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By (user no longer on site) OP
4 weeks ago

I know this post is going to get a lot of unhelpful comments but I’ll still ask that you’re kind. I’m married and do everything safe. I don’t meet often and have been really restrained, sticking to wanking and occasional condom suck… I really want to top a guy. I know it all comes with risks but there are lots of conflicting opinions. Fuck a guy who is on prep (others say those who take prep are more carefree and open to risk), fuck a guy who is straight (whatever that means) and isn’t on prep because they’re more selective. I’m

Looking for genuine advice. And don’t judge me about being married….

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By *edMan
4 weeks ago

south wales

Health officials say Prep has caused quite a significant increase in other sti’s unfortunately.

As you say it has made some people feel bulletproof and they are certainly not.

They get tested regularly to be able to get the prep but that is just a snapshot of that time. It’s not like a MOT and you are safe for another 3 months. The next encounter could be the one that they catch something and they are spreading it around like wildfire for the next 3 months because some choose not to play safe.

This is the main reason why I have decided to give up meeting people off websites and apps.

If you can try to find someone that you trust and stick to them. I tried and it’s not easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
4 weeks ago

I think you’re right. Unfortunately.

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By *edMan
4 weeks ago

south wales

But then a lot of married guys don’t get tested because they fear it will somehow get back to the Mrs. The only way it’s going to get back to her is if you tell her or heaven forbid she catches something.

If you are in a sexless marriage then this shouldn’t ever happen and that’s why most married men are on sites like this.

If I could give you one piece of advice stay away from saunas like the greenhouse and don’t go cruising.

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By *laretv42TV/TS
4 weeks ago

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I would have thought places like the greenhouse would be better because you know everyone there is looking for some action? xx

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By *edMan
4 weeks ago

south wales

"I would have thought places like the greenhouse would be better because you know everyone there is looking for some action? xx"

You do you 👍🏼

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By *iketotry2000Man
3 weeks ago

R C T

"But then a lot of married guys don’t get tested because they fear it will somehow get back to the Mrs. The only way it’s going to get back to her is if you tell her or heaven forbid she catches something.

If you are in a sexless marriage then this shouldn’t ever happen and that’s why most married men are on sites like this.

If I could give you one piece of advice stay away from saunas like the greenhouse and don’t go cruising. "

Exact opposite to my advice....go to the sauna as everyone there is wanting action. There will be guys bending over or in a sling waiting to be topped. It's up to you if you fuck them covered or not. Cruising spots more practical for blow jobs but I've fucked guys and been fucked myself in outdoor places. Try to make contact in advance via sites like this.

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