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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling

How many guys are in a sexless marriage and its all your fault.

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By *ascHairyPunkMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Sexless marriage but not my fault lol

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By *umybum963Man
2 weeks ago

kent

Sexless mariage most of the time! And probably my fault as am enjoying cock more!!! Ooops

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By *oasyouwishMan
2 weeks ago

benfleet

I’m in a totally sexless marriage and it may be my fault but no idea, got to the stage I don’t really care

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling

Nor mine but they never seem to take the blame or make an effort

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By *oyalmaleMan
2 weeks ago

leeds

Very common situation for many people

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling


"Very common situation for many people "
no matter what you do how hard you try to please them ..

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By *essMan
2 weeks ago

Hamilton

I'm in a selfless marriage as well and I'm glad she doesn't know I'm on here

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By *heodoneMan
2 weeks ago

Queensferry

It does not matter whose fault it is

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I'm in the same situation

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By *ulge2Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sexless marriage is the reason I like cock now

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By *usicmanxxxMan
2 weeks ago

west lancs

The menopause is at fault

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By *asp500Man
2 weeks ago

Renfrewshire


"Sexless marriage is the reason I like cock now"

This is so true

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By *ayhubbyMan
2 weeks ago

liverpool

No sex or pussy for years

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By *assageman58Man
2 weeks ago

rural

Yes, it's been 10 years since I had sex.

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By *tfiwwtsMan
2 weeks ago

gloucester

Me too, not sure who’s fault it is, I suspect both of us. Once upon a time I would have ended it especially after 5 years of no sex but I realised a long time ago that having someone you love and that loves you is worth more than that so solo sex it is

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By *yrman57Man
2 weeks ago

Ayr

Sexless here but happy to offer my small cock and/or bottom.

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By *antcock113Man
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"Yes, it's been 10 years since I had sex. "

You can have sex with me if you like?

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By *enfunMan
2 weeks ago

Amble

I was in one

Separated now

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By *heodoneMan
2 weeks ago

Queensferry

And we all value your opinion

Many thanks

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By *arried68Man
2 weeks ago

ilford

Not shithole for me - love speaking to likeminded guys … she would be devastated if I left her - and what she don’t know don’t hurt

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By *igs1974Man
2 weeks ago

glenrothes


"The menopause is at fault

"

The same here menopause to blame.

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By *opmaster62Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

So many guys in the same position. I host for men like that. Do what your wife doesn't do

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By *ide girthMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"The menopause is at fault

"

Similar story here

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By *ldboy2025Man
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Early menopause took away any interest and forced a sexless marriage plus wife was never into any kinks so no hand job!!!

Seems to be a common problem. Most marriages still have love if the physical side disappears.

I had a buried bi/gay notion and that has become stronger over the years. Crossdress and enjoy cock more than ever.

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By *ldboy2025Man
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Mmmm somebody mention shitholes !!

:p

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By *in tin 25Man
2 weeks ago

west

Yup 👋🏻

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling

Seems to be a lot of guys in a sexless relationship. Wish i had the guts to say fuck it im off but after 40 years its hard to give up, you try your best but still not good enough so thank god for you guys on here as the desire for cock is so strong

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By *luttyOldGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Glenrothes

I'd have to add myself to this "list" not had sex with Mrs in 6years since she up and announced she'd thrown all her toys out along with her sexy undies and that was that.

Having always had a wee taste for cock and voilà here I am.

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By *radie73Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yeh I probably come into this category

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By *ldman702025Man
2 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

In a sexless marriage here too. She lost interest when menopause kicked in.

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling

Seems the menopause has a lot to answer for guys now seeking and enjoying cock.

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By *ckSuccer4YouMan
2 weeks ago

cumbernauld

We have sex but its very sporadic as she's going through menopause.. when we do have sex its like she's not putting her all into it also

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By *ohn542026Man
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

I normally meet old guys who live alone chat with them just a friend cuppa a chat xxx

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By *ldboy2025Man
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Thats the issue. Got to the stage where wife would be complain about hurting eeven with lube and saying hurry up and finish.....total passion killer.

As Bigal said it is more common than we think.

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling


"Thats the issue. Got to the stage where wife would be complain about hurting eeven with lube and saying hurry up and finish.....total passion killer.

As Bigal said it is more common than we think.

"

Thats part of the problem too because it hurts you dont want to ask then you cant enjoy sex incase its too sore...why dont you come near me! ..you cant win.

