I think there's two reasons to wear lingerie and girly things. One. A kink which is extremely cool or two. Because of the feminine thing.. for me it's the feminine thing therefore when I look for a meet it has to be more sensual than fetish or just letting someone get off on me and what I'm wearing. I've gotten back into shaving the body and now replenishment of the wardrobe. I still can't do make up and I am not convincing. But that doesn't mean I don't feel inside ..