I'm an 'older' ex-military guy who's not only sane but also one of life's nice guys.
I have a preference for guys younger (and slimmer) than me and (before you ask) although I'm versatile I prefer to be more bottom than top (I don't mind and do enjoy being top as well, but that's in more of a 'flip' type situation). So, with regret... bottom only guys are a 'no-go' for me. Sorry.
Additional info (if you're interested or indeed still reading at this point).
Although I'm ex-military (Squaddie) I'm not slim/fit/toned/defined... never have been. More a case of the muscular-ish, perpetual lardy dad-bod these days.
I'm somewhat reserved until I get to know you. I will (of course) completely respect your requirement for discretion but I don't 'do' anonymous. Call me old fashioned but I like to see who I'm actually meeting in advance.
I'm very much the glass half full type and can usually see the humour in any given situation. I have a somewhat fertile and dark sense of humour which usually relies on smut.
I would never normally be so disrespectful as to say Boo! to a goose but I'd happily tell it to fuck off if it was being a knob.
Professional (as in my job) and often working long hours/days around the UK and N.I.
And finally... things I'm NOT into...
Ladies knickers / tights / lingerie etc.
Rubber / Cosplay / Toys / FF / Scat / Blood / Pain etc.
Being called "Daddy"
Dirty / Role play / Anonymous.