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By *ldboy2025Man
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld

Well said.

We can take care of our frustrations without hurting them

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling


"Well said.

We can take care of our frustrations without hurting them"

exactly 100%

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By *hloxbeautMan
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

Sexless here but prob both our fault

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By *aringtogo00TV/TS
2 weeks ago

glasgow

The person that works out how women tick will be an instant trillionaire.

As mere mortals we bend over backwards to accommodate women form when we meet them marry them, it seems to me it’s the Ring that the problem, once they get the ring and the bit of paper, we’re doomed it’s then on there terms for everything your friends are pass tense it’s her friends you see , if you mention anything not in her remit your doomed for days if not weeks .

Don’t get caught looking at porn or masturbating, that’s a hanging offence mention someone’s dress, legs, heels, hair and your getting the cold shoulder for days .

Now the sex thing you may have a distance memory of from before the ring and paper thing when it was on tap you gave things a miss so many times for some enjoyable bedroom gymnastics she was tuned right into you and your horny mind, but then the ring and paper thing came alone your thinking ahhhh it will be on tap, it’s like the spider and the fly you've hit that web your history.

I’ve tried most things then the menopause hit home it was don’t touch me I’m too warm the duvet is doing semifore the big girl pants are put on with braces, the Dante we panties head for the bin, the menopause gains speed the tears and then you get accused of everything, oh you don’t love me you never kiss or cuddle me you don’t touch me …. Really. I tried my hardest and got shot down we’ll never win we’re doomed if we do and doomed if we don’t , 45 year of purgatory with everything you’ve ever said and done gets flung at you time and time again . The joys

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By *sfcMan
2 weeks ago

Hamilton

Wife has a very love sex drive

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By *dging and moreMan
2 weeks ago

Hamilton

She's had her menopause, I've had my manopause but thankfully she still decides to drain my cock if she gets the urge. Just never know when the horn will hit her. Then it can last a few days before she goes off it again.

Thankfully I have a couple of willing cocksuckers available when work let's me get to them.

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By *arely5hardMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

In a sexless marriage for many years now. Not sure if its my fault though.

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling


"The person that works out how women tick will be an instant trillionaire.

As mere mortals we bend over backwards to accommodate women form when we meet them marry them, it seems to me it’s the Ring that the problem, once they get the ring and the bit of paper, we’re doomed it’s then on there terms for everything your friends are pass tense it’s her friends you see , if you mention anything not in her remit your doomed for days if not weeks .

Don’t get caught looking at porn or masturbating, that’s a hanging offence mention someone’s dress, legs, heels, hair and your getting the cold shoulder for days .

Now the sex thing you may have a distance memory of from before the ring and paper thing when it was on tap you gave things a miss so many times for some enjoyable bedroom gymnastics she was tuned right into you and your horny mind, but then the ring and paper thing came alone your thinking ahhhh it will be on tap, it’s like the spider and the fly you've hit that web your history.

I’ve tried most things then the menopause hit home it was don’t touch me I’m too warm the duvet is doing semifore the big girl pants are put on with braces, the Dante we panties head for the bin, the menopause gains speed the tears and then you get accused of everything, oh you don’t love me you never kiss or cuddle me you don’t touch me …. Really. I tried my hardest and got shot down we’ll never win we’re doomed if we do and doomed if we don’t , 45 year of purgatory with everything you’ve ever said and done gets flung at you time and time again . The joys

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wow you hit the nail on the head everything you said hits home 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"The person that works out how women tick will be an instant trillionaire.

As mere mortals we bend over backwards to accommodate women form when we meet them marry them, it seems to me it’s the Ring that the problem, once they get the ring and the bit of paper, we’re doomed it’s then on there terms for everything your friends are pass tense it’s her friends you see , if you mention anything not in her remit your doomed for days if not weeks .

Don’t get caught looking at porn or masturbating, that’s a hanging offence mention someone’s dress, legs, heels, hair and your getting the cold shoulder for days .

Now the sex thing you may have a distance memory of from before the ring and paper thing when it was on tap you gave things a miss so many times for some enjoyable bedroom gymnastics she was tuned right into you and your horny mind, but then the ring and paper thing came alone your thinking ahhhh it will be on tap, it’s like the spider and the fly you've hit that web your history.

