Rewrite, June '26
Coming up for two years single now, with divorce on the way, and have had a chance to properly consider what I want fromthis part of life. I'm still largely looking to keep things casual and just get back out into the world a bit. A friends-with-benefit kind of situation (or multiple of them) would be great if I were to meet the right person, but I'm in absolutely no rush to settle down with anyone again. Am very interested in exploring poly dynamics, providing everyone is up for this.
Bisexual and interested in all genders and couples.
With men, I'm versatile, with a strong tendancy towards bottom. Tend to like older, bigger tops and younger, smaller bottoms, I'm unlikely to want anything outside of that. Prefer bottoms to be smooth and efeminate too, but that's not essential, as long as there's some attraction.
Love to meet women when I get the chance, and am a big fan of tender sensual play. Although - should the mood take us - I like it kinky too ;) I don't have a specific type at all really, although I do particularly like older curvy women, and athletic build types too (weakness for a great bum in leggings).
CD/TVs are fun, and I'm very much an admirer of you - any age is good for me, but do have a strong preference for those who make an effort to look nice and as feminine as possible. I do have a big soft spot for younger cute bottom sissies, especially if you're shorter than me and small in stature. I understand the difference between CDs, TVs, and trans women, and all are appealing to me in one way or another. Long term, a trans girlfriend would be very appealing.
I don't do bareback with strangers, and have a very strong preference for non-smokers. I won't accommodate more than one person at a time if I haven't met them all, and I don't accommodate for smokers or unverified profiles. If you contact me expecting anything outside of that, the best thing that happens is I delete and ignore your message.
Don't mind the idea of outdoor, but have limited experience and don't really know the places!
Happy to explore kinks, and have a wide interest in this area. Am pretty much unshockable if you want to suggest something, but do expect a thorough discussion about limits before any play happens - safety is priority.
Please don't just message saying 'hi' or similar - start a conversation about what you want. Fab keeps chat history for repeat offenders, and I'll block after three shit messages. Put some effort in, have a decent profile, and make yourself sound interesting and I'll almost certainly reply!