FabGuys.com: M (47) , Man in Bourne, East Midlands, UK

A polite respectful sensual and considerate top here.

I'm happy to be a daddy to a youngster half my age but a more mature bloke can also be very attractive and I don't shy away from guys in their 50s or even 60+. But it is done on an individual basis, there needs to be mutual attraction and chemistry and as much as I'm sorry for those where the attraction seems to be a one-way street only, I can't be overly apologetic about it either. We all know what we like, we all have our preferences and we all should be grown-ups.

I'm into unhurried sensual sessions, foreplay and body contact, kissing sucking deepthroating licking rimming (I LOVE to rim a man's hole) wanking and fucking, also bum play and toys and for those who are into it.

Also love nipples n feet, socks n jocks, harnesses n cock rings etc. Admittedly I do like guys with at least some hair on them. Trimmed is good, shaved - only balls. Not a fan of shaven cocks, make me think of a) little boys who haven't grown their pubes yet or b) a dead chicken on a TESCO tray.

A word of clarification re: bb or safe: I'm happy to do both. I'm on PreP but should anyone feel safer with rubbers that's fine by me.

This may disappoint some on here but I should be very clear that I'm NOT into:

* ladies wear/ lacy panties, stockings, little numbers of all sorts, fems/CDs - it is an instant turn off for me and the "can go without them, man-only mode" option doesn't work for me once I get in my head that you are into that. I'm not judging you - each to their own and I wish you well but there will be no bread out of this flour;

* oral/wank only - I'm too anal oriented;

* I'm not saying "no" to beefy or stocky blokes but obesity is not my thing, sorry! (Again, the definition of the word may be very subjective and therefore debatable but there we are.)

* Arrogant people - an utterly unattractive quality that kills my mojo every single time without fail. Be down to earth, be polite and we will get on fine.

* Bored people. I do feel for you, a little bit, but otherwise I'm not interested. Sorry!

It is fair to say that each of those guys who left those verifications has also said to me they had not experienced man on man sex like that before. This is now the story of my life: listening to guys telling me how their previous sex partners lacked time, patience, imagination or the combo of all 3. I don't do quickies. I find them totally unsatisfying. If I am to meet a guy, I want it to be worthwhile, at least an hour and half of actual play, preferably even more. I am a very confident guy (in bed), I know what I'm doing and which buttons to press to make a guy feel good. Sorry - AMAZING (I don't do merely"good", not anymore). It pays off to be slow, sensual, patient, considerate and tactile, trying to read the guy, his body and his reactions, engaging with his brain, gaining his trust and seeing his lust build up to the point I can see him gagging for me. But even at that point I wouldn't just shove it in and pump away mad - most of you out there already had it shoved in, "pump pump squirt and bye" - leaving you, at least occasionally, unfulfilled and unsatisfied, if not physically then mentally. I care for the guys I meet and want them to enjoy the meet at least as much as I do. The difficulty arises if for whatever reasons we struggle to meet again and guys are then left chasing those sensations and the mental connection - sadly, often unsuccessfully. Somehow they all said they'd love to meet again and experience it all again - is it just the unusual banana-like shape of my dick..? Or that plus the fact that I offer that little extra which others seem to have shortage of and therefore can't offer..?

Any questions - please feel free to msg me and enquire within. Thanks!

P.S. Gentlemen / darlings / Possums. Having had 3 or so crap years, with illness and deaths (including my mum) in the family (not your problem, I know) I am slowly getting back to some normality. Also looking after my partner who has had a few health issues but also after his elderly parents. I work in hospitality but also tend to meet a handful of regulars rather than a new person each time. Due to all of this, my availability is restricted. I will reply to messages WHEN I CAN and any potential meets will be arranged at a time suitable for BOTH parties. I've had enough of the displays of sense of entitlement - I don't owe you anything so stop throwing your Teddy bears out of your prams and show some consideration, and if you truly cannot do just that then please go your merry way, I wish you all the very best but we are incompatible. I'm happy for you to block me, I seriously won't take offence. Look at it as if it were my loss. Thank you.

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