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"Very common situation for many people " no matter what you do how hard you try to please them .. | |||
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"Sexless marriage is the reason I like cock now" This is so true | |||
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"Yes, it's been 10 years since I had sex. " You can have sex with me if you like? | |||
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"The menopause is at fault " The same here menopause to blame. | |||
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"The menopause is at fault " Similar story here | |||
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"Thats the issue. Got to the stage where wife would be complain about hurting eeven with lube and saying hurry up and finish.....total passion killer. As Bigal said it is more common than we think. " Thats part of the problem too because it hurts you dont want to ask then you cant enjoy sex incase its too sore...why dont you come near me! ..you cant win. | |||
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"Well said. We can take care of our frustrations without hurting them" exactly 100% | |||
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"The person that works out how women tick will be an instant trillionaire. As mere mortals we bend over backwards to accommodate women form when we meet them marry them, it seems to me it’s the Ring that the problem, once they get the ring and the bit of paper, we’re doomed it’s then on there terms for everything your friends are pass tense it’s her friends you see , if you mention anything not in her remit your doomed for days if not weeks . Don’t get caught looking at porn or masturbating, that’s a hanging offence mention someone’s dress, legs, heels, hair and your getting the cold shoulder for days . Now the sex thing you may have a distance memory of from before the ring and paper thing when it was on tap you gave things a miss so many times for some enjoyable bedroom gymnastics she was tuned right into you and your horny mind, but then the ring and paper thing came alone your thinking ahhhh it will be on tap, it’s like the spider and the fly you've hit that web your history. I’ve tried most things then the menopause hit home it was don’t touch me I’m too warm the duvet is doing semifore the big girl pants are put on with braces, the Dante we panties head for the bin, the menopause gains speed the tears and then you get accused of everything, oh you don’t love me you never kiss or cuddle me you don’t touch me …. Really. I tried my hardest and got shot down we’ll never win we’re doomed if we do and doomed if we don’t , 45 year of purgatory with everything you’ve ever said and done gets flung at you time and time again . The joys " wow you hit the nail on the head everything you said hits home 100% | |||
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"And here you all are , in this shithole of a place. Tell your wife what you’re up to I’m sure the poor woman will tell you quite rightly ,,where you can go #spineless. Just saying. " Always, the kind word OP. | |||
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"And here you all are , in this shithole of a place. Tell your wife what you’re up to I’m sure the poor woman will tell you quite rightly ,,where you can go #spineless. Just saying. " says a spineless hidden profile | |||
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"After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month. She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago. We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing. God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position. " I can empathise with this completely. What I don't fully understand why you guys stay with them or don't speak up. Sex isn't the only part of a relationship but it's very important. She's choosing to not meet your sexual needs. She doesn't have a solid argument to stop you meeting those needs elsewhere, particularly if it's the only thing not working in the relationship and she has no interest in fixing it. For argument sake - let's say you didn't contribute financially or support her emotionally. Nobody would think a breakup or looking to meet those needs elsewhere is unreasonable..... Why is the no sex situation any different. And if "asking for sex" from your spouse is a valid complaint , then outright denying sex is a valid complaint. I suppose there's also the fear of losing everything that works in the relationship or the fear or starting fresh. But, if you're genuinely unhappy then there isn't that much to lose , is there? Plus, fresh starts can be really exciting. Just my two cents on these kinda scenarios. I've been through it myself but jumped ship before the marriage part . | |||
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"After the birth of my daughter who is now in her late 20s, sex started getting less and less from maybe 4 times a WK to maybe once a week to then once a month. She complained that I was always asking for sex and told me that when she wanted to have sex she would tell me. That was about 15 yrs ago. We have had 25th wedding anniversary, both turned 50 and (nearly 60) and nothing. God forbid if I try and touch her, I'm sure I'm not the only one on this site in this position. I can empathise with this completely. What I don't fully understand why you guys stay with them or don't speak up. Sex isn't the only part of a relationship but it's very important. She's choosing to not meet your sexual needs. She doesn't have a solid argument to stop you meeting those needs elsewhere, particularly if it's the only thing not working in the relationship and she has no interest in fixing it. For argument sake - let's say you didn't contribute financially or support her emotionally. Nobody would think a breakup or looking to meet those needs elsewhere is unreasonable..... Why is the no sex situation any different. And if "asking for sex" from your spouse is a valid complaint , then outright denying sex is a valid complaint. I suppose there's also the fear of losing everything that works in the relationship or the fear or starting fresh. But, if you're genuinely unhappy then there isn't that much to lose , is there? Plus, fresh starts can be really exciting. Just my two cents on these kinda scenarios. I've been through it myself but jumped ship before the marriage part . " Vert valid point but after 40 years of marriage and probably been through more things than most couples would ever go through its hard to throw that away, yes sex is important and when you cant get it then it leads to tension. Most guys look for release and not a relationship on here and probably a lot are going through the same ordeal. | |||
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"So basically you join a gay site as women aren't interested in you? And then use the site to talk about women, talk about wearing their clothing, swapping their underwear etc? " lol true | |||
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"The reason most of us married guys are on here " yes definitely | |||
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"The reason most of us married guys are on here " fully agree | |||
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"How many guys are in a sexless marriage and its all your fault." four years for me sick of it | |||
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