I’ve tried most things then the menopause hit home it was don’t touch me I’m too warm the duvet is doing semifore the big girl pants are put on with braces, the Dante we panties head for the bin, the menopause gains speed the tears and then you get accused of everything, oh you don’t love me you never kiss or cuddle me you don’t touch me …. Really. I tried my hardest and got shot down we’ll never win we’re doomed if we do and doomed if we don’t , 45 year of purgatory with everything you’ve ever said and done gets flung at you time and time again . The joys

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By *izzler123Man
2 weeks ago

Norwich

I haven't had sex with the missus for several years which has led me to seeking man sex which on the whole is more pleasurable . I still fancy certain women but I find them hard work...

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By *opmaster62Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Wow. Thankfully I married a man lol

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By *ason-DMan
2 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

My late wife and I were in a sexless marriage for about ten years before she passed. We still cared about each other, but the menopause and her health issues got in the way.

Three years on, and I have a girlfriend that is really randy! We don’t live together but meet up once or twice a week and fuck each other’s brains out! I still have a craving for a bit of cock now and then though!

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By *ornymwellbiMan
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

Mrs early menopause so sex is once every few months. Love meeting guys for no hassle cock fun for a release

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By *ibtmguyMan
2 weeks ago

edin where i want rimmed

Same

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By *acks1964Man
2 weeks ago

Central Scotland

Sexless marriage here, menopause & wife's illness means no sex for a good number of years.

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By *lasgowbi 100Man
2 weeks ago

rutherglen

Been in a sexless marriage for a few years now

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By *eephole30Man
2 weeks ago

Teesdale /Durham

I ended up in a separate bedroom because I worked all night shift but I’m still in a separate bedroom and I’m retired now.

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By *eenbottomfortopMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Question is, do you want sex in your marriage, or are you more interested in either meeting guys or wanking?

If the answer is you do want sex in marriage, then you can take steps to turn it around.

Raise it with your other half, ask to talk about sex.

Worst case scenario they say they 100% aren't interested, then at least you will know and that you had at least tried. Or, they might share how they feel and things could get better.

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By *atinbloodMan
2 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Sexless marriage for the past 10 years. Not my fault. She stopped having any interest after having children.

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

Sorry you men have to experience that, If i was married i'd have sex everyday with them

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By *assageman58Man
2 weeks ago

rural


"And here you all are , in this shithole of a place.

Tell your wife what you’re up to

I’m sure the poor woman will tell you quite rightly ,,where you can go

#spineless.

Just saying. "

Always, the kind word OP.

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By *im23456Man
2 weeks ago

peterhead


"And here you all are , in this shithole of a place.

Tell your wife what you’re up to

I’m sure the poor woman will tell you quite rightly ,,where you can go

#spineless.

Just saying. "

says a spineless hidden profile

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By *uv2bsuckedMan
2 weeks ago

Musselburgh

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By *ohn542026Man
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

If any older guys live alone want company just chat cuppa that be good

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By *hil96Man
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Yrp. In a sexless marriage. My fault. I want cock more. Been nearly 3 years since we did.

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By *aul6309Man
2 weeks ago

Herne Bay

Sexless marriage here

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By *ayreddezTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Paisley

Yes same here with me menopause kicked in and sex with her stopped overnight. Thats when i deciced to meet guys and cds

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By *urbostarMan
2 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month.

She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago.

We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing.

God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position.

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By *urbostarMan
2 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month.

She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago.

We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing.

God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position.

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By *ibear65Man
2 weeks ago

Darlington

I’m in a sexless marriage have been for sometime

Realised it was aging me

Pretty partner who’s lost interest in everything

I didn’t want to cheat

After going without I began to watch a lot of porn , then gay porn ,

This year a guy I know made a pass at me

Went home with him

Got naked and loved it

Gone from curious to active

Joined FG as he didn’t want regular

Discovered I love cock , particularly a hard one in my mouth , bonus if I get a cum load

Trying to find a top and a bottom to increase my experience, for longer meetings in the NE

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By *ornymwellbiMan
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

Know the feeling lol

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

wickow


"After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month.

She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago.

We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing.

God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position.

"

I can empathise with this completely. What I don't fully understand why you guys stay with them or don't speak up. Sex isn't the only part of a relationship but it's very important. She's choosing to not meet your sexual needs. She doesn't have a solid argument to stop you meeting those needs elsewhere, particularly if it's the only thing not working in the relationship and she has no interest in fixing it.

For argument sake - let's say you didn't contribute financially or support her emotionally. Nobody would think a breakup or looking to meet those needs elsewhere is unreasonable.....

