FabGuys.com forum: First time nerves

By *embsman1000 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Haverfordwest

Had a meet today with a lovely guy, but my first time nerves got the better of me. Is there anything that I can do to overcome this feeling and relax and do the things I know I really want to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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By *uck n go or stayMan
4 weeks ago

carmarthen

Just keep meeting and the nerves will get less and less, I don't think they will ever dissapear as I still get nervous meeting new people now

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By *edMan
4 weeks ago

south wales

"Had a meet today with a lovely guy, but my first time nerves got the better of me. Is there anything that I can do to overcome this feeling and relax and do the things I know I really want to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated."

Try to find a guy that you would like to meet regularly and meet him regularly. The nerves will go and the sex will be amazing. You’ll want to hang around after and not just rush to get dressed and run out of the door.

I never felt 100% comfortable with a man until about the 3rd meet or even more. But after that then, wow…

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By *urious44walesMan
4 weeks ago

South Wales

I havent quite got as far as the first time nerves yet!

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By *horthairBuz_edBaldFan65Man
4 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just remember when meeting someone for the 1st time, they may be a bit nervous too. As others have mentioned, try to find someone to become a regular with.

If someone dismisses your nervousness, or doesn't take the time to treat you kindly, then they're not the ones for you.

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By *ID89Man
4 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

Just go with the flow.

Perhaps suggest a social meet over coffee first to gauge how each other is feeling and what you are both comfortable doing.

its perfectly ok to be nervous

shows you are human

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By *azor23ukMan
4 weeks ago

Haverfordwest

Hi Pembsman.....we've chatted a bit on here, and don't worry about nerves,it's fine....if you want to pop over to see me sometime, have a coffee and a chat, that's fine , just let me know

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By *ilk loverMan
4 weeks ago

CARDIFF

I found a few glasses of wine calms me down

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By *ristolfun500Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Still get nervy from time to time. I just try to switch off until i knock on the door. Then its past the point of no return!

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By *wanseajack2014Man
4 weeks ago

Neath

I have been playing with guys 20yrs on and off. I still get nervous but that's part of the thrill also. Try not to overthink things and meet a guy who will take the lead

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By *orth Wales friendly BiMan
4 weeks ago

Llandudno

It’s not nerves. It’s excitement

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By *pdudeMan
4 weeks ago

newtown

I still get nervous when I meet up with anyone. Try and ride the nerves but a social meet is a great idea forget sex have coffee and chat, no pressure, go to a cafe even sit in at greggs, make the meet as casual as can be. You may get on you may not it dont matter as long as the coffee was good. There's always the next time.

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By *upertedMan
4 weeks ago

Nelson

We all start somewhere!

You continue to do you, kind Sir!

I've had a fella get to my bedroom door and get cold feet and have to leave. I've just breathed on a fellas bellend and he came all over my chest. Quickly left.

I chalk it up to life experience.

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By *s24Man
4 weeks ago

Mold

Nerves are part of the excitement! I still get them even when meeting for a coffee and chat

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By *hanclaMan
4 weeks ago

Bridgend area

I sat in a known layby in my car wearing hold ups. I saw a friendly looking gent walk towards my car. I normally freeze and cover my legs but this time I didn't. My heart pounded as he looked in and said, 'nice! Can I sit with you?) I was so nervous my cock tried to disappear. I told him I was extremely nervous as he gently stroked my legs. My cock grew and all was fine

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By *xmky1964Man
4 weeks ago

sankey

Take a sniff from the brown bottle, always works for me. Turns me into a total slut who would do anything i waz told.

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By *idfielderMan
3 weeks ago

north west

I'm in a long term relationship and the missus doesn't know, not been with a guy for some time now either. I've been talking to someone on another app for some time and we've agreed to meet up on Friday for him to fuck me (first time) I'm very nervous

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By *s24Man
3 weeks ago

Mold

"I'm in a long term relationship and the missus doesn't know, not been with a guy for some time now either. I've been talking to someone on another app for some time and we've agreed to meet up on Friday for him to fuck me (first time) I'm very nervous "

Enjoy it!

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By *aughtynuts86Man
3 weeks ago

Caerphilly

I told wife, now she sends me out to get fucked 🤣

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By *ckermanMan
3 weeks ago

worcester

Meeting one person repeatedly probably best. Certsinly it took me some time going further a little each time. Then i seemed to have a problem that i was ok when turned on and horny, but as soon as i came my brain just fliped into 'what the F am i doing' and killed the mood totally. From that we learned to make sure he came first, and then after a while even if i accidentally came first id still plesure him. I'm still 'proud' of the first time i had accidentally came first and instead of him having to wank himself off i still openned my legs for him. Thats the point where i finally totally submitted to him....

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By *pdudeMan
3 weeks ago

newtown

"I told wife, now she sends me out to get fucked 🤣"

I went with my ex wife to the doctors because I thought she might have torretts but it turns out she was fine and really did think i was a cunt and wanted me to fuck off

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By *ravelguyMan
3 weeks ago

Ipswich

Hope ot goes well, and hope you tell us about it too

was fucked for the 1st time last year and crave more..Just got to be the right guy

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By *ancydrewMan
3 weeks ago

Nearby

My anxiety kills me off nearly all the time. Did have one amazing meet though, guy was super chill. We showered together n just sat and talked for a bit. Both naked, both just enjoying each others company…Nerves still got the better of me once or twice but we both left the meet happy.

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By *omo2026Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Start kissing the nerves soon disappear

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By *iggerwooMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

Once we're both naked and I see that cock nerves are gone if there is any

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By *wanseajack2014Man
3 weeks ago

Neath

"Once we're both naked and I see that cock nerves are gone if there is any"

I know what you are like tigg. Know a few who met the horny you

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By *iggerwooMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

Don't worry your gorgeous cock will have its turn 😋💦

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By *wanseajack2014Man
3 weeks ago

Neath

"Don't worry your gorgeous cock will have its turn 😋💦"

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By *etro manMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Try going too a club meeting just relaxing chatting with people and watching what happens you can join in I am sure at some point you will meet and enjoy most people always say ( maybe later on) if you’re interested ask someone else to join you

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By *ee198837Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgend

I was definitely nervous the first time I met. I'm looking to bottom now and there is extra nerves lol. I'm looking for a older gent for the first time

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By *embsman1000 OP Man
1 week ago

Haverfordwest

Thanks for help guys, feel like I can move forward a bit more now.

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