*** update.. removed the piercing. Loved it, but it kept getting snagged when I got enthusiastic haha****
I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a female, looking to satisfy my bi side occasionally.
She knows, and likes the fact, that I am here. No secrets.
I am fully vers, but tend towards being bottom with a man and vers or top with a tgirl/TS.
Assume I am looking to meet ALONE. If you are a bi guy looking to meet us together, find us on *** where our profile is TomTwinkle, unless I post a meet here specifically mentioning her.
Open to meets with Men, TV/TS and MM couples, MF couples and so on. Can host in Spalding (or Crowland if meeting as an MF), or will travel within reason.
Not really into bushy beards or those that are 60+
Turn offs:
*bushy/long beards
*lazy first messages. I'd rather someone wink if they are shy than a lame first message.
* People
*People with blank or pictureless profiles
*being bombarded with messages.
Pet hate:
This is going to sound like a rant, but it really isn't. My slight peeve is the "what are you into"/"what are you looking for" question you get on sites like this. I get that people think that is getting straight to the point but for me not so much. It is just evading actually being interesting. The answer to the question is... a sexual adventure!
Giving someone that can't think of a more interesting first message a list to work through, means that any meet will likely involve them ticking off that list like a robot. That isn't an adventure! If I was to say something I don't like, it might just be beacause a previous partner was bad at something, but you might be incredible and I'd miss out.
I have a few boundaries and respect boundaries of others, and I'm open to hearing about YOUR fantasies. But my fantasy is a meet that hasn't been defined by the first couple of messages we shared!
