Hi, thank you for looking at my profile. I suspect that this will seem far too long and wordy for some people, and that is fine. It represents me having given this a lot of thought, that is all, and will hopefully make it clear what I am (and what I am not) looking for.
I will be clear from the start that at the moment I have no experience of being with other men. It is something I have thought about for a long time but until now have never had the confidence to move from thinking to doing. I have mulled over what role I see myself in when I meet with another man. I have come to the conclusion that I want to experience what it is to bottom for someone. I think that I can get my head around being with another man more if I am going to be experiencing something completely new.
So, what does that actually mean? In short, I still don't quite know! I will need to go slowly at all of this, being honest. I am sure there are plenty of people who jump straight into this and experience all that there is to bottoming for someone on their first meeting. That is not going to be me! Equally, I am not a prude, I know what it is I am coming on to here for, it is just that there will need to be an evolution of the things that I am happy to happen to me, that is all.
So, what can you expect from me. Well, things I will definitely do is turn up when I say I will, be polite and engaging (if a little nervous), and it goes without saying I will be clean and presentable. What I won't do is anything that I am not comfortable with. I am doing this for fun and excitement, not for someone to pressure or take advantage of me. If that is something you can't tolerate then that is fine, there are plenty more people on here for you to choose from.
Finally, what sort of people am I looking to meet? In an ideal world, I would like to find someone who sees themselves as a top, but like me has no experience with other men. I am aware that this has the potential to be 'the blind leading the blind', but I do like the idea of exploring with someone who is totally new to this as well and has not much in the way of expectations as to what will happen. However, I am aware that is unlikely to happen, so more realistically I would like to meet someone around my own age who is relaxed, polite, and is happy with the fact I am new to this and I will need to go at a pace I am comfortable with.
So, that was long and very possibly tedious. Well done for getting to the end of this. I have a big fear of being misunderstood, hence I always feel the need to over explain things. If this has not put you off and you feel like you fit what I am looking for then please message me and we can chat.