Why is the no sex situation any different. And if "asking for sex" from your spouse is a valid complaint , then outright denying sex is a valid complaint.

I suppose there's also the fear of losing everything that works in the relationship or the fear or starting fresh. But, if you're genuinely unhappy then there isn't that much to lose , is there? Plus, fresh starts can be really exciting.

Just my two cents on these kinda scenarios. I've been through it myself but jumped ship before the marriage part .

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

near stirling


"After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month.

She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago.

We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing.

God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position.

I can empathise with this completely. What I don't fully understand why you guys stay with them or don't speak up. Sex isn't the only part of a relationship but it's very important. She's choosing to not meet your sexual needs. She doesn't have a solid argument to stop you meeting those needs elsewhere, particularly if it's the only thing not working in the relationship and she has no interest in fixing it.

For argument sake - let's say you didn't contribute financially or support her emotionally. Nobody would think a breakup or looking to meet those needs elsewhere is unreasonable.....

Why is the no sex situation any different. And if "asking for sex" from your spouse is a valid complaint , then outright denying sex is a valid complaint.

I suppose there's also the fear of losing everything that works in the relationship or the fear or starting fresh. But, if you're genuinely unhappy then there isn't that much to lose , is there? Plus, fresh starts can be really exciting.

Just my two cents on these kinda scenarios. I've been through it myself but jumped ship before the marriage part .

"

Vert valid point but after 40 years of marriage and probably been through more things than most couples would ever go through its hard to throw that away, yes sex is important and when you cant get it then it leads to tension. Most guys look for release and not a relationship on here and probably a lot are going through the same ordeal.

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

Have any of you thought of meeting together intimacy as well asset, a friend who could hold and touch you

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By *ogisticSubMan
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

I love serving men in sexless marriages (mf) It's my job here to help and give relief, Your most welcome,I Cover Yorkshire Regions.

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By *ingbat2020Man
2 weeks ago

Borders

Wife has lost all interest for a few years now

Have o my managed to have sex 4 times this year so far and Shen I say sex it’s just putting cock in and shooting as fast as possible no foreplay of intimacy involved

Now I secretly enjoy male contact more and love to be the sub giving men the pleasure I no longer experience and I must say I enjoy sucking rimming etc very much

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By *r HendersonMan
2 weeks ago

Ballasalla.

Hi all, have not had any form of sex with my mrs due to her on going illness issues, it's not her fault, I just have to deal with it.

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By *ifunxxx71Man
2 weeks ago

Dublin 15

Ditto, no sex in years & she was always very vanilla, no oral or rimming

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By *aulBiBottomMan
2 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

Most marriages end up sexless and a good percentage of guys end up with cockfun because of it or because they were buying to start with, I still have fun with my wife but I also adore cock fund so not sexless but I get as much fun with guys as I can as I'm the bottom and I love sex

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By *earner69Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

That's why we're all on here

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Sexless here as well since childbirth, I have always had a desire for cock so here we are, love a visit to a sauna now and then.

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By *issysubAmypeeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Was in a sexless marriage for many years, and it was definitely my fault for being pathetic.

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By *obstoneMan
2 weeks ago

Hamilton

Wife is not interested,that's why like many other guys I find myself on here looking for someone who enjoys sucking cock.

So much easier to meet guys and a lot less hassle of trying to meet women.

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By *ohn542026Man
2 weeks ago

West Lothian

I meet older guys on there ownsome cuppa chat least they got a friend xxx

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By *ornymwellbiMan
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

Sexless marriage too so enjoy the cock fun good uncomplicated horny fun

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By *latopMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

So basically you join a gay site as women aren't interested in you? And then use the site to talk about women, talk about wearing their clothing, swapping their underwear etc?

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By *ay57580Man
2 weeks ago

birtley


"So basically you join a gay site as women aren't interested in you? And then use the site to talk about women, talk about wearing their clothing, swapping their underwear etc? "
lol true

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By *olderhead1234Man
2 weeks ago

forfar

I’m in a sexless marriage I’ve not had any from wife for 2 years always thought of exploring my bi side don’t get me wrong still love pussy too but cock was amazing

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By *ince71Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

Marriage isn't sexless but wife doesn't have a cock to return what I need. Fab guys can provide cock when needed!

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By *teviebi1968Man
1 week ago

Falkirk

Not 100% sexless but getting less and less. It’s not great getting advances turned down so the longer that went on I increasingly turned towards cock and cum.

Fun with guys is just so hot and kissing a guy is electric.

