Update: I haven't had sex for 5 long years and that was with a lovely chap via Grindr. My wife no longer turns me on but other women and men do. Women seem out of reach these days, all very 'happy' and faithful. No issues with that. Everything works fine...well on my own anyway but I'd be nervous and need relaxing. So...can you help me get back in the saddle, help me get back on the bike after the long period away? Someone who is compassionate, empathetic, understanding, patient and wants proper NSA friendship? I enjoy cycling, football (walking variety at my age) and general walks. Married, bisexual, vers, nervous, not out, hairy-ish as in body hair is light coloured but not absent. Carrying a bit more timber than I'd like but age catches up with you. I do trim but never shave below as I rather like the feel of pubes. Would like regular FWB. I've Had a few experiences but would like more. I'm into most stuff...in fact it's hard to think of anything I wouldn't do or try. Yes including 3-some or more. I desperately want to try swallowing cum.....I know....that should be something already done but I know I would just love it. BB intrigues me but that would be a huge leap in trust and confidence both giving or taking. Love kissing and close naked male contact, especially when cocks rub together, so if you don't then we're not going to be right for each other. I love hairy but smooth is OK. Beards or clean shaven both good. TVs/TS also very welcome...in fact they're very much an ambition for me as I like the idea of a girlfriend...in fact that goes to the top of the list. I'm not overly picky on types...I'm attracted to older men but slightly intimidated by muscular men.....I was that way once but things don't stay that way, gravity always wins to quote Radiohead ?? and I think muscle guys would find my stocky build unappealing. I am quite fit as I walk dogs daily cross country for 3-4 Miles, swim occasionally, cycle a bit mainly in the summer and never in the rain.! I also play football albeit the walking variety twice or three times weekly. I can only accommodate on extremely rare occasions and can travel easier with some dastardly planning. If you're married then you understand how I feel and go top of list. Face pic welcome as a swap if you seem genuine. I'm married and intend to stay that way....after all I'm bi and like the best of both worlds, so if I don't think you'll be discrete then you've no chance. If you're a decent, cheerful, pleasant well adjusted person looking for regular NSA sex then you're very welcome to touch base.