Hellooo! Adventurous married bi bottom here in South Ockendon . Chubby but working on it, shaven headed and bearded. My ideal is to find a regular buddy of equal deviant mindset for regular chats and meets. 6’0 tall, 15 stone chap, outwardly straight acting but with my alter ego, your regular neighbourhood deviant. Although my wife is aware that I am bi (back in the day we played together with other guys (but unfortunately no longer), she is unaware that I am ‘back on the market’. I have experimented with different sexual activities and have few limits. By the same token, I’m a bit of a pleaser as a lover so although things may turn me on, if they’re a turn off for my partner am open to discussion. The lingerie pics are mainly when am having some me time, it’s by no means a prerequisite. I love pic and video exchange (though not merely as a collector), erotic message exchange leading to phone/cam and ultimately me riding you to exhaustion! I’m chem friendly, and when I have partaken it makes it even harder to suppress my slut side, and also - what limits! I give and expect discretion, and for obvious reasons a meet takes military planning - hopefully this isn’t a turn off. My Kik is the same as my user name here if you’d like to connect , looking forward to seeing more of you !