Hi Guys, a polite respectful and considerate top here. (Have a peek at my verifications - there aren't many but they do seem to highlight the above qualities.)
Open to all ages, age is just a number. Happy to be a daddy to a youngster half my age (not that many of them opt for that, their loss - they'll grow older sooner than they think and will experience the struggle of being found as "too old" - what a load of cr*p). A more mature bloke can also be very attractive and I don't shy away from guys in their 50s or even 60+. But it is done on an individual basis, there needs to be mutual attraction and chemistry and as much as I'm sorry for those where the attraction seems to be a one-way street only, I can't be overly apologetic about it either. We all know what we like, we all have our preferences and we all should be grown-ups.
I'm into unhurried sensual sessions, foreplay and body contact, kissing sucking deepthroating licking rimming (I LOVE to rim a man's hole) wanking and fucking, also bum play and toys and for those who are into it.
Not a fan of quickies, let's make it worthwhile.
Love to face-fuck a guy, preferably long n deep until his eyes water and he gags on my tool (as part of foreplay) ;)
Also love nipples n feet, socks n jocks, harnesses n cock rings etc. Admittedly I do like guys with at least some hair on them. Trimmed is good, shaved - only balls. Not a fan of shaven cocks, make me think of a) little boys who haven't grown their pubes yet or b) a dead chicken on a TESCO tray. But then it's just a preference, not set in stone.
A word of clarification re: bb or safe: I'm happy to do both. I'm on PreP but should anyone feel safer with rubbers that's fine by me.
This may disappoint some/many on here but I should be very clear that I'm NOT into:
* ladies wear/ lacy panties, stockings, little numbers of all sorts, fems/CDs - it is an instant turn off for me and the "can go without them, man-only mode" option doesn't work for me once I get in my head that you are into that. I'm not judging you - each to their own and I wish you well but there will be no bread out of this flour;
* oral/wank only - I'm too anal oriented. It ticks my boxes and turns me on big time seeing you gagging for me, your eyes rolling, your toes curled. No amount of sucking or wanking will give you the intensity you'll get from my banana-shaped tool.
* I'm not saying no to beefy or stocky blokes but obesity is not my thing, sorry! (Again, the definition of the word may be very subjective and therefore debatable but there we are.)
* Arrogant people - an utterly unattractive quality that kills my mojo every single time without fail. Be down to earth, be polite and we will get on fine.
* Bored people. It never ceases to amaze me, the amount and the whole concept of people who so openly advertise themselves as "bored" - what are they expecting from the proclamation of their boredom...? - indeed, one must be terribly bored to put it on a gay app/website but hey ho. I do feel for you, a little bit, but otherwise I'm not interested. Sorry!
It is fair to say that each of those guys who left those verifications has also said to me they had not experienced man on man sex like that before. This is now the story of my life: listening to guys telling me how their previous sex partners lacked time, patience, imagination or the combo of all 3. I don't do quickies. I find them totally unsatisfying. If I am to meet a guy, I want at least an hour and half of actual play, preferably even more. I am a very confident bloke (I mean in bed), I know what I'm doing and which buttons to press to make a guy feel good. Sorry - AMAZING (I don't do merely"good", not anymore). It pays off to be slow, sensual, considerate, trying to read the guy, his body and his reactions, engaging with his brain, gaining his trust and seeing his lust build up to the point I can see him gagging for me. But even at that point I wouldn't just shove it in and pump away mad - most of you out there already had it shoved in, "pump pump squirt and bye" - leaving you, at least occasionally, unfulfilled and unsatisfied, if not physically then mentally. I care for the guys I meet and want them to enjoy the meet at least as much as I do. The difficulty arises if for whatever reasons we struggle to meet again and guys are then left chasing those sensations and the mental connection - sadly, often unsuccessfully. Somehow they all said they'd love to meet again and experience it all again - is it just the unusual banana-like shape of my dick..? Or that plus the fact that I offer that little extra which others seem to have shortage of and therefore can't offer..?
Any questions - please feel free to msg me and enquire within. Thanks!
P.S. Gentlemen / darlings / Possums. One thing seems to need clarification. I work in a family business in hospitality, which is not an easy life. I'm also looking after the family seniors (my parents and the in-laws). This combo does indeed restrict my availability. But please show some consideration and try and refrain from messaging me to tell me that you think I am a timewaster on the basis that I did not meet you when you wanted to (usually either now or asap), especially if you live 2-3 counties away from me. You know nothing about me so stay classy please and just block me, I seriously won't take offence. Thank you.
