Not your Daddy. Not into lads who talk about discretion while they are on the down low themselves.
• Bears, rugby lads, stocky or solid builds
• Hair, heft, and a calm physical presence
• Men over 40 who know themselves
• Quiet confidence, humour, warmth
• Proper conversation and real curiosity
• Taking things at a human pace
• Affection that isn’t performative
Not into
• Blank profiles
• Endless tapping with no follow-through
• Drama, games, or urgency-for-the-sake-of-it
• Quick hook-ups
