the 30th of this month?…… that’s garbage and you know it It’s well documented what’s happening on the 30th it’s being spoke about on here and the other site and will be advertised in the venue so people that may feel unsafe can just opt not to go that night Yes, gay men WILL boycott it as gay men don't have any interest in women. Bi men might be delighted. Personal taste is everything here. It is supposed to be a gay venue after all, don't knock it" I’ve not once said gay men will feel unsafe Think you need to read all my comments again As for gay men boycotting the place that’s totally their choice but I hope there’s not an outcry should the place close down due to a boycott all because the venue tried to make more money in one night a month probably than they do on most Mondays of the month | |||
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"Was there a good mix of men and women I'd love some fun with a guy while his female partner watches then joins in" Yeah it was a decent mix | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like?" I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples | |||
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"Interesting concept. I wonder how it works? The rules and expectations?" It works the same as any other night in there with the same rules Pay your money Don’t have any expectations Be polite accept that a no means no Just be respectful I think that’s the best but of advice?…… | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like? I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples " Diametrically opposed to previous post: "Was in tonight, men only! Well, one dresser in." 🤔😏 | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like? I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples Diametrically opposed to previous post: "Was in tonight, men only! Well, one dresser in." 🤔😏" Not sure how it it’s “diametrically opposed”….. Explain if you can please ?…. | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like? I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples Diametrically opposed to previous post: "Was in tonight, men only! Well, one dresser in." 🤔😏 Not sure how it it’s “diametrically opposed”….. Explain if you can please ?…." Not sure how it's not obvious? I'm fairly sure it will become obvious if you re-read? 🤔🤞 | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like? I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples Diametrically opposed to previous post: "Was in tonight, men only! Well, one dresser in." 🤔😏 Not sure how it it’s “diametrically opposed”….. Explain if you can please ?…. Not sure how it's not obvious? I'm fairly sure it will become obvious if you re-read? 🤔🤞" So I’ve said i was in on a Thursday night and a great crowd of singles and couples. Then someone else says they went in on a night when it was men only! Well, one dresser in…… I take it your pointing to the fact I’ve said singles and couples and some else has said men only and a dresser?…… It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in. Two different nights with two different clientele attending. So whats diametrically opposed there?….. it’s two different situations so obviously it’s going to be opposites! Glad I’ve fixed this for you Maybe you should try to understand what you read?…. As I can only explain things for you I can’t make you understand them…… | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…"  | |||
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"Fluid night one of the few I've not been to, anyone able to let me know what its like? I was there on Thursday night Great crowd mixes with singles and couples Diametrically opposed to previous post: "Was in tonight, men only! Well, one dresser in." 🤔😏" Well done that dresser! | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in… "Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?…… I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate. Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read…… Anyway….. Moving on now | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now "Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart  | |||
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"There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point Safe space was a bad choice of term on my part. Exclusive space (for males) is a better term." At end of day everyone has different preferences male,female,both, same as looks some like muscular,dad bods,obese, some like tall,average,small, some like big cocks/boobs, average cocks/boobs, small cocks/boobs. There was a few people there last time couples spent time with themselves but you have a choice that you dont need to go with anyone you dont want to and there will be someone for everyone | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now
Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart "So now we know it was you that didn’t understand then?….. | |||
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"There’s no men feeling unsafe there . So I really don’t get your point Safe space was a bad choice of term on my part. Exclusive space (for males) is a better term. At end of day everyone has different preferences male,female,both, same as looks some like muscular,dad bods,obese, some like tall,average,small, some like big cocks/boobs, average cocks/boobs, small cocks/boobs. There was a few people there last time couples spent time with themselves but you have a choice that you dont need to go with anyone you dont want to and there will be someone for everyone " Exactly this | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now
Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart
So now we know it was you that didn’t understand then?….. "So much for moving on then 😆 | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now
Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart
So now we know it was you that didn’t understand then?…..
So much for moving on then 😆"Yeah I did I moved on from explaining how you got it so wrong to trying to teach you that next time understand what’s been said rather than jumping in with your big fancy words trying to look like a billy big balls then not having the decency to say you got it wrong. Kinda says more about you than me I recon | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now
Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart
So now we know it was you that didn’t understand then?…..
So much for moving on then 😆
Yeah I did
I moved on from explaining how you got it so wrong to trying to teach you that next time understand what’s been said rather than jumping in with your big fancy words trying to look like a billy big balls then not having the decency to say you got it wrong.
Kinda says more about you than me I recon "SO (big, not so fancy ) wide of the mark, AGAIN!… but I recognise your desperation to have the last word, so feel free… this time I'LL move on and REFRAIN (not TOO big, I hope) from further comment. "Wee symbol," incoming… | |||
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"…It would be diametrically opposed as you said if the other person was referring to being in the club on the same night I was in…
Not sure what that wee symbol is ment to mean….?……
I would’ve thought a wee embarrassed emoji from you for you would’ve been more appropriate.
Come non here trying to act smart when it’s YOU that can’t understand what you read……
Anyway…..
Moving on now
Lol, please do! FYI, I wasn't trying to act smart
So now we know it was you that didn’t understand then?…..
So much for moving on then 😆
Yeah I did
I moved on from explaining how you got it so wrong to trying to teach you that next time understand what’s been said rather than jumping in with your big fancy words trying to look like a billy big balls then not having the decency to say you got it wrong.
Kinda says more about you than me I recon
SO (big, not so fancy ) wide of the mark, AGAIN!… but I recognise your desperation to have the last word, so feel free… this time I'LL move on and REFRAIN (not TOO big, I hope) from further comment. "Wee symbol," incoming… "Hahaha Ive explained the situation to you but I can’t make you understand it!! Case and point Thank you for letting me expose you for what you are | |||
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