FabGuys.com: Adam (43) , Man in Durham, North East, UK

Really, please read it - I know it's longer than most profiles, but the idea is to be clear about what I want and don't want, to not waste everybody's time :)

Bi guy, not out, and separated from wife late in 2024. Looking to have more experiences and make the most of my current freedom!

Settling in a new location where I will be able to accommodate soon, provided you are: 1) verified, and 2) a non-smoker. Preferable that you're also not out. I will switch my profile over to say that I can accommodate when I'm ready to.

I'm very kink-friendly.

With men, I am almost always bottom - I have very little attraction to masculine-presenting people, and rarely want to stick my cock in one :D If I do want to meet a bottom guy, I'll approach you. It'd most likely be for a darkroom/gloryhole/anonymous type of scenario, and possibly oral only.

Bottom men messaging me who have either not read or not understood that will most likely be ignored.

I have some interest in the top role in a Dom/sub situation though, especially where chastity is involved.

Especially interested in meeting TV/CDs with me as a top. Open to all sorts of ideas from romantic to filthy ;)

I'm interested in one-offs, but very open to the idea of a FWB, especially for someone with shared interests who I might have been friends with anyway. I like watching football, am a musician, love sci-fi and fantasy, and play boards games and tabletop RPGs and wargames. A cute transwoman or sissy who likes some or all of the same things is the pipedream at the moment!

Couples in all sorts of configurations are a turn on, and something I've never experienced. Will top men in a three/moresome situation (especially hot with a M/F couple).

Things I won't do:

- meet up with you if you're unwashed.

- bareback with strangers (anal - oral OK).

- kiss smokers or men (unless I'm in a *very* submissive place).

- accommodate if you don't meet my criteria.

- reply if you haven't read my profile.

- reply to shit messages that just say hello or ask how I am (unless your profile is spectacular). Include what you want to do, where and when.

- take a up the butt.

- the word 'sleaze' makes me cringe.

Things I'll tolerate:

- smokers if it's at your place (but I won't want to kiss you).

- winks are OK, as long as you have a nice detailed profile and pictures - if you wink and have a shit profile, I'll just ignore it.

Things I love:

- crossdressers and gender fluidity.

- great bums (leggings might be the world's best invention).

- all sorts of BDSM interests.

- anonymous encounters.

- sucking, and especially trying to work on my deepthroat technique.

I'm also miranda.daley, for a slightly different take.

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