I'm an 'older' ex-military guy who's not only sane, considerate and well adjusted but also one of life's nice guys too.
I have a preference for guys younger (and slimmer) than me. No... that's not set in stone, just a preference. For me... there's more to a guy than 'just' what he's got dangling between his thighs. Nice to have a mutual appreciation for each of our assorted attributes.
Before you ask, although I'm versatile, I prefer to be more bottom than top (I don't mind, and do enjoy being more versatile, but that's in more of a versatile guys 'flip' type situation). So, with regret... bottom only or bottom/vers guys are usually a 'no-go' for me. Sorry.
Oh... and while I'm on the dynamics of top/bottom. Do please try to be clean and fresh (you know what I mean guys). I'm not at home to "Mr. Brown" in that respect.
Additional info (if you're interested or indeed still reading at this point).
Although I'm ex-military (Squaddie) I'm not slim/fit/toned/defined... never have been. More a case of the muscular-ish, perpetual lardy dad-bod these days.
I adore kissing (hard wired to my cock, it would seem). Add tender caresses and body contact to that to get me purring like a kitten.
I'm somewhat reserved until I get to know you. I will (of course) completely respect your requirement for discretion but I don't 'do' anonymous. Call me old fashioned but I like to see who I'm potentially meeting in advance.
By the same token, please don't be asking for snapchat, telegram (neither of which I use) or WhatsApp details straight off. I'd prefer to get to know you with a few messages back and forth before going down that route.
I'm very much the glass half full type and can usually see the humour in any given situation. I have a somewhat fertile and dark sense of humour which usually relies on smut.
I would never normally be so disrespectful as to say Boo! to a goose but I'd happily tell it to fuck off if it was being a knob.
Professional (as in my job) and often working long hours/days around the UK and Europe. And no... I don't "have a guy in every town", it's diffucult enough with this bod to "get a guy" in this town let alone any others!
And finally... things I'm NOT into...
Oral only doesn't interest me.
Ladies knickers / tights / lingerie etc.
HnH.
Rubber / Cosplay / Toys / FF / Scat / Blood / Pain etc.
Being called "Daddy"
Dirty / Role play / Anonymous.