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By *iuk74Man
1 week ago

Leicester

Wouldn't say its my fault she just doesn't want any thing to do with sex these days but they forget we still have a sex drive thing is they don't want it them self's but go ballistic if she new got relief else were

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By *iny timMan
1 week ago

East Midlands

Not had sex with wife for 3 years now menopause

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By *inkybi99Man
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I've continually been with women long term. My last two broke up due to lack of sex..

I've changed my mind now.. I used to feel it was cheating.. I now think it saves cheating (with other women) and a broken marriage..

I'm not saying it's "right" - but we've needs guys and it's maybe the less emotional connected option.

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By *scotiaMan
1 week ago

EH21

Sexless marriage not my fault tried cock and loved it and prefer it now

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By *inkybi99Man
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Women do sex for love and security/money

Men do love for sex

Women used to use the phrase "he's a good catch" for a rich older man..

Yeh I'm a bit cynical..

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By *eadyrayMan
1 week ago

cannock

Had cock when younger found it again at 56 sorry wife I prefer it

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By *ax_glasscotMan
1 week ago

glasgow

Unfortunately I’m in this situation. 2nd marriage menopausal Mrs.

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By *ornymwellbiMan
1 week ago

Motherwell

The reason most of us married guys are on here

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By *ock sucker2000Man
1 week ago

torquay

I think I'm in the opposite of this since the menopause she wants cock more than before so guess I'm very lucky I do enjoy being on here to please guys who probably aren't getting any at home so for me it's extra fun so don't worry if meetings fall through

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By *iuk74Man
1 week ago

Leicester


"The reason most of us married guys are on here "
yes definitely

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By *erasusMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

She never initiates

Bloody annoying

It’s always the same position etc.

Dull

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By *anillamanMan
1 week ago

Dalbeattie


"The reason most of us married guys are on here "
fully agree

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By *anker1000Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

Wise words x

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By *aringtogo00TV/TS
1 week ago

glasgow

Over the years I noticed through friends and colleagues that have gotten divorced due to lack of sex the menopause etc. Where few men actually remarry (once bitten thing lost a fortune by being reamed in a divorce ) there ex wives have all remarried, and some divorced again .

So obviously sex with they’re new partner it went right back on the menu , but when married no matter what they tried it’s off the menu.

I remember one such case with friends of mine who got divorce it all came down to the lack of intimacy and sex, she wasn’t interested no matter what , she initiated a divorce cost him a fortune business, house she wanted everything, she was entitled he was told he ended up walking away and moving the business failed she lost, the house it was repossessed, she lost there, she started dating met her at their kids wedding where he bumped into her and her new partner who were engaged to be married, he said to her so we ended up divorced because you didn’t want to play any longer, we lost everything now your back having sex again , I hope your happy the second marriage lasted a year her third marriage lasted 9 month all through the same lack of sex .

At a second kids wedding they met and she had the audacity to say to him I made a huge mistake in getting married divorced, he just walked away .

I think women need to think about the factors that actually keep the marriage together and the relationship alive before the close there legs and lay on ever excuse they can find .

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By *ubguy501Man
1 week ago

Near you

In a sexless marriage, although I would say it is her fault.

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By *igal1965 OP   Man
1 week ago

near stirling

Very true its not all about the sex other things come into it also but no matter what you do its never enough.

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By *ackleberryMan
2 days ago

stirling

Yep. Just left it after far too long. Now hoping for a bit of dick for a change.

And I will be diplomatic and say i was half to blame

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By *opmaster62Man
1 day ago

Edinburgh

Come on guys cock waiting for you here!

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By *rangerMan
24 hours ago

merseyside


"How many guys are in a sexless marriage and its all your fault."
four years for me sick of it

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By *ornymwellbiMan
24 hours ago

Motherwell

Reason most of us married guys are on here

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By *eejeMan
24 hours ago

Weymouth

My marriage became sexless after the kids were born, and ended after only 10yrs.

The divorce was, in hindsight, a leapfrog to the pleasures of cock, with a little help from my older neighbour, lol.

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By *urbostarMan
13 hours ago

kirkcaldy

Finances is one of the things I stay

I worked hard, paid of the mortgage early she didn't contribute to any of the household bills I also have a good pension lined up

She hasn't worked for 30 yrs

If we were to split she would clear my pension pot and be would probably be entitled to the house which would leave me starting all over again as i turn 60

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By *roy8Man
12 hours ago

Perthshire

Now the above I can relate to. ,

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